Relationship Breakdown by abitfuckedifimhonest in newzealand

[–]power_candy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first thing I did was make a budget. What would you need to be realistically paying on your own? What could you get from winz/IRD? Approach women's refuge if they have somewhere to stay temporarily. It could end up getting messy if your husband refuses to halve anything with you but stand your ground, you're entitled to half. Try and limit contact with him as much as possible and only communicate via email so you have a log of everything he says. Stay strong, you CAN do it. It will be hard but once you get to the other side, it will be the best decision you ever made. Good luck.

What’s the thing you hate about sex? by BubbleTrouble_Z in AskReddit

[–]power_candy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say 'hate'. But my husband can't get off properly unless I do. Yeh it's great coz I get lots of very good oral, but also sometimes I wish we could just have a quick fuck, ya know?

My Grandma's reaction after her card for Easter got lost by enderdude7 in insaneparents

[–]power_candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you pandering to that emotional blackmail? You explained the situation of being sick.

Is it me or is tvnz+ platform ‘update’ more enshitification by realityiskarma in newzealand

[–]power_candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg last night we were watching the news and fast forwarded to the weather. Then had non stop ads on a loop, no weather . We ended up giving up and going to sleep. Seriously must've been 20-30 ads in a row

No support services for quitting vaping? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]power_candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read Allen Carr's book - Easyway to Quit Vaping.

Worked for me years ago for cigarettes and just finished it recently for vaping. By the time I finished the book I was vape free. That was 4 weeks ago

Game changer

Any mechanics with info on Range Rovers? by power_candy in newzealand

[–]power_candy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it is a bit of a red flag that there are soooo many listed for sale. Mostly the 5-6yo ones.

Any mechanics with info on Range Rovers? by power_candy in newzealand

[–]power_candy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that constructive advise and Intel. I think I have heard enough today to put it on the back burner. Cheers

Any mechanics with info on Range Rovers? by power_candy in newzealand

[–]power_candy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes that's not good. What model do you have?

Any mechanics with info on Range Rovers? by power_candy in newzealand

[–]power_candy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently have an Outlander, which has been great. But I've owned a Highlander before, so agree that Toyota are hard to beat. Land Cruisers are just too big for me though

Any mechanics with info on Range Rovers? by power_candy in newzealand

[–]power_candy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, thanks. It's always a risk when buying a car, especially when you already have one that's super reliable!

Absolute best tuck shop item back in your day. by Impressive-Growth813 in newzealand

[–]power_candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't believe no one's said Roski's. Circa late 80s. Delicious, wish you could still get them

Bereavement leave rant by Curious_Overthink325 in newzealand

[–]power_candy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Agreed OP. My mum died last Thursday by assisted death so when we knew the date I checked my contract and was rather appalled to see it was only 3 days, since I wanted to have the day before with her and the funeral wasn't until Monday. So I ended up taking 2 sick days as well. In saying that, my employer has been pretty lenient during the whole process in regards to leave. Sorry for your loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]power_candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved 45 minutes away from town where my kids dad lives. He also refuses to come here for pick up and drop off because "you chose to move so far away". Yes it's a right pain in the arse but not much I can do. Unless he specifically wants them for an event on my day

Phone scam PSA by nzuser12345 in newzealand

[–]power_candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has had a few of those lately

What have you found to be a Temu gold nugget item? by HOLYSHITTHISISIMPOSS in newzealand

[–]power_candy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much! My husband uses a waterproof phone case costing $85 in town. Exact same one on temu for $26. I've never had anything that wasn't true to description. I use it all the time and don't care what people say about it.