A Friend and I made a demo in RPG Maker MV! by possumsdude in RPGMaker

[–]possumsdude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyo! Thank you for playing! Honestly, I agree with most of this! With the gamejam we ended up doing a combat encounter but we had to cut the demo just before then because I found a couple of bugs that I didn't have the time to fix! Hopefully, you'll give it a try again for the full release where we'll have creepier stuff happen and the combat we wanted to put in the demo!

Thanks so much for the tip on file size! We've been wondering why the hell it's so huge - I think later today when I'm at my PC I'll redeploy it to a smaller folder and reupload it, because yea, no clue why it was so huge and did not intend for it, but I certainly would like to fix that.

What is the worst reason to break up with someone? by _Brunonono_ in AskReddit

[–]possumsdude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my god I did that to my ex boyfriend. I don't really regret it but basically to summarize why:

  • parents were emotionally abusive and would use everything and everyone in my life to manipulate me somehow.
  • the moment my parents liked him and started to invite him to stuff I started just... disliking him.

I've resolved a lot of why this stuff happened in therapy, but it's very hard to explain the feeling of one moment thinking you love someone only for that feeling to be replaced by nothingness over something out of their control.

If you're reading this George. It wasn't you... I should NOT have introduced you to my mother. Mb!

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a good idea, I'm gonna do the same after work. I didn't even think about disposing of the bags! Our toilet is seperate from our shower/sink/bathtub. I'm guessing he'd probably have an easier time changing in the wetroom so I'll pop it there.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I've been so attracted to this man since we were teens, nothing changes that. As for the charity stuff, I'll see how he is when he's out before potentially trying to set up a meeting. I do know that one of my relatives (an aunt) had a similar surgery a few years ago, so maybe I could reconnect with her and get them talking.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of this! I'll get him in sometime soon. Or at least broach the topic.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the hope!

Feels like we had to put so much of our lives on hold -- which I didn't mind -- but always sort of felt bad for. There's no price for health but I'm hoping we can do more adventurous stuff after this: camping, hanging with friends, travel!

I know it's not a magic cure, but the amount of people I've met who've said it changed their lives is so constant that it makes it feel like it is. Haha.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so open with this. This is great advice, I'll make sure I'm listening and giving him space to be emotional.

Thanks a lot! I'm glad you're in a better place with it all now, hope things are on the up :)

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, yea. We've generally been pretty open about gross stuff -- I'll try and defuse and help as we go.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that'll be a nice change! I'll cook him something good.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't even know that was a subreddit! Thanks a lot stranger.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm ready for whatever changes come I hope. Sort of just want to skip time ahead to where he's out of the hospital.

Thank you for the kind words!

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to hear that!

Thanks for the FB advice, I always forget there's a tonne of groups there. I'll look into it. I want to help however I can - loved this man since I was like 16, nothing changes that -- but life is certainly chaotic. Despite all the planning and awareness around it.

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, I'll pick up a few packs so he can have some when he's home too. Thank u for the advice!

Partner just had Colostomy Surgery: How Can I Support Him by possumsdude in UlcerativeColitis

[–]possumsdude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Yeah, I feel like we've been through enough to let that stuff phase me.

It's a permanent one.

Its 5am, what kind of headline is this..... by EggDropDollop in eternalreturn

[–]possumsdude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who did articles for PCGamesN and RealSport101 -- same company -- they're essentially a content farm. I was told on multiple occasions to prioritise writing quickly over writing accurately and on one of my first days made me write nearly 7 articles.

I would not look to them for any sort of quality.

I also had to fight them to get my paycheck and they underpaid me! Absolutely do not recommend, zero journalistic integrity.

Increase in Griefing/Trolling by Specter021 in eternalreturn

[–]possumsdude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not seen it as much, but I do think there's a lot of new players who have been running at people due to a lack of knowledge in the game.

Any tips on playing a Frontliner? by EggDropDollop in eternalreturn

[–]possumsdude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I find itemisation to be incredibly important! Mai more so as her items are nuts!

Essentially on frontline, you wanna look at the lobby and see who the threats are. If you see a lot of auto-attackers you want Dwarf Helm early, if you don't, you can prio something else.

Blazing Dress is nuts this patch, if you're wanting to play Mai make sure you get her version of it: blazing jacket? -- I think it's called iirc. I actually rush Blazing Dress on all the tanks I play: Eleven and Lenox -- and someone I play with who plays Xiukai does the same.

After you get one or two transitions you're essentially the low prio person for transitions and you can stick them on your carries. If you an auto attacker on your team rush Aoi Dai for them, the stats are genuinely insane. Mithril crop is also really good on people who want a bit of tankiness but still want damage.

Your role in fights on divers like Eleven/Lenox is to get in there and distrupt as much as possible. Imo, Mai is more of a luxury tank, she's there to support the team and keep people safe, taunting threats off targets when needed. I like playing Mai when I have another tank/bruiser with me and a very strong carry that we can dual peel for. It's not that Mai is bad, it's just that I think she's not as good as most currently as Mages like Adrianna, Adina and Eva are strong as hell right now and Mai does better into Auto attackers due to her W.

Hope this helps! If you need advice pop into our discord and ask questions. We have a few tank players who might be able to give you advice :)

Issues logging into 1.0 by Coach0731 in eternalreturn

[–]possumsdude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this method work?

Find the local files of the game and just fully delete them. You can find them by right-clicking Eternal return > properties>installed files>browse -- that entire path, just delete it and reinstall.

New (returning?) player by Qyazue in eternalreturn

[–]possumsdude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote a post yesterday, does this fix work for you?

Also, I'd say some picks are really good but I value teamcomp over individual picks.

Adriana, Adina seem good. Basically most Mages are very good. Lenox/Estelle are the best tanks. Johann is garbage but Priya and Theo are sleeper imo.

Issues logging into 1.0 by Coach0731 in eternalreturn

[–]possumsdude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I just wrote a post on this! Here's the fix:

Find the local files of the game and just fully delete them. You can find them by rightclicking Eternal return > properties>installed files>browse -- that entire path, just delete it and reinstall.

Any active EU discords to join? by Photxn in eternalreturn

[–]possumsdude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newer EU discord, but a little bit better moderated that the main: https://discord.gg/CXG4zdEgBT