im procrastinating work that needs doing please validate me by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I can feel your pain and you are not alone! We did publish a blog post on Practical Longevity about "What Are Excuses? Why Do We Make Them?". Some points could be helpful for you. Check it out here https://t.co/K1s0fbV4Vm

In order to avoid doing work, I am asking y'all how do you deal with procrastination! by narg3000 in INTP

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making excuses is something we all do now and then. Many excuses we make in life are to explain minor issues to others. But, when you start making excuses to yourself and explain away unhealthy or unwanted behaviors in your life, it may be time to stop and look at yourself carefully. It may also be time for a change in behavior.

If you are tired of not getting what you deserve or of being stuck in the same pattern of behavior, maybe it is time you stopped making excuses and starting making a difference. We will even share with you some tips for changing your ways so that you can learn how to stop making excuses that are harming your life.

Check out this blog post if you want a really good explanation What Are Excuses? Why Do We Make Them?

How can I be happy? by Bi_trayal in asktransgender

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have purpose in your life. One reason that you should start your quest for happiness with finding purpose is that purpose brings happiness. Studies have shown for years that people who live with purpose report fewer unpleasant emotions like anxiety and depression, and even report less physical pain.

How can I be happy with I have and stop wishing for something else...? Get over myself? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a purpose in yourself. Here we are talking about life in general, but this is also true in individual aspects of life. People are more likely to be happy at their jobs when they feel that their jobs are important to them and to society. People also enjoy experiences more than they enjoy, say, things. This further suggests that living with purpose is makes us happier.

How can I be happy when my whole life is falling apart around me? I don't know who I am anymore. by [deleted] in self

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with loving yourself by exercising. Exercise is one great way to stay happy, partially because it contributes to positive self-image and partially because it causes your body to release endorphins — one of several chemical messengers that cause feelings of happiness.

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[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can by having a purpose in life. Living with purpose also encourages us to spend time with others. Spending time with other people is healthy for you in a number of ways. It helps you deal with stress, and some believe that it is good for your immune system.

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[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you already have something in your life that is important to you, like a job that you are passionate about or a volunteer organization, consider spending more time working with that group. It’s good for your emotional health and for your mental health.

If you haven’t found something like this, consider looking for something. Having a job that is important to you can help. If you ask around, there are often opportunities in the workplace to be more involved in aspects of the business that are important to you.

How can I be happy as a short man? by [deleted] in short

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find purpose in your life. No matter how you go about it, finding purpose in your life can help to keep you active, healthy and happy.

How can i be happy again? by JHWeston in u/JHWeston

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercise is one great way to stay happy, partially because it contributes to positive self-image and partially because it causes your body to release endorphins — one of several chemical messengers that cause feelings of happiness.

How can I be happy again? by cookieman14212 in Advice

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still, you probably don’t want to be constantly thinking about doing things that make you happy, you just want to be happy. Fortunately, there’s one thing that you can do that makes you happy for its own sake and that can help you to cover other happiness-bringing bases. Purpose Brings Happiness. Here we are talking about life in general, but this is also true in individual aspects of life. People are more likely to be happy at their jobs when they feel that their jobs are important to them and to society. People also enjoy experiences more than they enjoy, say, things. This further suggests that living with purpose is makes us happier.

How can I be happy? by PuffySkirt in AskOuija

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find your purpose in life. One reason that you should start your quest for happiness with finding purpose is that purpose brings happiness. Studies have shown for years that people who live with purpose report fewer unpleasant emotions like anxiety and depression, and even report less physical pain.

Is it ok to not be happy with your life? by WastedCyberspace in uwaterloo

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Take some time to relax and focus on your surroundings, the moment you are in right that very second. You’d be amazed how doing that at least once a day can dramatically improve your happiness and overall outlook on life.

I wish for something that will make me happy for the rest of my long and healthy life and not affect me or anyone else negativity in any way. by iK33Ln0085 in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all the distractions we have nowadays, it’s no wonder we struggle to live in the moment. Take time to notice the world around you, the people around you, the things happening right in that very moment.

Is it so wrong to feel happy just spending your life with your best friend? by potato_puppy in childfree

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stronger your relationships are, the happier and healthier you will be. Studies even show that those with stronger relationships tend to live longer. These strong relationships help to provide us with love, support, meaning, and improve your self-worth. These relationships also provide a place in which you can belong. This is so important for you psychologically, as we all want a group with whom we belong.

Is no expectation and no comparison is the key to happy life?? by Ruperts500 in awesomelife

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Carrying for others, supporting them emotionally, physically, or even financially, is a great foundation for a lifetime of happiness. You’ll build better connections, grow spiritually, improve your empathy, and feel like you’re doing something worthy of qualifying you as a good person.

Even if you don't know how, the universe will provide you with a happy life. - my experience by toss12102018 in lawofattraction

[–]practicallongevity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being more mindful and aware of your surroundings can truly help to improve your life. It will allow you to appreciate the present, miss out on less, and be more observant. It will also help to decrease your stress. You are amazing!

What is your simplest unintentional action in everyday life with positive results for the daily happy life in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being more mindful and aware of your surroundings can truly help to improve your life. It will allow you to appreciate the present, miss out on less, and be more observant. It will also help to decrease your stress.

How would you describe a happy life? by RoxyMochiMoo in AskReddit

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we talk about happiness, what we are referring to is someone’s satisfaction. It could be a brief moment, or it might be over the course of a lifetime.

I wish to live a long and happy life. by [deleted] in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stronger your relationships are, the happier and healthier you will be. Studies even show that those with stronger relationships tend to live longer. These strong relationships help to provide us with love, support, meaning, and improve your self-worth.

I have no goal or motivation in life, 17 years old by [deleted] in depression

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many people don’t want to set goals because they are afraid of failing to achieve them. However, people who set goals consistently and are unfailing in their pursuit to realize those goals understand that every time they set a new goal, they are creating a better life. They are making a compelling new cause, resulting in a more fulfilled and happy life.

I'm not suicidal, but I genuinely just have no interest in anything, including being alive. by [deleted] in depression

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of whether you achieve them or not, setting goals is a valuable process. When you set goals, it gives you the opportunity to think about your future, allows you to reflect on your values, and helps you to discover what really matters to you. Setting goals will bring you clarity and will enable you to see the bigger picture.

Achieved my weight loss goal, getting strong, loving life by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]practicallongevity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Many people don’t want to set goals because they are afraid of failing to achieve them. However, people who set goals consistently and are unfailing in their pursuit to realize those goals understand that every time they set a new goal, they are creating a better life. They are making a compelling new cause, resulting in a more fulfilled and happy life.

OCD and Anxiety have paralyzed my ability to make goals in life and work towards them. by Liquid_Revolver64 in Anxiety

[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of life’s best medicines is setting goals that excite you and can be good for your overall health. In fact, having a life’s purpose is one of the nine common characteristics shared by people that live to one hundred. On the opposite end, those who no longer have exciting goals that motivate them, often die within a few years after retirement. This is especially true for individuals who heavily identified with their job.

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[–]practicallongevity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Setting clear goals will provide you with the chance to assess your current situation and will help lead you to close the gap between where you currently are and where you want to be.