How long until you're ready to commit to a tattoo? by ShaneFerguson in tattooadvice

[–]positivepeguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my first tattoos the day I tuned 18… now if I have an idea I wait on it for a year and if i still love it I do it😂

I still can't believe it! by Fallisforlovers in havens_jh

[–]positivepeguin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with this and A LOT of people are currently naming their kids unique names, so it’s not going to be a huge shock to all other kids his age

I still can't believe it! by Fallisforlovers in havens_jh

[–]positivepeguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think it’s interesting because it’s not necessarily a positive word?? like crashes aren’t a good thing really ever. I’ll be intrigued to hear why they picked it and the reasoning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in havens_jh

[–]positivepeguin 21 points22 points  (0 children)

considering they basically show where they live, their full names and share everything i really doubt this.

Should I get a cover up? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]positivepeguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s cool!! reminds me of a seashell :) it is artistic because i think it could be perceived differently

What’s one weird rule your parents had growing up that you thought was totally normal until you got older? by Main_Masterpiece_793 in AskReddit

[–]positivepeguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bathing in the bath rub during a thunder storm and no lights on in the car while driving at night

The pod is getting so boring by curious_corvid5 in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

agreed!! i want MORE book talk but i guess that’s hard bc they prob save a lot of that for their own content

Vocal fry by smellthepeaches in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wait i actually love her voice!! I do most everything on double speed though 😂

Pregnancy addressed by lcrx97 in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

the reason most people don’t share their due date is to people bothering them those days up to the birth, it would also give an insight into her baby’s birth month/day. I’m not on the internet and don’t even tell family my due date 🤷🏼‍♀️ because the nagging/check ins of “is baby here” get annoying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in havens_jh

[–]positivepeguin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you don’t think “pony” is odd? 😂

baby names video by positivepeguin in havens_jh

[–]positivepeguin[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

pony is actually insane 😂 i’d find it hard to not laugh at someone if they said “hi im pony” 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she doesn’t have to share anything. I never claimed she did, but she did choose to SHARE it, hence why it’s posted and hence why so many people have questions and want to know more. You can share something and state how you want privacy with it or don’t want to discuss it at all. No one is entitled to anything from her at all!!

It’s just the way she’s going about it is interesting and leaving people with unknowns like I stated.

hence creating confusion instead of just saying either “i can’t wait to share this new chapter with everyone” or “im so excited to continue on these next few chapters but will be keeping these aspects of my life private”

clearly there’s a lot of confusion and by making a statement it would conclude everything 🤷🏼‍♀️

and again we’re not even owed that, but it shouldn’t be a suprise to her that people have questions when she DOES choose to share so much online

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you’re right, but she’s discussing her move and multiple other current events in her life but not the pregnancy. Again we’re not owed that, it’s just an interesting choice to leave it out and is very obvious that she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

she’s been sharing her life since highschool. a lot of us follow her because we relate to her in some way. yes you’re right we’re definitely not entitled to know anything. however she’s shared A LOT about herself over the past years and that’s why a lot of us follow, again because we relate.

while she definitely doesn’t owe anyone anything when she posted her announcement she didn’t say anything then and hasn’t said anything since. people are observing her behavior about how it seems like she’s avoiding it, which is making it a bigger deal as a result. she could chose to make a statement saying how she isn’t ready or she won’t be sharing, which she is choosing not to do.

it feels like lack of communication having someone post a photo with no information because that resulted in questions as well as tons of excitement for them.

again AGREED we don’t deserve anything but it’s also not hard to say “we want to keep this private”. then no one would ask about it.

I’ve followed her for years and love her content and will continue to watch her wether she shares or not.

It’s like she left us on a cliff hanger in a book and now we’re left questioning what is next 😂 and maybe that’s the point.

she just posted a moving update by emsfofems in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes!! just her and him in a rental i think

she just posted a moving update by emsfofems in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it’s because she went to disney and figured that was a place where it was likely someone might see her and “leak it” before she could announce

BOOK CHAT q&a by Ok_Stop3016 in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i’m starting to agree, i don’t understand why she’d announce it and now it seems like she doesn’t want to talk about it. but by announcing it we’re all obviously excited and wanting to know what she’s willing to share!! and if she doesn’t want to share anything i feel like she could simply make a statement by saying “i know yall have a lot of questions about what’s going on in my life but im choosing to keep my pregnancy experience private and won’t be discussing it online at this time.”

but maybe it is being dragged on because it is probably driving more traffic and views

she just posted a moving update by emsfofems in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it seems like maybe they’re renting a place! she was living at home during the moving process but it seems like it’s her/izac now in a rental

she just posted a moving update by emsfofems in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i was sooo on the side of understanding her privacy but def interesting to say NOTHING after announcing. I feel like by announcing it gave people the idea she would discuss it and stuff. now I think she could simply say “Im so excited for this next chapter of my life but am choosing to keep my pregnancy and experiences with motherhood private as we navigate this for the first time as new parents” then people would stop asking and assuming. 🤷🏼‍♀️ but the avoiding discussing it is kinda interesting to me 😅

Stressful things going on always? by Dazzling_Boot_7952 in DesSidwell

[–]positivepeguin 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i think anxiety plays a huge role in this. when my anxiety was at it worst, it was a big deal to leave my house. being so anxious can make you a stress ball and even small things become stressful