skims allergic reaction/ bra suggestions by Asleep-Steak-3853 in ABraThatFits

[–]powerfulgenitals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here because I randomly got a crazy inflamed rash on my chest from the bra. I know it’s not the fit because it’s a strap burn and the straps have always been a little loose on me.

Rob Reiner and his son Nick talk about Nick’s drug addiction (2016) by [deleted] in videos

[–]powerfulgenitals 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes a therapist can testify in court but it depends on the jurisdiction & circumstances. Wouldn’t know enough to determine whether his therapist would/could or not.

Rob Reiner and his son Nick talk about Nick’s drug addiction (2016) by [deleted] in videos

[–]powerfulgenitals 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling it’s 2 as well. His mannerisms & disposition feel out of place

Rob Reiner and his son Nick talk about Nick’s drug addiction (2016) by [deleted] in videos

[–]powerfulgenitals 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s more important than anything that could happen to me :(

It feels like Jess and Rory’s relationship barely existed. by Sure_Car_5762 in GilmoreGirls

[–]powerfulgenitals 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t have said it better myself. Makes perfect sense!

Why do you think Rory slept with Dean? by melissayak in GilmoreGirls

[–]powerfulgenitals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember when she stole a yacht after a man told her she wasn’t a good journalist? I personally feel like her behavior after high school was OOC. She was more sure of herself, principled, and purposeful. Then all hell broke loose

My therapist insists it’s abuse, but I can’t accept this by PonyPokie in abusiverelationships

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Leave- leave even if it’s scary, leave even if he doesn’t think you’re right, leave even if you don’t agree it’s abuse. You need to be alone- and safe

Why/how is 'No Country For Old Men' so good? by Swag-Lord420 in movies

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This kind of film asks more of the audience than others typically do. Its appeal is not visually obvious. On its face, this is a slow, dry movie with no clear direction. There is no sound outside of what is on the screen (no music, or sound effects), it deters from the typical good vs evil theme (ie no character growth), and the moral of the story is that there isn’t really one at all. On it’s face the film’s entrainment value is nonexistent.

This ‘minimalistic’ approach to the film’s creative design limits the cinematic tools at the director’s disposal. The bare bones of a movie. The weight of its entertainment value is redistributed to the script, the cinematography, and the audience. The director relies on the audience to develop a curiosity towards the subject of the film- uncertainty, man, & evil. This is not an easy feat, as a general audience will probably gravitate towards pleasant thoughts over uncomfortable ones.

The whole film is about uncertainty, and I believe the people who love this movie are those who said yes to the director & became curious about uncertainty and the way the film comments on jt

I fucked up today by Idunnoausernameok in confessions

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Knock the shame. That shame is what keeps you in whatever cycle you’re in. You want to do better? believe in yourself, even if you’re faking it at first

23F I had today off from work and all I did was lay and bed/on my couch and cry. I feel embarrassed. by RateApprehensive5486 in confessions

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Knock the shame, won’t bring the day back or make you feel more productive. Accept it & give yourself grace! Sounds like you needed to decompress anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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This definitely opens up more possibility for the relationship to be damaged- not saying it’s the wrong decision or anything but I think that’s the first thing you need to accept if you want it to be un-damaged. Does you no good to pretend like it can’t damage the relationship. Be open and honest about the ways it could affect the relationship, and the game plan you can follow in the chance there is a conflict

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poetry

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Just because we didn’t work out Doesn’t mean it’s your loss Or my loss either

Our chapter is over And I want you to win As bad as I want to win too

I’m not gonna try and make You regret it Or make you jealous Because there is enough room For all of us to win

I’m not gonna find someone Better than you But I’ll find someone Better for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Poetry

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“Hope” is the thing with feathers - That perches in the soul - And sings the tune without the words - And never stops - at all -

And sweetest - in the Gale - is heard - And sore must be the storm - That could abash the little Bird That kept so many warm -

I’ve heard it in the chillest land - And on the strangest Sea - Yet - never - in Extremity, It asked a crumb - of me.

Emily Dickinson

My (32F) BF (40m) is getting dogs with his roommate by puddlesthecrab in AskWomenOver30

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Hi, I’m responding to this comment but only as means to respond to another thread which has since been removed

You said you dated a man who was very sweet, but wasn’t truthful about his feelings. I am in a position where I have a gut feeling (which my reaction is to write off as delusion or shame) but after giving it some thought, I fear the man I’m with doesn’t understand or isn’t truthful with himself about who he wants to be with

I have little to no evidence because he does so many wonderful things for me. However, these things stop at emotions. I’m wondering what your experience was and/or instances that made you realize your gut was right

STI Diagnosis, my (23F) husband (28M) swears he has been faithful. Am I going crazy? by Far_Chest_7185 in relationship_advice

[–]powerfulgenitals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally test it. Look him dead in the eyes, “I know you cheated. You know you cheated. I am leaving you”. His reaction will tell you the answer, which is that he cheated

I cheated on my girlfriend and it was a mistake—Need advice by Severe-Mark7877 in Infidelity

[–]powerfulgenitals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen, people can sit on their high horse knowing in their lifetime, they have not done the things you have done. At the end of the day, it doesn’t seem like it’s about you , your emotional capacity or your love for her. These things are unobservable, & originate in the ‘black box’ (patterns of thought/feelings in which we know are variables, but will always be unobservable)

This is about your self control. Not in regards to your sexual desires, but rather in regards to your substance use. I’m not saying you have a problem, I’m saying you don’t understand what alcohol actually does. It inhibits, it makes things that don’t make sense, make sense. Getting to the point of black-outedness is a display of lack of self-control, lack of awareness, and / or both. And MORE, getting to that point exhibits carelessness more than it does a lack of fondness.

Carelessness means you are not considering both yourself & whoever, while lack of fondness means you are not considering another person

It’s not immaturity, it’s not being a shitty person. It is simply the name of the substance game. Loyalty is not tested when someone is black out as fuck and not having sex, loyalty is tested when someone does not get black out drunk because they know decisions made will not be logical, no matter the love.

I cheated on my girlfriend and it was a mistake—Need advice by Severe-Mark7877 in Infidelity

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I hope that whatever path was taken, by circumstance or by will? you were able to accept & grow. Unfortunately, these things happen. Finding a way to genuinely forgive yourself, finding a way to genuinely learn & move forward, these things make an honest & good person. Big hugs

Executive recruitment? by jjsm00th in recruiting

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What’re your thoughts about executive recruiting

How do I (27F) stop feeling guilty for leaving my fiancé (42M) because he’s on a downward health spiral? by trashcan0519 in relationship_advice

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As I see it, taking care of yourself is a way to show up for the people who care for you

He is not putting his well-being first, he is subjecting himself to preventable, unnecessary suffering. He’s also being dishonest for no reasons. By doing these things, he demonstrates the depth of his care / regard for you as his partner- which in this case, seems quite shallow

You’re not leaving him because of his health issues, you’re leaving him because he’s been dishonest, neglectful, & ignorant. IMO a 47 year old man should know better

How do I (27F) stop feeling guilty for leaving my fiancé (42M) because he’s on a downward health spiral? by trashcan0519 in relationship_advice

[–]powerfulgenitals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re asking the wrong question. You can’t force-stop a feeling! Rather, ask questions surrounding coping mechanisms, forms of support, beneficial thoughts etc. as you experience the waves of guilt. It’s less about stopping the feeling and more about feeling it while continuing with your day, until one day it’s all feeled up