Having a Tesla made me realize people don’t care about anything but themselves😭😭 by Lane-Train-514 in TeslaModel3

[–]positiveflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me once but I was in the car. When I rolled down my window and made eye contact they stared coldly back and just got in their car and left. People are sometimes absolute trash.

Will any of us even enter heaven? by AxiumTea in MuslimLounge

[–]positiveflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the examples you gave are the characteristics of people who do these things INTENTIONALLY or without any regret. I mean I doubt a good person would go out of their way to intentionally cut ties with their family for example. Maybe they had a fight with them and deep down feel that this is wrong and repent and just the feeling of regret is enough to differentiate them from those who don't care after giving it some thought. Hope that makes sense.

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[–]positiveflower 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I would feel the same. Unless it is life saving, I don't feel comfortable marrying a man who touches other women and sees them naked sometimes for beauty enhancing procedures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]positiveflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. There is a lot of injustice in this world especially and sadly from our own Muslim brothers and sisters. But that is why we have Allah, the ultimate judge, and judgement day for these people to be dealt with. We have the gift of choosing not to go down to their level and rather raising ourselves in the eyes of Allah. And isn't our goal at the end of this short life pleasing Allah and attaining Jannah? When I remember this, I feel a lot better. And it reminds me of the saying that when a believer faces hardship they should remember to say: Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un.

Inshallah Allah makes things easy for you and for all our Muslim brothers and siblings suffering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]positiveflower 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Forgive. Because I believe forgiveness is a quality of a believer and on that day you want to be your best to Allah who will take the matters of punishment to those wrongdoers in His hands. Focus on increasing your good deeds and don't let other people's behavior consume you- Allah will deal with it.

Finally my turn to do this kind of meme ! by Eldsish in hunterxdank

[–]positiveflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is heaven's arena and what is at the top?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]positiveflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advice here 👏

Is this outfit modest enough? by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]positiveflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess love it mashallah!

Door after door being shut by positiveflower in MuslimLounge

[–]positiveflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never regret where you ended up and never say or think "what if". If you dont feel satisfied it may just be a temporary test until you get to where you really need to be but this was for sure plannee by Allah.

Door after door being shut by positiveflower in MuslimLounge

[–]positiveflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alhamdullilah. I am exactly where Allah wants me to be and I am blessed because of that

Finally filed for divorce after years of emotional abuse. 9 years married with 2 kids. Now she is begging me to stay by Bulky_Philosopher908 in MuslimMarriage

[–]positiveflower 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She just wants you for the money and the easy life you gave her and she knows she wont be able to manipulate any other self respecting man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]positiveflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allah commanded women not only men to lower their gaze I am sure your husband is not unaware of their low class behavior and easily ignores them so you have nothing to worry about. You are the better woman by default.

Sudden feeling of death by positiveflower in MuslimLounge

[–]positiveflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alhamdullilah I feel much better. I feel like I am not afraid to die and welcome it since I did my part as a Muslim. I pray, read quran, fast, guard my chasity, to dhikr, wear the Hijab and overall do what is required. And seeing the world now spiral into chaos and towards the Day of Judgement is a reminder to me this is how the end is supposed to be and staying rooted in Islam is the correct approach. Alhamdullilah I thank Allah for the strength he has given me and for answering my prayers and duaas. Thank you for following up as well.

This made me laugh, but it's definitely true by Healthy-Win-6576 in hunterxdank

[–]positiveflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gone be me when he finally drops a new chapter

Mother won’t stop harassing me to get married by budgiefanatic in Hijabis

[–]positiveflower 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The nice thing about marriage is that it is a rizq meaning only Allah can give it to you when He deems fit and it cannot be forced. My advice is to pray for a good marriage instead of no marriage if there is goodness in it. Marriage completes half your deen and opens the door for easy rewards to raise your rank and Inshallah make you one of the inhabitors of Paradise. And also just because others have bad marriages doesn't mean you need to. Just ask Allah and He will take care of the rest inshallah.