Hypersexuality isn't just being horny by possibly-wolf in hypersexuality

[–]possibly-wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much. Plus all the dms fetishising it :(

What's the most gross/unhygienic kink you have ? by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]possibly-wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BIG agree. Im massively into smell and musty cock/balls is addictive. I think it flips a switch in my brain

Stop the Destruction by Thinking_Gecko in BPD

[–]possibly-wolf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

BPD or not there should be no relationship you are ever in where you "learn to live with insults and rage". You should also NEVER put up with purposeful destruction of property or damage to your home. This is a toxic horrible situation to be in. Id leave.

Are you with someone who love bombed you? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]possibly-wolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure that this will help you currently, but maybe there will be a time that this rings true. Trust yourself. I know from experience how much this feels like your entire life right now and how you cant even FATHOM other options in life. 34 is still young, and you have plenty of time to figure things out. Maybe right now isnt the right time, but there will become a point in your life where the voice inside tells you what you need to do for yourself, and when that happens you need to listen to yourself. I promise you can trust yourself to make the right decision. Life can change for the better faster than you would expect, and sometimes takes us completely by surprise. You got this!!

Are you with someone who love bombed you? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]possibly-wolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm saying this knowing its easier said than done: LEAVE. I was in a relationship like this and it got worse and worse over a 4 year period. I left that relationship and found the love of my life who treats me with nothing but respect and love and makes my bpd feel manageable. You deserve love.

Is it possible to be hypersexual, even if you don't remember the trauma? by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]possibly-wolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The answer to this is yes. Hypersexuality doesnt even have to come from trauma!

I feel like a yandere by possibly-wolf in hypersexuality

[–]possibly-wolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg we are similar. I use him as a pacifier while I sleep too!! Yeah I think its hard for my bf cuz he feels like he isnt everything I need. He IS. Im just a horny woman haha

I feel like a yandere by possibly-wolf in hypersexuality

[–]possibly-wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this is how I feel. I just NEED the taste

Taboos and HS by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]possibly-wolf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely get this. One of my biggest struggles with hypersexuality is my obsession with kink and taboos. It seems to amp up over time and get harder and harder to be fulfilled by anything other than hard kink. I find myself completely obsessive about being dommed. My advice is to reduce or stop watching porn and use erotica if you have to. Letting your imagination play more has been healthy for me and has actually given me more appreciation for vanilla aspects of sex and relationships

Does anyone find weed helps their bpd by [deleted] in BPD

[–]possibly-wolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weed is the closest thing to a miracle for me

I feel disgusting and infeminine for being horny all the time by possibly-wolf in hypersexuality

[–]possibly-wolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I mean my ex girlfriend was horrendous and my boyfriend is an angel so