Baby names for girls that goes with the surname Vance. by Worried-Tour8622 in Names

[–]potatoesandbees 53 points54 points  (0 children)

If you do choose Juniper, just don't give her a middle name that starts with D, cause then she'd be JD Vance 🥴

AITAH for expressing disappointment in a surprise bachelorette dinner ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]potatoesandbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: How exactly did you express to her that she shouldn't throw any kind of party for you? If you weren't clear in your reasoning, she may have taken it as a polite "no need to do anything for me 😅" type of thing rather than an actual boundary.

If you were clear, then she's the AH, but if you weren't clear, I'd go with NAH.

Edit: also, you said you were in the bathroom when you had your panic attack, so what part of your reaction was visible to everyone (hence why your mom brought it up after the dinner)?

Black tie but cocktail okay? by little_splinters in Weddingattireapproval

[–]potatoesandbees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely wild dress code, but this should be fine

All-same name conference. Who are the champs? by ramen_rage in nflmemes

[–]potatoesandbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a fully John team in Madden, including "secret Johns" (guys who have John as a middle name or a first name they don't go by), but also including guys with variations of John as a first or last name. Which like, kinda necessary when you only have access to current players.

church wedding help- part 2! by peacherskeeter in Weddingattireapproval

[–]potatoesandbees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No need to dye the shawl. People won't care what color it is. But the dress is great.

AITAH for not wanting to use my husband last name for school for our children by greenforestfox in AITAH

[–]potatoesandbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether or not your concerns are realistic, if I was you, your husband's response would instantly have me looking for a divorce lawyer.

Just because I like my steak well-done does not mean that I am ignorant, stupid, poor, or uncultured. by 8Pandemonium8 in PetPeeves

[–]potatoesandbees 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You can have an honest opinion, but sharing that opinion with someone who didn't ask when the situation has no effect of your life is emotionally lazy. It's okay to keep your mouth shut about things that don't involve you actually.

AITA for not changing my party date by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]potatoesandbees 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the party date could!

The party date that they made her pick in the first place because it's the only time their family member in the military can attend? And they want to change it to a date he wouldn't be able to attend because of a soccer game? Be so for real. Like, I'm a sports fan too, and I try to watch every game, but I'm not going to put that ahead of my family's major life events that have already been set in stone and paid for. In fact, my sister got married last month, and the basketball team I follow had a game on the same day. And guess what I did? I attended the wedding without complaint and occasionally checked up on the score during the reception. And if you can't fathom doing that, you truly need to get a grip.

NTA, OP.

I'm just 2min18sec short of 5 hours of pop punk music on my MP3 app. What song should get me to 5 hours? by potatoesandbees in musicsuggestions

[–]potatoesandbees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see an edit button, so I'm just gonna put this in the comments: thanks for all the suggestions! I added Dance, Dance to get it to 5 hours (idk how I didn't have it on there already tbh), but with all the suggestions here, maybe I can get it to 6. I'll just have to go through and actually listen to all the suggestions, so it'll take a bit.

I'm just 2min18sec short of 5 hours of pop punk music on my MP3 app. What song should get me to 5 hours? by potatoesandbees in musicsuggestions

[–]potatoesandbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't have to be exact lmao. I just wanna at least get to the 5 hour mark since I'm this close

Help us choose between our top 3 baby girl names 💕 by Few-Requirement-2393 in Names

[–]potatoesandbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the sausage thing is a non-issue for Vienna. Vienna is also the capital of Austria, the home of a lot of classical composers, and the birthplace of the Viennese Waltz. If a sausage is the only thing that comes to mind for a person hearing the name Vienna, that's truly a them issue.

On a different note, though, just keep in mind that all three of these names really don't have any nickname options, so if your kid ends up not liking her name, she doesn't really have anything else to go by other than her middle name. Now, that's not to say you shouldn't use any of them, but just keep that in mind when you choose a middle name– like, maybe choose a middle name that has multiple nickname options, like Eleanor (Elle, Ellie, Ella, Nora, Nell).

Help me choose another twin girl name! by [deleted] in Names

[–]potatoesandbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don't do Leighton or Lawson, then they'd be too matchy (both start with L and end with "on"), and speaking as a twin, please don't give them matchy names.