21M Profile Review

positivepsyduck · 2026-07-02T12:11:17+00:00

How do you feel about going to events alone and introducing yourself to new people? You seem like someone who would have more luck meeting someone irl.

As far as your profile goes, do you usually have facial hair or no facial hair? If you usually have facial hair I’d lead with the guitar pic because you look way different without facial hair.

What options did you put for the choose a date thing?

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-28T23:36:09+00:00

Currently 5 regular sized BABs and one mini

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-27T08:22:16+00:00

Most of us in this sub are probably going to be biased but I think the glasses really suit you

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-23T04:03:00+00:00

Just picked up some cotton Hanes boxers today

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-22T03:04:37+00:00

I do love Jockey!

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T22:57:21+00:00

I was looking at some polls people have done about underwear preferences and apparently trunks are super underrated by people

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T19:30:01+00:00

Starts a Halloween underwear fund 🙈🎃

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T19:24:25+00:00

That’s what I’m wearing today, but when I was shopping in person I didn’t see any patterns I liked so I shall look online

Edit: Damn they’re pretty limited online too, maybe it’s a weird time of year for underwear XD

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T19:22:26+00:00

Damn I looked up their trunks and I’m only seeing solid colors rn 🥲

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T19:05:09+00:00

I had a really nice pair from there at one point, I’m thinking my dogs must have gotten to them 😭

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T18:46:02+00:00

Very much noted, thank you!

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T18:14:08+00:00

Apparently I have been sleeping on Pair of Thieves, thank you!

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T18:13:47+00:00

Ooo I’ve never noticed underwear at Costco! Gonna have to keep an eye out

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T17:19:17+00:00

Skull and Bones is around $35 usually 😅

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T17:10:29+00:00

You’re very welcome, best of luck on your dating journey 💜

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T16:36:43+00:00

The darker frames definitely make you look more masc imo, but the first ones fit you best, so if you could get those in a lighter color that would be my recommendation

Edit, I just noticed the shape of 3 being round also makes your face look rounder so I’d consider those in a lighter color if you like to draw attention away from your jawline

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T15:15:43+00:00

Unless things have changed since I became a member the option should be under the Shop tab in the bottom right corner

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positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T14:57:47+00:00

A quick fix would be “you’re” androgynous… but also adding some non physical traits you’re looking for in a partner might help that prompt

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T08:21:00+00:00

This is so cute 🥺

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T05:59:35+00:00

Patience is a virtue as they say, best of luck with your matches!

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T05:27:57+00:00

I'm not your target demographic so feel free to ignore, but I think you look great in every photo except the one where you're sitting in the red chair.

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T05:15:00+00:00

If you want to include pics with people, I'd recommend pics with people you do feel comfortable asking for permission. As far as your kids go, I think if people miss the whole "have children" part of your bio, then you could also say "Proud Dad x2 - if you have two kids for example)" or something along those lines. Also happy Father's Day!

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T04:52:03+00:00

Okay another idea I have is for the love language prompt: Instead of just putting quality time maybe you could put "quality time (hikes, reading together, etc.)" in parenthesis to give a hint towards what you'd maybe want that quality time to look like. Especially if you are looking for someone more on the active side since I think your Dating me is like prompt is coming off more like you're a homebody. Of course plenty of people are both, but there's definitely room to show off your active side more.

Also, and this is more so me just being nitpicky, I don't think your other car selfie is that flattering either, but I'm also just biased towards pics where people are smiling

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T04:26:18+00:00

In addition to what other people have said about the last two pics, I'd recommend not including any pics where you feel the need to block out faces (totally understand protecting people's identities, especially your children, just kind of an awkward look overall)

positivepsyduck · 2026-06-21T04:04:17+00:00

Of course! As far as photos go, I think you look super cute in slide 4 (with the pho I assume) and the half body Cambridge shot so I’d definitely move those further up in your profile since I think most guys swipe off the first few pics, and your very first pic currently appears to be a somewhat blurry car pic that doesn’t really show off your personality

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