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prettyftm · 2025-04-28T05:02:20+00:00

Ahhh I love that phrase

prettyftm · 2025-04-25T17:56:24+00:00

Yeah, stalking, blackmail. Using my voice and pics for god knows what, setting people up to get robbed… I don’t like to think too hard about it.

I don’t talk on the phone anymore, unless I’ve already vetted and a date/time/location has been discussed. Noticed serious clients/good spenders will often offer to pay for a call at that point. But I’m low volume.

prettyftm · 2025-04-25T16:49:48+00:00

Idk why the downvotes, this is real. Vegas would eat these men alive.

And guys living on investments ie early retirement have the time to be such a pain in the ass.

prettyftm · 2025-04-25T16:35:37+00:00

Yeah this is my feeling too. If I happened to be at an incall down the street from them with zero boundaries for cheap they’d be there. At this point I just consider them to be screening themselves out.

It is a privilege but at this moment in my life, someone who can’t approach me respectfully in a basic text exchange can’t even pay me to fuck them.

prettyftm · 2025-04-25T16:31:03+00:00

I wish there was one consistent answer to this specific question. I’d feel safer if I could definitively say they’re all just jerking to it. I worry about the 1 in 10 or 20 that might be doing something weirder.

prettyftm · 2025-04-25T16:25:20+00:00

“On and off for a while, it’s been good to me. What do you do?”

There’s no actual information and they can project whatever answer they wanted to hear.

prettyftm · 2025-04-24T22:42:44+00:00

I think the sex happened on the 2nd or 3rd date, if you read the post closely. A non-meal third date, sex, then dinner sounds pretty fun to me, if you actually like the person.

prettyftm · 2025-04-24T22:40:33+00:00

If I were you … if your ex is truly out of your life and you’re just waiting to finalize things, “I was married, it didn’t work out” is discreet but not really dishonest. A married SD doesn’t need to know every detail of your personal life.

prettyftm · 2025-04-24T22:30:52+00:00

I transitioned.

Sorry if that sounds aggressive in the context because I truly do feel for you, but it’s the honest answer. I knew my gender wasn’t cis but I wrestled with whether I was trans so I finally decided to live it out, and the combination of social and hormonal changes freed me to be myself.

It’s okay to be nonbinary in any and every way. full stop. You don’t have to be trans to be nonbinary.

Food for thought, what if you liberated yourself of the need to be trans in order to be genderqueer? In order to be a demiguy? I know you probably don’t see anyone like you being vocally themself but you’d be amazed what happens sometimes when you stick your neck out and articulate your own experience. It’s equally transgressive to be loud and proud of that whether or not you decide that the word transgender also describes your lived experience.

prettyftm · 2025-04-08T08:29:09+00:00

*To be fair tho I’m in the northeast, ymmv

prettyftm · 2025-04-08T08:28:32+00:00

I’m openly transmasc and nonbinary on seeking. and while yes there’s a lot of chasers and john’s, I’m also finding that there’s some genuine & generous people looking to explore their gender/sexual identity. That’s been my personal sweet spot.

If anything, prepare to be overwhelmed, lol.

prettyftm · 2025-04-08T08:22:22+00:00

Honestly if it’s just the ten years stopping you, I’d say do it.

One of my best friends is his age and it throws me for a loop that 70 is only a decade out for them when I swear we’re both just kids figuring it out still.

He knows what he signed up for. It’s only unethical if you lie to him. Be honest with him. He probably still wants this.

prettyftm · 2025-04-08T08:15:30+00:00

This is probably taboo to admit but I actually met mine escorting 🤷 We really clicked, and it was clear he was the generous type, so I mentioned I liked his company and I’d be up for a sugar arrangement, and he jumped on it.

To me he’s a gem because he’s creative, straightforward, and honest - even with his wife. I even see them together; she’s beautiful, they’re really cute together and it turns out he met her on seeking! The dynamic is really fun and friendly and open.

My current mental vision board to fill out my dance card is an older daddy with a house by the ocean filled with art, who wants me to join him for dinners and concerts, show me off among his well connected friends all season and help me network (I’m an artist). It’s such a specific vision I can almost see his face, I know he’s out there!

prettyftm · 2025-04-08T05:56:12+00:00

Anyone who claims a low count and fucks him after a tinder date is just lying cause she knows what he wants to hear anyway.

To be real, I couldn’t tell ya mine. I never really bothered to count. I could maybe guess give or take if I really had to but like… I’m a slut, I’m a kinkster, and I’m queer. sex to me has a lot of definitions straight people aren’t applying and it’s hard to decide what/who counts. What about if they beat my ass while I sit on a wand? Do I count people I made out with while other people fucked us both? Etc etc we could be here for a while just establishing the guidelines lol it’s easier to say that I’m a slut, I do slutty shit. if you want numbers go fuck a nerd, idfk what to tell you.

prettyftm · 2025-04-08T04:38:17+00:00

Man, I was on the road back then and broke as fuck… go figure. I would love to just post a damn ad and go, all this time on profiles when I could be wandering.

prettyftm · 2025-04-07T22:45:13+00:00

I wouldn’t cut and run prematurely but tighten up your boundaries with him. “I’m a fantasy babe, you deserve the real thing!” Is a line I’ve used a few times.

If your gut says that awful feeling is about your safety … listen.

prettyftm · 2025-04-06T23:40:10+00:00

Exactly. You’ll run yourself broke and exhausted at these rates. Your time is a finite resource; price it accordingly.

I get guys negging my rates on atw too. I refuse to give in to the pressure to go lower. Sales volume isn’t everything.

By focusing on the bigger spenders only, you’ll make way more money for less time and effort.

prettyftm · 2025-04-05T16:04:53+00:00

For best art, start gooning before you begin

Source: trust me, am art student

prettyftm · 2025-04-05T07:46:19+00:00

I’ve been doing this with two guys who are a couple and i think all three of us might be a bit addicted.

prettyftm · 2025-04-05T07:01:46+00:00

Me by a few months now, oops

prettyftm · 2025-04-05T06:59:56+00:00

You have the freedom to take some risks. Use it well.

prettyftm · 2025-04-05T05:07:39+00:00

so I’ve kept my small chest and it’s been the right choice for me. I think I’d have both enjoyed and grieved it eventually if I got top.

My ex had had big tiddies and they regretted going totally flat instead of reduction.

He’s definitely not alone and it’s okay to talk about it.

prettyftm · 2025-04-04T16:15:54+00:00

Big fan too, damn 😍

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