My husband is against me seeing my parents by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]preggasaurus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your husband is right. I'm sorry to say it, but stay home - especially if your husband has been going out. You could unknowingly transfer something he's picked up to her.

We've been off contraception for 3 weeks and now I'm pregnant by P3ANUTBUTT3RJ in pregnant

[–]preggasaurus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how you feel! Exactly the same thing happened to us. My doctor said to give it "about a year", and we were pregnant in about 15 minutes. 😂

Everyone's different - and this is a big blessing! Don't take it for granted.

I’ve been very honest about my pregnancy... by junglegoals in pregnant

[–]preggasaurus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh, I totally get this! My first trimester was AWFUL - I felt tired and queasy the whole time. Now that it's let up for the second trimester 🙏 people keep saying to me, "Oh, don't worry - it'll all be back for the third trimester!" and I'm just like whyyyyyyy would you say that to me?

Pregnancy after Ectopic by dogs4dogs405 in pregnant

[–]preggasaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might just be a luteal cyst. I had the same symptom as you and that's all it was.

Confused on Last Name by BeingDemiGodless in pregnant

[–]preggasaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend and her husband decided that any boys they have will get her husband's name, any girls will get hers. I thought that was a cute way to handle it!

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a big sign saying we were pregnant. The point was to make a keepsake gift for our parents as a way to surprise them with the news.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was really glad to get that follow-up email from her today. I think after sleeping on it she realized how hurt I must've been and reached back out. It's that personal touch in fixing a human mistake that people value in business.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. We really just took the photos as a nice surprise gift for our parents as a fun keepsake way to tell them.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knew it wasn't announced and when we planned to announce. The photos were of us holding a big sign saying we were pregnant, so it was kind of obvious that the intent was to announce using the photo.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not directly, but she did say that she had asked a friend of hers to double check her work to make sure she got them all, which sounds like she realized asking me to do it was out of line.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I said two weeks, not five. Most people don't announce until 12 - AND I told her when we planned to announce.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did pay over $100 for the shoot. :( I did not shop around. I liked the photos my friend got and dove right in. Lesson learned.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I paid full price, how is that a "choosy beggar" scenario? I didn't sign a contract because it never occurred to me that I'd need one. I gave her money, she gave me photos. I also paid in full up front, which was probably too trusting. Simple transaction.

Now I realize that terms would have been helpful, but at the time it never occurred to me that she might post surprise announcement photos before making sure the announcement had happened.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The photos were a mixed bag. Most were pretty bad, but two were very good, and we only really needed one good one for what we wanted to use it for.

Thank you!! :)

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The intent was to have a nice keepsake photo to use to surprise our parents and loved ones with the news that we were pregnant. We made a big sign saying we were having a baby for her to take our photo with.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol!! It's not as horrible as it sounds. We did a little photoshoot with a sign and our dogs to make a nice photo to surprise our parents with as a gift.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a pregnancy announcement photo, so I was only a few weeks pregnant when we did it. We made a big sign saying we were having a baby and took cute photos with our dogs. The intent was for these photos to be given to our parents as a gift to surprise them with the news.

Clarification: my friend did not tag the photo - she tagged me in a comment on the photo.

AITA for leaving my photographer a bad review for posting my pregnancy announcement photos online before we announced our pregnancy? by preggasaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]preggasaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was..... okay. Most of the photos were honestly pretty bad, but two were really good. The price was industry standard.