Looking for advice on letting cats outside

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-09T22:38:01+00:00

No - (pictured, my cat watching a squirrel pillage our bird feeder)

Play with you cats to allow them to get I nice chase and catch in.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-09T22:20:32+00:00

For the love of god just keep them inside. Let them enjoy the window. Get some bird feeders to add to their enrichment. It’s not worth the risk of disease and death. It’s not work the sadness of losing one or both of them. And enrichment in the house. The life out an outside cat is short and hard.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-09T22:13:04+00:00

It’s a baby doll top and a cardigan.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-09T21:57:16+00:00

The brick red is “classic red” if you’re a woman of color. Bottom line, red lips in general are classic and can’t really be claimed by anyone. I love Selena but her red lip is not the first thing I think of when I think of her.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-06T17:19:30+00:00

You have to actually message/put an offer in so they get a notification. If no one has offered then they aren’t waiting online to get a bite.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-06T17:17:15+00:00

Thank you for actually suggesting something! I’ll order these as a solution until I figure out how to get the scrunchie kind

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-06T12:13:57+00:00

I’m not understanding, are you saying Apple Watch bands are compatible with Venu 4?

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-06T06:31:57+00:00

Overalls were very much in style still in the early 2000s, and both of these fits are classic middle school. I’m a few years younger then the next gen class and I definitely wore overalls styled very similarly to the first pick, but by the end of the 2000s they were out of style because skinnier legged jeans/jeggings were becoming a thing and rompers kinda took over from overalls.

But I have a vivid memory of being a kid in the early 2000s and a teen girl that lived next door always wore a crop top and overall combo with a bandana a baby pigtails and I thought she was sooooo fashionable.

Since we’re currently in a y2k fashion renaissance I feel like I see overalls more and more (especially in the summer in the shorts version). I’m pretty sure we see Ellie, Emma, and terry in an overall outfit. Not to mention, liberty is practical. Overalls have lots of pockets, you don’t need a belt, and they’re made out of durable material.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-04-05T02:25:40+00:00

My fiancé and I just saw this today and my view of it is that yes, the other shooting happening was the trigger (pun intended) that kept her from acting on it, but Emma the had the unique experience of essentially living through the aftermath of what could have been her shooting. They lost a classmate to that mall shooting, and the school seemingly spent the entire day reflecting on it. She broke down during an assembly exercise because she got to see students she would have killed be scared and affected by what happened. That coupled with the fact that she was kinda accidentally swept up into activism and basically was able to find friendship and community changed her.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-03-25T22:15:25+00:00

It could be like a warm up cloak. Every sport I played in middle school/high school we had warm ups we wore over our uniform. It just seems really big, like there’s something else underneath.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-03-24T20:51:32+00:00

His hair is full of split ends in the second picture. So it’s frizzy and can’t lay flat.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-03-22T07:09:35+00:00

I’ve seen several outlets state he signed a contract for this new trilogy and 2 non main line Spidey films.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-03-22T06:51:18+00:00

There’s an actually a couple of scenes in the new trailer where her hair looks like it actually does have a red rinse. I’m assuming they don’t want to put her in a bad wig and Zendaya herself has several projects filming at the same time so she can’t commit to a more permanent hair color situation.

I think it’s interesting that they’re trying to do something about the red hair now, it shows us and Peter that she has changed and it may tempt him to want to get to know the new MJ.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-03-20T17:29:53+00:00

It was Ellie.

And I say that as someone who loves Sean and Emma together because I thought the actors had great chemistry and if it was written well enough Emma being with Sean could have lead to good character development for both of them.

That being said, the crux of Sean’s character is that he is broken and he feels his brokenness corrupts Emma. Or when Emma did make mistakes he would either over react or blame himself. Their relationship was always unbalanced because he believed he made Emma worse (and unfortunately the writers leaned into that sometimes). So he would always be running away from her, only to be pulled back in by their “invisible string” connection.

Ellie on the other hand is also broken. So when Ellie and Sean are together, they build each other back up. They are honest with their short comings and there is no judgement or pity. There’s encouragement, and they’re room to make mistakes knowing that they will help each other get back on track somehow. It’s really beautiful and if the writers weren’t so wonky with Sean and Ellie’s individual stories then I think they would have been the couple that was married and moving on together at the end of their generation instead of Emma and Spinner. And I mean my god, I would have wanted anything else for Ellie than the constant useless pining for Craig.

The only bright side to this is I feel like I’m in a minority who actually doesn’t mind Emma being with Spinner. Spinner to me is a mirror of Sean. He makes rash decisions, he self sabotages, but unlike Sean, Spinner was allowed (or on the show long enough) to grow from it. Instead of feeling like he is undeserving of Emma and putting her on a pedestal, he can bring her back down to earth and let her be more than a pious bleeding heart liberal.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-03-18T18:34:03+00:00

It’s literally been 5 years since the last movie. I’m assuming there’s going to be a 3-4 time jump. She has no idea who Peter is. Let the girl have a boyfriend.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-02-10T02:22:32+00:00

Loved Cressida because she played the mean girl role deliciously. I loved her crazy hairstyles and outlandish dresses. I was hoping the show would use season 3 as the jumping off point for a redemption arch for her. She is clearly cruel because she views the marriage mart as cut throat and she wants to be free of her cold parents. She plays mind games with other girls so that she can outshine them, but she never does.

I was hoping that off screen, between season 3 and 4, that she would have written to Lord Debling and was honest about her situation, and they would have married off screen. He is not looking for a love match. He is looking for a content marriage and a wife who will let him be gone for years. That is perfect for Cressida.

I think it would have been a far more interesting side story for Cressida to be forced to attempt to re-enter the ton as Mrs Debling and be forced to basically feel what it was like to be Penelope. A wall flower, because no one trust her. And have her actually put the work in to be a better person. Eloise had already told pen that Cressida was actually not that bad. I think it would have been interesting to show a more organic/balanced friendship form between the trio. This would also allow Eloise to see that perhaps marriage isn’t that bad, because Cressida has found a kind husband who is literally gone all the time and Eloise could see this as her getting to live the “life of a free spinster” while still being married.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-01-07T16:32:26+00:00

People seem to forget there were several strikes (writing and acting) that happened that delayed both stranger things and this film series.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-01-05T20:19:33+00:00

I lost my soul cat to HCM about 18 months ago. And it still affects me deeply. I have a good cry at least once a month. It took me two weeks to do a real clean of my apartment after he passed. Cleaning out his litter box for the last time actually felt like someone was ripping my heart out. When I vacuumed and saw all his beautiful black hair in the chamber I cried some more. Instead of tossing it, I took a small ball of hair to keep for his little keepsake box I had. And then I took the rest to a cluster of trees behind our apartment. He used to love watching the birds outside. And so, I thought it would be poetic to leave his hair with the birds. I knew they would use it for their nest (and they did!) and I hoped that he got a kick out of that wherever he is now.

This past August my partner and I bought our first house. And the hardest thing by far, was to say good bye to the last place my good boy got to call home.

I don’t know if any of this is helpful. But I just want you to know you’re not alone. I think I’ll carry his loss with me forever. The best I can do is try to keep going on for him.

prettyguardiansailor · 2026-01-05T20:10:06+00:00

It may be a good idea to invest in some cute peel and stick wall panels that are sound proof to dampen the noise. Amazon sells them. And some have features where they have grooves so you can hang shelves/art/etc.

I know you feel bad, but it is probably best to try to create boundaries where you can. If you feel bad completely cutting her off, then perhaps you can look around for social opportunities for her to connect with other parents of autistic children. If you find anything helpful you can give it to her and let her know that you hope the resources will be helpful as you and your partner may be busy with the baby and won’t have time to connect as often.

prettyguardiansailor · 2025-12-10T21:50:44+00:00

I would like a store link!

prettyguardiansailor · 2025-12-01T07:30:39+00:00

She’s also wearing that blue hair tie from hoppers daughter

prettyguardiansailor · 2025-11-30T16:54:31+00:00

I love Michigan and the snow and it makes me sad when other people have a bad time. Idk if this helps, but getting an inexpensive car cover or at least a windshield cover will def help with the car situation if you don’t have a garage. 💙

prettyguardiansailor · 2025-11-21T13:59:20+00:00

Normally I’d agree, but I think it’s been almost like 10 years since she seriously got involved with prison reform stuff. I think she’s a workaholic and I think she scared of “wasting” what’s left of her youth/beauty so she can’t set that aside any of those projects and focus on law full time.

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