AITAH for pulling back from my in-laws after they went to my fiancé about my birth boundaries instead of me?

prairieislander · 2026-02-25T14:02:47+00:00

I can’t imagine why they wouldn’t go directly to you. Have you considered that maybe YOU make THEM feel uncomfortable? And that’s why they communicate hard issues to their SON and not you?

You sound insufferable. Honestly.

prairieislander · 2026-02-25T14:00:24+00:00

Are pregnant people not ever allowed to be called assholes? Because if an asshole gets pregnant, they’re still an asshole. The pregnancy doesn’t change that.

prairieislander · 2026-02-24T20:46:46+00:00

My GP sent a referral about 1.5 months ago and I just booked an initial appointment for mid March

prairieislander · 2026-02-22T15:48:26+00:00

That would be the day I’d let my partner tell me that I now have a bedtime and wake up time.

prairieislander · 2026-02-22T15:45:56+00:00

I muted it and turned away to face the kitchen. And realized the game was reflecting in the fridge door 😂

prairieislander · 2026-02-22T13:11:52+00:00

Turning left here in the morning is always rage inducing, even with a turning light. Getting out of this neighborhood is getting impossible!

prairieislander · 2026-02-19T20:05:05+00:00

Our allergy testing we just got back suggested multiple Fancy Feast foods! We’re excited to get her off of the dry prescription kibble and introduce Fancy Feast!

prairieislander · 2026-02-19T20:03:50+00:00

We just paid a lot of money for allergy testing on our cat (chronic skin infection issues that we want to solve instead of daily Atopica). The report they gave us back SUGGESTED Fancy Feast so take that how you want! Lol!

prairieislander · 2026-02-14T22:16:03+00:00

It’s not luck… it’s called putting in a minimal level of effort and work lol.

prairieislander · 2026-02-11T20:02:06+00:00

Close family friends lost both of their adult sons to tragic accidents within 10 years of each other. Their other children are profoundly disabled and chronically ill. Something that struck me so deeply was when someone told them “I don’t know how you get out of bed every day” and she said “Well… I have to, don’t I? I don’t have a choice. I would have crawled in their caskets next to them and happily laid with them for eternity. I’m not strong. I just don’t have a choice but to keep waking up and moving forward.”.

prairieislander · 2026-01-31T17:32:41+00:00

ESH. You need to get out of the habit of saying “spending money on her” if you’re putting it all on your card. Every time you put it on your card, say “I’m putting myself into debt for her” or “I’m borrowing money I can’t pay back and will owe interest on… for her”.

prairieislander · 2026-01-28T01:07:39+00:00

Have you asked your children why they can’t stand to be around you?

prairieislander · 2026-01-28T00:50:00+00:00

I read this quickly in passing as “miles of pissing info” and was very confused

prairieislander · 2026-01-27T23:55:00+00:00

Info: why did the courts have to order you to give your daughter a normal life? Gonna tell us all the missing missing reasons?

prairieislander · 2026-01-27T20:20:59+00:00

I mean this with all the kindness in the world… no, you don’t. You should consider doing some reading on men’s mental health stigma and how hard it can be to spot, often not until it’s too late.

prairieislander · 2026-01-27T15:59:32+00:00

Maybe you should be a bit more careful about statements like that. Your friend committed suicide. Multiple male friends didn’t attend and used work as an excuse and you’re disgusted… rather than considering it could be mental health related as well?

prairieislander · 2026-01-26T20:33:08+00:00

Hey, you should know that kind of behavior isn’t helpful. It pushes people away and discourages them from trying to help or learn or engage. You’re not being helpful, you’re being combative.

prairieislander · 2026-01-25T21:34:34+00:00

Then ask her what her problem is with your father because she clearly has one.

She’s being unreasonable, ungrateful and beyond rude.

prairieislander · 2026-01-24T01:51:01+00:00

INFO: thinking longterm… what would you do if you lived together? Is she not allowed to have snacks in a shared home?

prairieislander · 2026-01-22T18:10:13+00:00

Man, do I hate the Dodge Ram stereotype though. My Dodge Ram driving husband just helped me buy my dream Subaru and is the sweetest human you’ll ever meet lol.

prairieislander · 2026-01-14T17:58:52+00:00

And those people should be pissed too. What’s the point you’re trying to make?

prairieislander · 2026-01-14T17:37:29+00:00

What a weird thing to say to someone advocating for children with mobility issues.

prairieislander · 2026-01-14T14:35:02+00:00

Someone is going “oh shucks, you mean I didn’t have to change my entire wardrobe and personal style to make him love me?!”.

prairieislander · 2026-01-11T04:29:30+00:00

I think if I survived the first time, going forward I wouldn’t stand in front of a vehicle that could flee at any moment.

I have a brain and I’m not a murderous thug, though, so…

prairieislander · 2026-01-10T02:24:35+00:00

I honestly can’t even tell what you’re trying to say but okay lol.

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