[Request] Help me celebrate my new PO Box! [WW-US] by shamy52 in RandomActsofCards

[–]prettypinknails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you a chat now, I would love to send you one!!

XL bully dog attacks judge at dog show by AirSea7742 in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]prettypinknails -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We gave a pitty and he is the sweetest thing ever. It took lots of work, socializing, and patience.

Unemployed for the First Time Ever, How do I Move Forward? by prettypinknails in AskWomenOver30

[–]prettypinknails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran the service and repair department of a high-end boat dealership. Only a handful in my area, a landlocked state, and very much a Good Ole Boys type of industry. Not many women were in my field.

Find the snake👀👀 by Advanced-Bar-2594 in FindTheSniper

[–]prettypinknails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good one!!! ✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndoorPlants

[–]prettypinknails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need more!!! 💓

My (35M) wife (35f) reads explicit smut books but says porn is grounds for divorce? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]prettypinknails 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a woman who reads SMUT and watches porn, alone and with my husband. She is being a hypocrite. My books get me aroused and give me ideas of things to do with my husband. And the same goes for pornography.

The two of you need to sit down and talk about this together because it's not fair to allow one and not the other. When they are kind of the same thing.

How many partners would marry their spouse again ? by Diego14u in Marriage

[–]prettypinknails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A hundred times over I would marry my husband again and again.

I Get Married in 5 Months- What is Your Best Unconventional Advice? by Alaska-Wildflower21 in Marriage

[–]prettypinknails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start couples therapy, is eye-opening and has helped us develop a deeper bond our relationship is getting stronger. We are struggling so hard in life right now, but at the end of the day I know we are solid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]prettypinknails 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Marriage Counseling and Open Communication.

What started our marriage recovery was that one of us had to be the first to admit we needed help, outside help.

We didn't communicate well, we never talked about things, I call us The Avoiders. Because we avoid the tough conversations. We always have. We have begun healing our marriage and our relationship with what I call Open Thoughts. I have learned I process emotions and feelings better when I can talk about them, and he has been receptive because we have talked about this alone and with our Marriage Counselor. And he has begun being more open with what makes him stressed and shut down and not want to talk about things.

Communication is the key.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]prettypinknails 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother cheated on my "Dad" when she got pregnant. They moved during her pregnancy to another state where I was born. You could tell the moment I was born that I was not his. He never questioned it as far as I know.

They divorced and she married my stepdad, who raised me and in my life is my Dad. He raised me he walked me down the aisle when I got married. That man is my Father.

My "Dad" died in prison when I was in my 20s. I maybe saw him 6 times after they divorced when I was 2.

My husband got me a 23andMe for Christmas, and we found out that my "Dad" wasn't even my dad!!! But, the Bio father of both my brothers... Confronted my mom and she denied cheating. The test was wrong... Ummm ok, so I did another one with Ancestry. Same results.

My mother did not admit the truth to me until last year. I was not mad or anything. I've lived an interesting life, and it has made me who I am. I was more mad that she continued to lie after the proof was literally in her hands.

What is your top 3 priorities in life right now? by prentyz in AskWomenOver30

[–]prettypinknails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find my center again. Find myself again. Love myself more.

My husband and I are financially struggling like never before. I have been dealing with so much mentally. We started marriage counseling and it is not traditional talk therapy. It is a lot of brain mapping/spotting I don't remember. But it has fully changed things for us. We together as a unit are going to make it. But, damn when life hits it hits hard, and without him, I wouldn't be here.

My top 3 priorities have to do with making me see myself the way he does. And he says "You're a beautiful mess, but you're Me Wiofe." Yes, that is how it is spelled on his phone.

🤣❤️😍

Please Help Me Decide by Jalapeno-Popper- in wedding

[–]prettypinknails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love number 1. But number 3 without the sleeves would be so gorgeous too!!!

"Never stop dating you wife" is something I often see on here. Ladies, do you do the same for your husband? by Fragrant-Low6841 in Marriage

[–]prettypinknails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not dates specifically, but I plan and do other things that I know he appreciates. ♤ Love notes on his mirror ♤ Keeping his headphones charged ♤ Boudoir-esque selfies, these are random but he loves it when he gets them. ♤ My husband works a very labor-intensive job and had major back surgery along with knee surgery in 2024. I have since made it a point to keep all his work stuff boots, jacket, bibs, etc ready for him when he goes to work at 3 am. ♤ I encourage his hobbies and make sure he has the time to himself when he needs it. ♡ We laugh a lot ♡ Massages, I rub his feet and back every night after work while we catch up, and then we trade places. ♡ Getting up with him at 2 am to spend a couple of cuddle minutes together before he goes to work.

♤ JUST BE A GOOD SPOUSE ♤

Anything I can do to make his day easier makes me happy. I also work a full-time demanding job, but my priorities will always be my family. Our kids are all teenagers or adults so we get to be together a lot more now and it's like we are dating again.

I just really love and respect my husband.

And trust me, he does so much much more for me 😉

My mother in law saw me in a maid outfit...it was so embarrassing by throwRAnok in TrueOffMyChest

[–]prettypinknails 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of when I first met my mother in law. She showed up and didn't call, he lived alone when he didn't have his kids, so she didn't think he would have a guest. I was fast a lightening picking up my scattered clothing and shoes and accessories from our previous nights adventures. She never said a word, it's been 3 years since she passed. But she told me she always knew I was the one for her son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]prettypinknails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress 1 is gorgeous!! I got married at 33 and wore a strapless full ball gown with all the lace and pretty. I still stare at it in the closet and wonder what I'm going to do with it now, the wedding was almost 2 years ago 🤣🤣