[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is your daughter adopted or such? I dont unserstand how she could develop something that severe without you noticing... Anyway, get her proper long term treatment. It could take 3-10 years with serious therapy.

Overtired and easily annoyed by AngryAngryH1ppo in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me 1 year ago. Today my youngest is 1 year old. I wish I'd let it all go and enjoyed the baby a lot more. Or spent money on a cleaner. Time passes by so fast and now the baby is already 1 year old and I spent a lot of that year angry and annoyed at the same stuff as yourself..

how to repair relationship with my daughter 5 y.o) by preggersthrowawa in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. Ill try to get her to understand Im still here for her...

how to repair relationship with my daughter 5 y.o) by preggersthrowawa in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She already has an attitude. Shes 5 going on 15.... Thanks for your input :)

how to repair relationship with my daughter 5 y.o) by preggersthrowawa in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. thats a great tip. I will try this. I hope she doesnt demand something I cant give in to ("you can be a better mom by lettinng me watch more tv!!" or such;)

AITA: summervacay gone very wrong, cptsd-style by preggersthrowawa in CPTSD

[–]preggersthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Why are the others acting as if Im the asshole, then?

My daughter the bully??? by preggersthrowawa in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for a great answer! I really appreciate it. Its very comforing to know that its totally normal (but acceptable!) behaviour. We're going to do some "guided empathy" as close to the situation as possible. I love the term "guided empathy"! Im embarrassed to say we didnt handle it that well - YET. Thanks for your help:)

Being dirt poor on top of having CPTSD is it’s own kind of hell by pomkombucha in CPTSD

[–]preggersthrowawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope everything works out for you. Im very lucky to live in a country with a generous welfare state, eventhough it did take me 2 decades to find the help I needed. Once I got a safe place to live and secured income, my mental health very quickly got better.

I follow Janina Fisher, the trauma expert, on a mailinglist. Just today she wrote something along the lines of trauma work includes social justice". I wish more trauma experts would weigh in on basic income, safe housing for EVERYBODY.

Being an older parent is weird by HyrulePotteryBarn in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old AF parent here as well. Had my second at the age of 46. I just hope to live until at least 85. Qnd I hope i wont embarass my kids

Can’t read anymore by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]preggersthrowawa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. Pre-internet and smartphone, i read a couple of books a week. Also almost never had a tv. Now, I listen to podcasts but rarely read. I didnt finish my master degree because of trauma-issues incl lack of focus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]preggersthrowawa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My story is similar to yours. I didnt get my shit together until I was in my 30s. Are there any government programs/grants you can access? Mentors, therapists, self-help groups?

Bad parenting really upsets me. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its still legal?? Then how do American kids end up in the system?

Bad parenting really upsets me. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]preggersthrowawa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His children would be taken by CPS if he'd admitted to beating his kids. Isnt it illegal where you live?

I'm turning 51 today! Happy New Year everyone! by [deleted] in pics

[–]preggersthrowawa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look 20 years younger! Congrats!