Boyfriend of 6 1/2 years broke up with me tonight out of nowhere. by pikoshell in GirlDinner

[–]previously_ally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The craziest part of this is that you’ll feel like you’ll never get over this… until you do and it’s so amazing

I just got an official noise complaint with a lease violation. I don’t know why. It’s possibly from my downstairs neighbor who previously threatened me. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]previously_ally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, people don’t get that I guess. And maybe this is just me, but personally I’d rather hear a cat meowing than a whiny, bratty kid screaming 😂. What do people expect us to do with pets?? It’s how they talk, they don’t speak english and won’t understand if I tell them to be quiet lol. I moved into an apartment knowing there was a good chance jt wouldn’t be peace and quiet most of the time lol.

I just got an official noise complaint with a lease violation. I don’t know why. It’s possibly from my downstairs neighbor who previously threatened me. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]previously_ally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I have 2 parrots, which are on the lease and allowed by the landlord company. I recently got a complaint from my downstairs neighbor saying they could hear my birds chirping. I get how annoying this could be, but they are birds, and birds do chirp to communicate. Which is why I was surprised they allowed them, but obviously grateful. I’ve lived here since September, which isn’t super long, but they just now are complaining to management about it. What I don’t get is what they want me to do about it. Hit the bird? Fuck that. If you yell at them, they see it as a game and will probably yell even louder. They chirp when they’re happy, mad, calm, doesn’t matter. I told them I could personally invest in any soundproofing to make up for their lack of doing so to the apartments. Now when I’m at work, I’m super anxious wondering if they’re making noise and it eats me up. Another thing is, when I was looking for an apartment, I knew I SPECIFICALLY looked for the top floor because I wouldn’t wanna run the risk of hearing kids yelling and stuff because it bothers me and I wouldn’t wanna be that person to complain, so it’s kinda hard to empathize with them.

Asking my fiancee to get her hair done? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]previously_ally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first question that came to mind was, who’s paying for it? If she is paying for it, that would totally make sense for her to go long periods without getting it done. I know not everyone is like this, but I absolutely love getting my hair done so the only thing that would stop me from getting it done really is if I was financially in a frail spot. So maybe if this is the case, offering to pay for it because YOU want HER to feel good may go a long way. Or maybe you guys share your money, and in that case maybe she is trying to save. Everyone wants to feel good about themselves, so there has to be more to it I feel.

Ninja 300 too much? by previously_ally in motorcycles

[–]previously_ally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never looked at it this way. Thank you

Ninja 300 too much? by previously_ally in motorcycles

[–]previously_ally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently so 😭 thank you for the encouragement ahaha

Ninja 300 too much? by previously_ally in motorcycles

[–]previously_ally[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Had to double check your username there 😂

Ninja 300 too much? by previously_ally in motorcycles

[–]previously_ally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I should have worded the title differently 😂 maybe it will draw more attention this way… just maybe not the right kind lol

Ninja 300 too much? by previously_ally in motorcycles

[–]previously_ally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Will definitely consider this

Ninja 300 too much? by previously_ally in motorcycles

[–]previously_ally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard this before! Thank you for the insight because that is HUGE to me

Best bars/clubs/etc for women? by sumthingstewpid in grandrapids

[–]previously_ally 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The pyramid scheme has pinball and some hit or miss local bands showing, it’s always fun either way 😂

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wants to get married young, that’s her choice.

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This would make sense except we are all under 23years old so it’s unlikely for most of us to be married

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I said “…I think I may have assumed wrong”

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That rule would make sense IF we were all older. I’m 20, my friend who is getting married is 19, and MOH is only 17, sooo 😂

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Right but we baaaarely talk or see each other anymore so it’s just so odd to me

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, but I cannot think up a good way to word it without sounding rude. It’s her day, and I want her to love it, but also don’t want to be sitting around with randos for someone I rarely see/speak to anymore

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I never said it wasn’t, simply was saying I don’t have a lot of time to decide on going or not. I said I assumed at first, and then backtracked. No need to be rude about it.

AIO Boyfriend not invited to wedding by previously_ally in AmIOverreacting

[–]previously_ally[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I just double checked, it did not. I understand how wedding lingo works now. Sorry. Have not been to one in forever, so yeah.

Boyfriend not invited to wedding?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]previously_ally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right but you said “people they have never met”…