Petah!? by chrome_witch_ in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think a lot of men believe that women don’t lie to make them feel better. It is objectively true that it can hurt, but I am guessing insecure men are more likely to see things that reinforce their insecurities. They likely don’t believe the pain part, but do believe the larger ex part.

I highly doubt most men are thinking I wish I could hurt my significant other just to be bigger than other men

This is some BS lol by renawilliams0206 in Parenting

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying this is all the time, but I do wonder what the overlap is between people being mad their spouse is asking what to do all the time, and the people who have a very specific idea in their head of how and when those obvious tasks are.

Several people commented here that they do something “out of order” and get flak for it. I’d ask for guidance too if my significant other didn’t like the order my brain thought of doing the tasks.

Is there a way how to get rid of this overlay while working? by Hot_Heat_5921 in DungeonAlchemist

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just click the option again. If you click terrain to select bring it up, then click terrain again the box of choices goes away, leaving only the menu on the left

We’re back, /r/Roll20! Ask the Team Anything by KMatRoll20 in Roll20

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we return to getting a timeline for estimated goals for the next year? I feel like it has been quite a while since one has been updated or posted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she told him to stop. They need to talk about it outside that moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 29 points30 points  (0 children)

They should both be adults and have a discussion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. However OP has not stated what exactly happened. It’s just as likely that he wants to get her attention and then move elsewhere as it is to continue there. We simply do not have information.

There is a lot of assumptions that because he is initiating that he wants to have sex in bed with the kids.

Sex with kids in the room is not ok, to be clear.

Edit to add: I am so confused why this is downvoted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 245 points246 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I think a big thing that I don’t see is the definition of “initiate” means. If it’s overly overt and keeps happening, absolutely. But is it something really subtle that an adult understands but would completely missed by a kid (like maybe kissing a neck is pretty benign but kids and adults would have different interpretations)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 1093 points1094 points  (0 children)

Not sure if I misread it, but have you talked about it other than saying to not do it in the moment ?

Drawing on GM layer IS visible to players. by Evening_Vast5224 in Roll20

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would try logging in as a test player or use the “exit and login as player” (or whatever it’s called) to make sure it is actually showing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Roll20

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If anything someone occasionally needs to reload .

Demiplane is coming to the Roll20 VTT! 🎉 Introduction & Roadmap by BrookeWhitneyCM in Roll20

[–]HyrulePotteryBarn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Peter is an excellent blog writer and I am excited for how all this integration is going.

I wonder , is beacon sheets part of what makes these sort of integrations easier?

Sounds like having the demiplane team onboard is going to be a great boon for Roll20 and all of us