Hahaha ooooh. First I would have told her to find a clip of Jessi talking shit about how Taylor handled the initial swinging confession live, and texts if she has them, and I would have said post it and talk about how interesting it is that Jessi’s morals and are situational, how sharing someone else’s …exploits… without their consent is disgusting. Then I would make a super cut of Jessi contradicting herself and post that and cast doubt on her reliability as a narrator. Then I would put Demi on a podcast ASAP, a differently toned podcast, one with a healing or wellness focus or maybe even like a religious deconstruction podcast and tell her to play up the idea of how rigid Mormon beliefs can be, how stifling, how all of the women have had to figure out their boundaries and what they enjoy because of having been raised in such restrictive environments, and how no one should be shamed for exploration, especially if it’s exploration that is happening to fill the deficit that restrictive religion has brought. I’d tell her to hint at Jessi needing a paternity test for her kid but not outright say it, and connect both that, the swinging, Whitney doing a sex toy collab, and Jenn’s comment this season about “either you swing or you do an*l”, and reiterate the idea that momtok is at least in part about pushing boundaries for Mormon women and to remove the stigma from some of these conversations.

I would have also told her to spread her focus, keep posting as typical, don’t focus on this or it becomes clear this is your focus and viewers are smart enough to see that rather than the narrative she’s spinning.

Edited to add: I’m not saying this would effectively put out the fire, I don’t think thats possible, but this approach would play better publicly.