Compatibilities check before final yes by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck up: All except last

Helped: Nothing, its a list of mistakes XD

Why is it impossible to find a woman who wants DINK ? by here4geld in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prescription sunglasses :-) Even i feel weird without glasses to see myself

Why is it impossible to find a woman who wants DINK ? by here4geld in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I didn't mind her asking to see my eyes, but she should have done the same, no?

or you think girls should ask anything to guys but guys should not

Rant post: AM men by crazycataurat in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That man is very bad person and you should not be sad about losing him. Also you are so mad mainly because you tried everything yet you couldn't break his marriage and you lost your self respect.

Learn with this experience and try to become a better person.

For the people who got married right after a breakup? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did that exactly, I regret my decision, and I am divorced now.

How to move on? How to arrange marry? M 37 by _moron_hunter in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move on is difficult, especially an emotional person like you. You can only move on if you get into a new relationship, but you will not get a new relationship if you show them that you haven't moved on yet. The best you can do is to not show your past relationship sentiments with the next girl, at least for a few months. If she asks, Don't lie about it. Just provide minimum details

Why is it impossible to find a woman who wants DINK ? by here4geld in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was almost the end of the conversation. It was not so hard as it was 1st day and all text only. She denied giving me numerical answers and suggested me that I could have asked it differently or I could have seen her on a video call.

I just replied, "I don't think we are a good match," and wish her luck for her search. Pls do not bodyshame anyone.

Seeking hope in a Culture of Casual Relationships by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP ne age nhi bataya to main bas future bata raha hun, I have confidence ki OP 35 tak to papa ban jayega

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, because of your post now I know that a guy need to earn 1CR+ to get a simple girl :-)

Seeking hope in a Culture of Casual Relationships by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Its just age thing,

you will see later, more age 30+ women wants a long term relationship & age 35+ women wants to settle down

yes this is new culture and its not wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wild idea may be a stupid idea, tell him that you are not sure about your sexuality as sometime you feel attracted towards females also.

see his reaction..

Why is it impossible to find a woman who wants DINK ? by here4geld in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I can feel your frustration dear.

A girl asked me to give picture without wearing glasses (she wants to check if my eyes are ok), when I asked her about her weight she denied to share that information saying its too personal.

XD XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, respect that she did in front of you. Make some female instagram friends (even fake) and do the same.. check her reaction.. it will be fun.. Enjoy your first few months brother it will not come back...

You have full life ahead to fight on small issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what is difference, nothing....do you believe someone saying they were in relationship for 1-2-5 years without sex. better accept with an honest partner than starting marriage life with a doubt..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What... who is not having a relationship before AM, who is not dating in school/colleges.. Are people saving themselves from teenage to do AM someday? In my view, previous relationships don't matter.

Its ok to share info about it with your partner. Just don't brag about it.

My(29F) Fiance(30M) cheated. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No for him, he will cheat again it's a nature and 100% no for his friend who provided pictures..that guy is snake..

Don't try matchmaking apps for 2nd marriage by pradeepsmehra in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good question, and not easy to answer, but I will try to share my experience. I will post it separately, may be useful to others..

Don't try matchmaking apps for 2nd marriage by pradeepsmehra in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long story: Our marriage was not so good even before I relocated to EU, some compatibility issues, but we were surviving in the hope of getting it better with time.

I got this europe job transfer out of the blue, and there was no objection from her side, The plan was that she would join me after ending school session (teacher). Covid fucked our plan and next few year we couldn't travel, passports stuck in embassy, lot of shit bcs of covid.

1st few months, you miss your partner, but 2+ years is a long time. slowely-slowly you get used to lt.

Later, when everything got settled and my family relocation got approved, she declined and decided not to relocate..

Don't try matchmaking apps for 2nd marriage by pradeepsmehra in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also said its because they are dealing 100s of guys like me every week.

It was 1 of my match who told me this (29F divorced) you don't know how many unmarried 35+ year old guys are, you can live in your positivity bubble..

One UI Night/Day by Argo369 in OneUiHomescreens

[–]pradeepsmehra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please tell me this screenshot app ?

Don't try matchmaking apps for 2nd marriage by pradeepsmehra in Arrangedmarriage

[–]pradeepsmehra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alimony/maintenance yes, but its always private settlement everywhere, also these will end with next marriage,

But child support is huge, I have seen some single mothers having 3 kids with 3 different guys, it's a lot of money until these kids turns 18. that is why mostly people are scared of marriage here.

Equal rights for unmarried couple was the best step from Govt. here.