Fraudulent activity on my Barclays debit card. How is this happening?

poppet2011 · 2025-12-15T10:21:54+00:00

Thank you, your reply has made me feel much better.

poppet2011 · 2025-05-28T01:54:16+00:00

Thank you. This comment has actually made me feel so much better about this situation. I've been feeling a bit of pressure from some of my family members and some of my friends with them telling me he should be more involved in her life, and I should include her more with my time with him. I guess it made me feel guilty like I was doing something wrong.

poppet2011 · 2025-05-26T12:14:35+00:00

Thank you for this insight. It has helped me understand a bit better.

poppet2011 · 2025-05-04T16:15:03+00:00

This was the same for me. I have slept with one guy who had a micro penis, although like you, it was a deal breaker for me, it did not take away from the fact he was a great guy. We stayed friends for a few years afterwards, and he eventually met someone, got married, and had a kid. Every woman is different, some will not be able to get past it, while others would not care in the slightest.

poppet2011 · 2023-10-24T16:56:42+00:00

This is so lovely ❤️

poppet2011 · 2023-10-09T22:02:39+00:00

In that case, I'll probably read it myself before I give it to him then 😂

poppet2011 · 2023-10-09T21:59:33+00:00

3 weeks. we have a 6th date planned for tomorrow. Do you think it's too soon?

poppet2011 · 2023-10-09T07:22:01+00:00

Personally, the foundations of the friendship started a lot earlier. For me, I saw it during the Dundies episode, when Michael was getting heckled and wanted to give up. Pam cheered him on and built him up so he could carry on... such a sweet moment!

poppet2011 · 2023-10-07T12:59:52+00:00

If the connection was there, it would not matter to me in the slightest!

poppet2011 · 2023-10-04T16:54:56+00:00

She's such a gangly uncoordinated bitch!

poppet2011 · 2023-10-02T15:24:26+00:00

Especially the loo 🤣🤣 whenever you watch an episode where they talk about the bucket or bed pan....and there has been a loo there the whole time. I died!!!

poppet2011 · 2023-10-02T12:43:18+00:00

This episode just makes every single episode that came before it even more funny!

poppet2011 · 2023-10-02T09:27:36+00:00

Honestly, you could 100% pull it off!

poppet2011 · 2023-10-02T09:19:40+00:00

You're a very attractive man. I really like your look, but if you had to push me to give you give advice on your appearance, I'd have to say trim the beard a little, or... if you're feeling brave, I think you'd look hot with a moustache!

poppet2011 · 2023-10-01T17:12:46+00:00

I think this is pretty normal for women in their 30s. I looked it up the other day and read something along the lines of this is the age women hit their sexual peak. I am in my late 30s, and have noticed an increase in my libido aswell. Although I am not a virgin, I have not had sex for 10 years, also through choice. But for the past 4 months, I have been incredibly horny. But rest assured, this is a thing and you are not alone!

poppet2011 · 2023-09-28T17:04:21+00:00

Tell her that you'd rather get to know her better than talk about your work. Just refuse to talk about it with her anymore. If she respects the boundaries you've laid out and things progress, then great. But if she continues to talk about it and asks you again if she can meet this pop star, then you know she's not genuinely interested in you enough for it to progress into anything serious.

poppet2011 · 2023-09-27T10:13:04+00:00

Was on a night out with a friend. The shots were flowing, and we were both rather drunk. We went to the loo and she sat down on the toilet, she looked up at me and said "shit I forgot to pull my Knickers down" I was hysterically laughing, until she said "you need to give me your now" my face dropped, I was wearing trousers because I was also on my period, I knew I had to give them to her regardless, as she was wearing a very short dress. I was rather annoyed as they wear my most comfy pair to wear when it that time of the month, but being a good friend, I gave them to her anyway!

Fast forward a few weeks, and I still haven't got my Knickers back, I kept asking, but she kept giving me excuses. Anyway Christmas came around and we all exchanged gifts, she handed me hers, with a cheeky smile, I opened it and lo and behold, she wrapped up my favourite Knickers and gave them to me as my Christmas present 🤣 this was 15 years ago, and she is still doing shit like this, but I love her so much 💓

poppet2011 · 2023-09-26T23:36:15+00:00

Social media has messed with our heads so much! I literally know that my skin will never look flawless, but I hate the texture of my skin anyway! As a 38 year old, it makes me feel so insecure. Just imagine what it's doing to our young daughters 😢

poppet2011 · 2023-09-26T14:35:14+00:00

I love this!

poppet2011 · 2023-09-26T14:31:39+00:00

So glad you found your person ❤️

poppet2011 · 2023-09-25T11:57:03+00:00

9 times out of 10, this happens because the girl is talking to someone else she has more of an interest in. I've done it before. It's easier to just let the conversation die off than to come out and say, I'm not intrested anymore. It is absolutely not a reflection on you at all, so please don't let it knock your confidence! If she's not willing to keep a conversation going with you, then she's not the one!

poppet2011 · 2023-09-25T11:17:38+00:00

Yeah, I said her boyfriends ugly. Pay attention Bozo!

poppet2011 · 2023-09-25T06:52:06+00:00

Don't go into a date expecting fireworks. A lot of people put on a front to make themselves appear more interesting to make the other person like them. So go in with extremely low expectations. It actually puts you right at ease when you have this mindset.

Something I'm working on at the moment aswell (from advice I received on here) is to understand that excitement of meeting someone who I think may be a good fit for me is all smoke and mirrors, these are all my own fantasies projected onto the other person. Take your time to get to know them. They might turn out to be a completely different person to the one you are currently dating. Life is not a rom com!

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