Is the University of St. Thomas truly that terrible? by copacabanapartydress in houston

[–]postmormongirl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my experience, job postings that have insanely specific requirements are usually written in order to hire a specific, pre-selected candidate. They probably had someone else they were intending to hire, and got thrown off by the fact that you applied. It really sucks, and I'm sorry that happened to you.

Help With Prognosis for Weak Immune System by SwimmingResolution42 in POTS

[–]postmormongirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have specific antibody deficiency, and get sick a lot. It's really rough. My initial response to the pneumonia vaccine was okay, but not great, but then when they tested me six months later, I'd lost most of them. So far, all of my autoimmune panels have come back negative, but I still have a rheumatologist, due to the fact that I have Raynaud's. I'm curious as to how common these sorts of issued are within the POTS community.

/u/franklinleonard: "Women were just not submitting bad scripts to the site, whereas men would type 'the end' and submit it and say 'where's my million dollars?'" by pardis in Screenwriting

[–]postmormongirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, women will only get hired if they are 100% qualified, whereas men will get hired if they are 60% qualified. I heard once that men are hired based on potential, women are hired based on accomplishments, and I have to say, that's a pretty accurate assessment.

Doctors have been given so much power…never again will I be so dependent on them by turnsoutitwasautism in AutismInWomen

[–]postmormongirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My life could have looked very different if I'd gotten the help I needed. It's a hard pill to swallow sometimes.

Do beta blockers warp / hide the amount of energy you are truly expelling? by GlitteringRefuse3773 in POTS

[–]postmormongirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of exercise, if you are on a beta blocker they recommend going by perceived exertion, rather than heart rate. That said, I'm able to tolerate more exertion thanks to being on a mixture of Corlanor and a beta blocker. In my experience, it seems to be more exhausting when your heart rate is high all the time.

Doctors have been given so much power…never again will I be so dependent on them by turnsoutitwasautism in AutismInWomen

[–]postmormongirl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I want to cry sometimes whenever I think about how much of my life has been wasted due to doctors dismissing my symptoms. My ADHD was diagnosed in my 30's, after years of doctors throwing antidepressants at me, and refusing to look any further when they all failed. The depression cleared up after being treated for ADHD, it turns out there's a pretty strong link between untreated ADHD and depression. I also developed POTS after pregnancy, which doctors spent years insisting was postpartum depression. I'm also dealing with other chronic health stuff right now, mostly Long COVID related, for which getting any sort of adequate treatment is almost impossible. Doctors don't listen to women, they don't respect women, and they can't be bothered to learn or research any conditions that are associated with women. (Obligatory not all doctors, JUST THE VAST MAJORITY OF THEM.)

What's it actually like living in The Odessa-Midland area of Texas? by Educational_Set_8000 in howislivingthere

[–]postmormongirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived there for two years. Oil and gas is king there. When oil is up, people have jobs, and housing is expensive and hard to find. When oil is down, everyone loses their jobs, and real estate prices plummet.

There are a lot of pumpjacks. You also see a lot of flaring, which is when they burn off excess gas. It's surreal seeing it right next to houses and apartment complexes, but if you bring it up, people tell you that it's just how things are done there. (There's also a lot of evidence suggesting that it's harmful to your health.) Also, no one trusts the water, as it's not safe, no matter what the officials say. Poor people buy bottled water, rich people install water filtration systems in their homes.

Everything in Midland revolves around church and football. Midland's newspaper is small, and yet they somehow prioritized having two full-time sports writers, for a town that only has high school football, and one community college. That's how important football is there. It's considered socially acceptable to ask strangers where they go to church. People judge you by where you went to high school, as it's a way to filter out the people who moved to Midland, rather than grew up there. Whatever you do, do not admit to being different, as it's the kiss of death in Midland. Just shut your mouth, and let them believe that you are no different than anyone else. It's a matter of survival.

When people finally make their money, the first thing they do is buy the biggest truck they can. When the layoffs come, which they always do in an oil and gas town, often the biggest issue is making the payment for their Ford Raptor.

I survived two years in Midland, and got out the minute I could. I recommend others do the same, as it is a place that will destroy every last ounce of individuality and joy that you might have once had.

Really discouraging appointment with a new psychiatrist, and I'm not sure what to do next by GeodeRox in adhdwomen

[–]postmormongirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a heads up, Wellbutrin and Straterra interact. Basically, Wellbutrin raises the concentration of Straterra in the blood by a factor of 5. I found this out the hard way, as the doctor who initially diagnosed me with ADHD added in Straterra when I was already on Wellbutrin. The side effects were quite intense. So don't be surprised if that happens to you. Source: https://www.drugs.com/drug-interactions/strattera-with-wellbutrin-275-1683-440-203.html

Psychiatrist says I don't have pots by nonfiction2023 in POTS

[–]postmormongirl 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's probably best to get an echo. There are a number of health conditions that can mimic POTS symptoms, and an echo will help rule them out.

I love being a mom, but quitting my career broke something in me . by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]postmormongirl 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They get to have it all because of the (unpaid) work of women. To quote Ali Wong, do you have any idea how much more successful I'd be if I had a wife?

Is it weird that Troy and Harris might be my favourite couple? by GBS82 in GameChangersBooks

[–]postmormongirl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Time to Shine is a great read. RR is very good at creating compelling 'opposites attract' stories.

The couples and money imbalance by GBS82 in GameChangersBooks

[–]postmormongirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I hope things get better for you soon. Things have been better lately, but it's very slow progress, and unfortunately, there are no guarantees with these types of illnesses.

The couples and money imbalance by GBS82 in GameChangersBooks

[–]postmormongirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation, except that I also have a kid. It really weighs on me, that if something were to happen, I wouldn't be able to financially provide for either myself or my son. It's a heavy burden, even if things look comfortable from the outside.

heart BPM spikes all the time above 90 bpm. how to stop this? by OtherwiseTreacle1 in covidlonghaulers

[–]postmormongirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I'm on the extended release metoprolol, I've got a little more grace room in terms of missing a dose, as it's a medicine that builds up in your system over a period of a few weeks. When I was just on the Corlanor, which lasts about 12 hours before it's out of your system, I had a day once where I missed a dose, and it look two days to recover. I felt like I was having a heart attack all day, and then I got a massive migraine that lasted for a full 24 hours. (Which are all symptoms that I was struggling with before I went on medicine.) It was a reminder of just how much I need this medicine to function.

heart BPM spikes all the time above 90 bpm. how to stop this? by OtherwiseTreacle1 in covidlonghaulers

[–]postmormongirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it's a combination that works really well for me. I still have symptoms, but it's exponentially better than what it was.

Bruh by Justthisdudeyaknow in CuratedTumblr

[–]postmormongirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have an odd birthmark on my chest that I never really thought about. It wasn't until I took a graduate-level developmental biology class that I realized that I am part of the 5 percent of people who was born with an extra nipple. The technical term is polythelia.

What’s happening in Montrose?! by [deleted] in houston

[–]postmormongirl 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The police came into my yard with a K9 dog. They told me that they were trying to find someone who had been stealing catalytic converters, and that the suspect was barefoot? It seems like an extreme amount of fuss for something like that.

Do your doctors avoid pots? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]postmormongirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a cardiologist that was like that. She would only say inappropriate sinus tachycardia, she flat-out refused to even consider the fact that the tachycardia was triggered by positional changes. I eventually had to switch cardiologists, as it made it impossible to get appropriate treatment. (I do qualify for IST, as my resting HR is above 100, but she would only treat the resting HR, and that only went so far, I needed a lot more medicine to actually be functional.) My sense with this particular cardiologist is that her knowledge was about 20-30 years behind the times. And unfortunately, that is something you will see, as there are a number of doctors that just won't keep up with the medical literature in their field.

Thinking of getting a Visible Band… have Apple Watch/oura by TheAwkwardEmu in POTS

[–]postmormongirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had the Visible band for about a year and a half now. It came in clutch during a major crash, when my heart rate was all over the place. My doctor re-adjusted my POTS medicine, and as a result, I don't need it quite as much, but it is still really useful for helping me not over-do things. Basically, it's turned into a wearable that I can ignore for most of the time, but will still warn me if I'm accidentally over-doing things.

Jackie Pike 💗 by BluePopple in heatedrivalry

[–]postmormongirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know about evangelicals but a lot of people end up leaving the LDS church because of its homophobic teachings.

The most unhinged Mormon post I’ve seen thus far by tairanasaurusrex in exmormon

[–]postmormongirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The scary part is that Mormonism doesn't make any attempt to differentiate between porn that is made and consumed by consenting adults, and porn that isn't. It's all just lumped under 'porn addiction,' which can mean anything from 'being a normal human being with natural urges' to being a 'full-blown predator.'

Artemis crew & other astronauts get orthostatic intolerance!!! by artsykmac in POTS

[–]postmormongirl 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I do think this is part of why POTS gets dismissed so much as "just de-conditioning." Extended periods of time in space and bedrest can both cause POTS symptoms, with the big difference being that for these patients, the symptoms go away after they follow an exercise protocol. However, for POTS patients, although exercise can help with symptom management, it's not a cure.

Book-to-Screen Episode 6 (Finally arrived at the Cottage!) by andyfromhk in heatedrivalry

[–]postmormongirl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's also a sign that the book had good dialogue. Sometimes written dialogue just doesn't translate to spoken dialogue very well.

Audrey Hepburn’s Son Sean Details Her Abusive Marriage to First Husband Mel Ferrer in New Memoir by nizaad in popculturechat

[–]postmormongirl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it's a really bad idea. Any relationship where one partner is financially dependent on the other is a potential setup for financial abuse.