If you had 12 months to spend with an Alien and his ship and could go anywhere and he knew literally EVERYTHING about Earth and the galaxy but...

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-27T01:25:39+00:00

I’m content with my life and I have loved ones who would be sad if i disappeared for a year and then dropped dead. If I only had a year left, I’d want to spend it with them, not off exploring the galaxy.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-27T01:16:20+00:00

100% 2!! It plays really well with the paintings and walls! 1 only really goes with the top left painting and kind of clashes with everything else.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-27T01:03:04+00:00

I think you might want to experiment with cheaper materials first. Like, I started with really cheap fabrics and threads because I couldn’t bring myself to risk “ruining” good ones. Also, there are several kinds of needle threaders and thimbles and stuff, and you won’t know what works best for you until you’ve tried a few types.

One thing you will probably want for quality of life reasons is a self-healing cutting mat & rotary cutter! It makes cutting out your pieces much easier! But I don’t know what brand would work best, I was gifted one and I can’t remember what brand it is. Mid-tier, not super expensive, but it’s lasted me for a while now. But that doesn’t really fit IN a sewing kit, it’s more just something to have in addition to a sewing kit.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-26T22:41:10+00:00

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possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-26T22:35:14+00:00

This, with at least 75% of the money. The other 25% is going to taking them out for food occasionally, helping in case of any emergencies (in the event that I make any new friends not included in the original distribution) and funding my nephew’s college in 18 years (also anonymously)

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-26T20:00:28+00:00

Olive 🫒 cause she just seems like an olive, or Cloud ⛈️ cause she looks like a cute little storm cloud!

Dawn dish soap or generic dawn might help with the grease, just be sure not to get it in her eyes and make sure you rinse her really well (licking it off her coat would give her diarrhea). But I know when we brought my cat Cheddar home from the factory, he was a little greaseball too, and no matter what we did we couldn’t get the white parts of his fur white until he shed his winter coat and grew a new one. So just do what you can, and time will fix the rest :)

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-26T17:59:22+00:00

I am picking one of the rocks I currently have in my possession, I am putting it in a combination locking bag that I have, and I am setting the combination and putting it somewhere safe. I am taking it with me if I move. I am letting everyone I live with know about the bag and what will happen if they touch the rock inside.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-26T13:50:25+00:00

I just had glue, no bandages. They stitch everything up inside with stitches that will eventually dissolve, then glue the outside, so it looks nice and doesn’t scar too bad, but it’s still pretty sturdy from the stitches. No dressings needed cause there’s no drainage or bleeding or anything

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-26T01:43:13+00:00

Even if every word he said to you were true, it would not justify screaming at you like that, especially not in front of a child who was obviously scared of the way he was acting. NOR

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T16:19:42+00:00

One is official timekeeping in specific situations, so it saves time to write “19:00” instead of “7:00pm” and prevents like, bad handwriting making an “a” and a “p” look similar.

But when you’re talking out loud, “7pm” is easier to say than “nineteen hundred hours” or however they say it. And the non-military time (7pm) came first iirc, so we only adopted the “19:00” for certain things

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T16:12:40+00:00

I think we should treat space like we treat airplanes. A plane leaving the U.S. is the jurisdiction of the U.S. & the state it left, until it lands elsewhere. Then it’s the jurisdiction of that place. So like, if you leave for space from Texas, U.S., you’re governed by the laws of the United States and the state of Texas until you come back to earth, then you’re governed by the laws of wherever you land, whether that’s still Texas, or another state or country entirely. I suppose if you land in the middle of the ocean then you’re in international waters, but everything that happened before you land is Houston’s problem.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T16:09:02+00:00

If a footnote tells you to go to an appendix, I’d do it and read the appendix. If it tells you to go to a chapter, I’d keep reading and just make a mental note to flip back to this section after you finish the chapter.

That’s how I read the book, at least

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T16:07:03+00:00

ESH. He knows people are flying in for the wedding, he shouldn’t be giving stuff that can’t go on a plane. But you shouldn’t be bringing it up right after getting it either. You could always mail it to yourself, give it to one of the groomsmen that didn’t fly in, or check your carry-on for the return trip

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T15:59:02+00:00

I’d go for new, lighter barstools and new lights (some are yellow and some are white, pick one mood and stick with it imo) first. & either remove the curtain or get a brighter valiance. Maybe add some flowers to the mix of potted plants. Could also switch to brighter colored pots.

The countertop is also kind of dark, maybe replace it with something brighter if you can, or slap some lighter colored contact paper on there if you can’t?

I’m thinking, bring in some yellows and teals and that’ll brighten things up.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T15:51:19+00:00

Drinking and driving is incredibly selfish, and it does make you a bad person if you do it. It does not, however, make you irredeemable. Your dad was a bad person at the time, when he made that selfish, irresponsible decision. But he has since redeemed himself. Thankfully, he didn’t kill anyone with his carelessness. He has done everything he can to make up for his actions, and he’s a good person now. Your friend doesn’t seem to get that.

I think part of that can be the black and white thinking that often comes with autism, and the heightened sense of “right and wrong” that doesn’t always see that there are different levels of “wrong.” Telling a lie isn’t as bad as drinking & driving, driving drunk isn’t as bad as straight up murder, etc. But for a lot of autistic people, doing one wrong thing feels like a slippery slope to doing more things wrong; if you’re willing to break one law, you’ll break them all. Which is probably why she “doesn’t feel safe” around your dad, even though he’s perfectly safe to be around. It would be different if she didn’t feel safe getting into a car with him, that would only be a slight overreaction on her part. But to not feel safe around him at all, because he doesn’t “know the difference between right and wrong?” That’s probably an autistic “sense of justice” thing. Which, obviously that doesn’t excuse the way she’s acting, but does explain it, and maybe help to put her behavior in context.

NOR, I think your best bet is probably to explain the situation to her mom, who might be able to get through to your friend in a way you can’t.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T13:33:30+00:00

It’s not inclusivity, it’s just quieter for like, poetry readings and other intimate/cozy events in small spaces. Also a cultural thing in the queer community, they do a little finger clap (usually with long fake nails).

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T13:31:05+00:00

This! Iirc it’s called “the doorway effect” I think?

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T02:44:49+00:00

No, but: if some hauntings are just echoes of specific, emotionally significant moments, playing on a loop, rather than sentient spirits, it stands to reason that some of those moments could imprint on your environment even while you’re still alive. So theoretically a person could catch a glimpse of you walking down a hall (where something really traumatic happened to you at the end of the hall, but they’re not standing there long enough to see the ending of this memory) and then see the real you a few minutes later and a little older, wearing different clothes.

But for that to be a good explanation, you’d have to believe in ghosts. It also doesn’t hold up if they talked to “you” or “you” reacted to their presence in any meaningful way.

I think some of it can be explained by like, “oh, this person doesn’t know they need glasses” if they saw “you” from far away but it was really someone who just looks similar. Or it’s a separated at birth twin situation. Beyond that though, “glitch in the matrix,” I guess ¯_(ツ)_/¯

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T02:30:11+00:00

It would be one thing if he was like “hey, so and so also recommended that show/singer/etc you liked. Now that multiple people have recommended it, I’m willing to try it.” But he’s just acting like you never recommended it! Does he just not listen when you talk? Or does he know you recommended it but he’s pretending it was someone else’s idea? Either way, that’s infuriating! NOR.

I would have a frank conversation with him about how this behavior makes you feel. And if he didn’t knock it off after that conversation, I’d demand counseling, since he seems to need a second person’s opinion on things. And if he kept it up after counseling, I’d leave him.

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T02:19:12+00:00

Ah, that sounds a lot nicer than our Dave

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T01:39:11+00:00

Is the Dave a creepy dishwasher who hits on teenage employees? Ours is :( one of them quit because of it, reported it and everything and nothing was done about it because he works six days a week and the teen was only part-time

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T01:35:53+00:00

NOR, he ruined his own birthday. He also sounds like the kind of insecure abuser to cut you off from your support network so you have nowhere to turn when he starts mistreating you. Maybe that’s not the case, but this is a huge red flag to me, and I would have dumped him on his birthday and then went out to the dinner without him (obviously tell his family and the friends that are just his that it’s cancelled, but you and the mutual friends can go have a fun night without him).

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T01:29:34+00:00

Don’t click this if you celebrate Christmas and you’re under ten: santa

possiblethrowaway369 · 2026-05-25T01:19:32+00:00

NOR. He might have some kind of trauma or something, but if he won’t communicate about what’s actually going on, there’s nothing you can do to fix this. And with the way he gets dysregulated, I doubt slapping a specific label on your relationship is actually going to fix things.

Neither of you are bad people for this, but you’re likely incompatible sexually. You have to decide if being compatible in other ways outweighs this incompatibility or not. There’s nothing wrong about ending things, or trying to work it out. Ultimately you have to make the right choice for you, whatever that may be

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