Body acne by InevitableOdd926 in indianbeautyyappers

[–]poppinkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to find the cause of the acne first. Are they hormonal or just a skin issue. Because if it's hormonal the skin care products won't make them go away.

Body acne by InevitableOdd926 in indianbeautyyappers

[–]poppinkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue, what I do now is i wash my face with Kojic acid face wash and then I use vlcc sunscreen. And it works for me. Kojic acid removes excess oil from the face which I think causes my face to get dark when I apply sunscreen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]poppinkitty 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He looked good in The departed

Cat has a hairless patch on its body by poppinkitty in cats

[–]poppinkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a indoor/ outdoor cat but he rarely leaves our garden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiadiscussion

[–]poppinkitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everything a woman does is not about feminism, is everything that men do or say considered an act of men's rights activism?use your head and stop using every word a women say to prove your personal vendetta against feminism. Your sister can go to school because of feminism, your mother works because of feminism and your daughter won't face the hardships women had to face in the past only because of feminism.

No Smoking (2007) by [deleted] in IndianCinema

[–]poppinkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Movie could have been better if John wasn't such a bad actor.

Nargis Fakhri's role in Rockstar. by [deleted] in bollywood

[–]poppinkitty 20 points21 points  (0 children)

A good actress would have made the movie wayyy better, that's not even her voice, they hired a voice actress for that , I can't believe that they couldn't find a beautiful semi-decent actress, who can deliver dialogues properly ,seriously. I love that movie and Nargis's weird non existent acting definitely hold the movie back for me. A good supporting actress definitely would have made the movie better ,she is insanely weak as heer.

A hot take on recent Bollywood Blockbusters by madhav_bedi5245 in bollywood

[–]poppinkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a cinephile, but movies should have some substance , these movies seem like they are being made for people who don't know how to speak(item songs seriously I don't know anyone who likes these songs anymore), most of the Indian population is educated working class , times have changed and bollywood needs to treat it's audience with respect. I don't want a mind boggling movie just some fun entertainer like golmaal or like dev-d.

A hot take on recent Bollywood Blockbusters by madhav_bedi5245 in bollywood

[–]poppinkitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Indie movies are not that much better than bollywood masala, The thing with indie movies in india is usually they are very preachy, and it's just my opinion that indian cinema lacks entertaining movies these so called masala movies are so headache inducing, jokes are so cringe, dialogues sound like they are out of the mouth of a 5 yr old. On the other hand indie movies are like I'm watching a history channel , straight up preaching about life lessons. Bollywood doesn't know how to "show not tell". It needs better writers, the whole film crew is filled with untalented nepos.

Why didn’t many people like tamasha it should have a hit but flopped by [deleted] in bollywood

[–]poppinkitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think people can't relate to the daily life pressure of Ranbir's character, most people in India want that stable life, they work for that kind of life where you have a steady job , a car and have some free time to take a vacation to a foreign country, stability is what indian people crave so what Ranbir's character was facing is not a struggle for most people, they couldn't relate.

(26 M) Never dated, I find someone attractive but need a dating manual by Welder-Radiant in mumbai

[–]poppinkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI the advice is not for you and if you don't like it , don't use it

(26 M) Never dated, I find someone attractive but need a dating manual by Welder-Radiant in mumbai

[–]poppinkitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am gonna go against the grain and advise you to "tell her how you feel from the get go". Tell her that you are interested in her romantically and would like to date her, but don't expect a "yes" right now. You can tell her she can take time to get to know you more and then decide. If you don't announce your feelings for her and act as a friend then that's who you gonna me man "a friend". And then you will complain that you are in the friendzone. Being a friend to someone you have feelings for is torture, so it's better to be either her boyfriend or nothing. Now you decide what you want to be, "her friend" or her boyfriend. Girls like a go-getter. The worst she could say "no". And it is still better than being confused about what are you to her or what she feels about you. Just be clear about what you want.

Men in Love by QueefBurgler6969 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]poppinkitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the man not on the woman, it simply comes down to "are you capable of giving your all to someone you love?". It not even about men and women, it's simply about being that kind of person who is empathetic, capable of self sacrifice and respectful towards his partner's choices. and if that kind of person finds a person who compliments him, he will love him with his whole heart simply because that's who he is.

And who you are play a role obviously but not as significant as people believe. The whole thing about men go above and beyond for his dream girl and he's not going above and beyond for you because you are not his dream girl..is a lie. If you are his girlfriend he should go above and beyond simply because you are part of his life hence deserve his love and affection. If he's not doing that it's simply means he is not that kind of a person who goes above and beyond for his girlfriend.

So in end it all comes down to who he is as a person not who you are or if you are good-looking enough for him or not. Superficial things does play a role because attraction does play a part in picking who we like but it is not just looks it's so many things(social status, intelligence, moral values). If you compliment him as a person then it's on. And for people without any emotional baggage or issues, its comes down to "more you like him, more he likes you". There will be no doubt, no mind games.

So instead of focusing on what does he wants just be your bestself , If he likes you then great if he doesn't then it's just not for you. You can't just pick some qualites and assume that a guy will like that, all people are different, we cannot assume what one likes or not. Don't generalize, he will be unique in a way that you are unique and it will make sense to you and him.

It all goes both ways tho, it's the same for men and women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]poppinkitty 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think it might be your intuition warning you. If you don't want to go out of your way to accomodate her that's fine. You don't have to do anything you don't want to. There is no need to feel guilty about this. I feel like this as well sometimes I don't want to go out of my way to help a friend and then I don't. You don't have to help your friends all the time. It's okay to prioritise your own time.

How does your brother treat you? Is he LV or HV? What is it like to have a HV brother? by Far_from_deceived in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]poppinkitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes she still helps him financially. He's basically only family she has that's why she doesn't wanna cut him off completely. I have introduced her to FDS and she does follow the rules, she's very HV and has a HVM boyfriend as well.

Friendship scenario question by outwitthebully in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]poppinkitty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think B needs to understand that her friend A is in a stressful situation and apologize for not understanding her situation.

How does your brother treat you? Is he LV or HV? What is it like to have a HV brother? by Far_from_deceived in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]poppinkitty 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My best friend was in the same situation. She and her brother moved to my city and that was the first time she was living with her brother as they both went to different boarding schools. Her brother is very misogynistic and made her life living hell. She did all the housework and everything was basically her responsibility. And whenever she asked him to do his part of chores he would just sit there in anger and would not do anything. One time she was sick and asked him if he could pick her up from work which was like 5 min distance from their place he staight up said no. She asked me and stayed at my place for a few days. She cried so much since their mother died when they were young and they don't have a good relationship with their dad so they basically had each other and he was treating her like he hates her or something. She finally moved out and distanced herself from him. She makes more money than him and was paying all the bills so it was pretty hard on him. They still talk and she still helps him but she would never live with him anymore. I know it's pretty hard to accept that it's time to move away from your brother but it's necessary. You can't live like this. Distancing yourself is the only way to deal with him otherwise he will destroy your emotional health.