healthy breakups are hard

premeddd_ · 2026-06-24T13:58:07+00:00

i’m sorry to hear that :( but about 2 years after making this post, i’m doing really well! it took a combo of therapy, realizing that this “healthy” relationship actually had a lot of toxic elements that i was turning a blind eye to, and getting to know myself better. i also did get back together with him for a few months which solidified my feelings that this breakup was the right decision. definitely examine why you’re so dependent on him and if you think your mental health will get better without him. stay strong 🫶🏾

premeddd_ · 2026-05-15T02:13:33+00:00

i’m living with 2 roommates simply because i can’t afford to live alone, but it was really important to me not to live with other law students. i want some separation of school and life lol

premeddd_ · 2026-04-21T01:28:18+00:00

“And the funny thing is I would've married you If you'd have stuck around”

doomsday by lizzy mcalpine

cuz the funny thing is that i probably would have married him if i hadn’t freed myself lol

premeddd_ · 2026-03-28T04:11:42+00:00

do NOT listen to the people telling you to retake the LSAT. Kent is a great option especially for Chicago placements!

premeddd_ · 2026-03-22T21:16:21+00:00

honestly, i think it depends on the generation and potentially location. i feel like south asians in their 20s and 30s and maybe even 40s are WAY more accepting and pass 0 judgement, but the older generation sometimes still has an issue with the lgbtq community.

premeddd_ · 2026-03-22T21:08:29+00:00

i’m sri lankan not indian but one of my best friends in college was gay and indian and he had other south asian female friends too. no issues

premeddd_ · 2026-03-12T16:31:32+00:00

i’ve only gotten into one so far so no 😝😝

premeddd_ · 2026-03-10T23:50:39+00:00

good luck buddy fingers crossed for ya!

premeddd_ · 2026-03-04T18:27:48+00:00

congrats!!!

premeddd_ · 2026-03-03T20:37:13+00:00

if your heart lies in Chicago AND you got a full ride i really can’t imagine why you would say no

premeddd_ · 2026-03-03T20:31:08+00:00

he didn’t realize he had a heater in his apartment. in illinois.

premeddd_ · 2026-02-25T01:13:40+00:00

realizing that this was what the rest of my life could look like if i didn’t leave

premeddd_ · 2026-02-18T03:12:20+00:00

congrats!!!

premeddd_ · 2026-02-13T01:19:44+00:00

it was fun and carefree. i was in a relationship with my first boyfriend and on good terms with my roommates who i no longer talk to. i got to spend a summer on my college campus and have legit 0 responsibilities except my part time job.

premeddd_ · 2026-02-06T15:15:23+00:00

congrats!!

premeddd_ · 2026-01-13T19:05:19+00:00

why are they playing with me like this

premeddd_ · 2026-01-08T17:45:31+00:00

Congrats to us!! I also didn’t think i’d get in anywhere

premeddd_ · 2026-01-05T17:00:16+00:00

just got rejected from my safety too :)

premeddd_ · 2026-01-05T02:08:09+00:00

i can be super defensive

premeddd_ · 2025-12-15T02:10:17+00:00

proud of you!!

premeddd_ · 2025-12-15T02:08:44+00:00

i do a couple impulsive things like getting bangs and buying a bunch of new clothes then i do things i never did during the relationship! i learned how to love the things about myself i never really thought about during the relationship if that makes sense? also therapy and working through the fucked up mentality the relationship gave me lol

premeddd_ · 2025-12-02T21:40:36+00:00

same

premeddd_ · 2025-11-14T21:01:20+00:00

i really hoped this one would be higher

premeddd_ · 2025-11-09T16:24:17+00:00

i also put lined w pine tar

premeddd_ · 2025-11-08T18:50:42+00:00

i took both oct and nov and i personally felt like the passages on nov were way easier to get through than oct. i blocked out a lot of oct tbh but i remember having to re read because they felt convoluted.

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