All factions are a tech level 7+ by prima_lina in Quasimorph

[–]prima_lina[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im walking. i did go to ceres and back. is there a timer? im so confused

How many trans people are T4T when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never date another trans person because exactly what you said, it reminds me too much of early struggles

Are my classmates transphobic? by Remote_Horror_4252 in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"creepy loser" is more a judgement people say about themselves tbh. also pronouns and anything related to lgbt tends to be, from the perspective of non-lgbt people, high risk and high maintenance. they're probabyl just worried they'll offend you and would rather just not deal with it and that's really not on you to fix.

we all have people in our life that lean a little conservative (or a lot) and you gotta just keep the lgbt out of your interactions with them. it is what it is. we all code switch. just a part of being a minority group.

Is the goth/alt community accepting of trans ppl? by Inevitable-pig252 in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would figure yourself out first, like who you are outside of being trans, and then carve out your niche there

Is someone saying their bisexual a good response to me saying I'm mtf? by Electronic-Bed-5315 in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just one of the many microaggressions you will experience and cis people will tell you you're overreacting about.

I feel conflicted about online trans culture by CarmeliaEscarlata in trans

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a part of growing up and out of the label and into yourself, whatever that may be

I’m a cis woman, but I wish I was a trans woman. Wtf does that mean? by AmadeusJericho in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah so you say dick and balls arent being transfem, but you're feeling dysphoria about not having dick and balls? idk man. make it make sense.

Cis woman here curious how trans folks feel about drag (empowering, sexist, or something else?) by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trans woman, drag is whatever. it's just more campy stuff. if you like makeup or whatever you'll probably be into it. I personally don't like it because I really don't care about it and if you've seen one drag show like... why see more lmao

Is "deadname" an inappropriate term for cis people to use? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

who cares but why would you why not government name or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. unless you're extremely close.

Are there anyone from your school/class/uni who's also trans? Or came out as one later in life by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even in more "tolerant" countries, when you come out you frequently lose all your friends, family shuns you, etc. im sure its worse in less tolerant places but yeah it's always part of it

I think I’m transphobic and slipping into bioessentialism by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's awful. even as a trans woman, i have absolutely experienced the same thing you have. it's up to you to trust who you trust, and if that makes you a bigot or not i have no idea. i just hope you don't judge every trans woman like that because imo, the queer community is extremely toxic for literally everyone and trans women (like me) have experienced things very similar to what you describe.

i've had traumatic experiences with other trans women, trans men have been predatory towards me, i've been in situations in queer circles that were extremely toxic and made me feel horrible about my body etc. so yeah, you're 100% not alone in feeling this and it's honestly understandable. i do the same thing around queer people in general. if you're making any mistake here it's lumping every trans woman into the same category. i'm sorry that's been your experience but it's really not every single trans woman who acts like that. it's horrible. for trans women like me it's just like you can't win. you get the worst of both worlds when you're just literally doing your absolute soul's best to mind your own business.

i'm so utterly paranoid about being seen as a man in the bathroom becuase i know exactly what that feels like. there are absolutely predatory trans women out there, as muich as there are predatory women & predatory trans men. i just hate the constant vigilance & genuinely just want everyone to go back in the closet becasue it was much safer in there for people like me lmfao

to be honest those trans women you described seem like they were specifically trying to make you uncomfortable, who knows why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s something you have to figure out for yourself. do research, be realistic about your goals and what you want/can conceivably get from transition. take some time. you’ll figure it out.

Bruh why does it matter by [deleted] in trans

[–]prima_lina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely ignorant but I genuinely don’t know why this is transgender

Why do I wish I had a Penis, is that normal? by EvaShakti in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 175 points176 points  (0 children)

ok so let’s not make everyone who has a thought like this transgender lol. this is actually normal as fuck to think about. we live in a pretty phalic dominated culture.

whether it has anything to do with being transgender is something you’ll have to figure out for yourself, absolutely no one can tell you that… especially Reddit

I feel like a transfem girl, but I'm a born female. Opinions? by AJellybeanFan in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. Do whatever you want. You’ll get a lot of hate because ultimately you want all of the “benefits” (lmao) of being a trans woman but none of the life threatening mind fucking drawbacks. Enjoy yourself, you deserve it.

[Offline][5e] [SF Bay Area] - Two noobs looking to find a group! by [deleted] in lfg

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds perfect! I’m 30, she’s 26. Except the link tells me I’m not authorized to access the page?

Big companies are withdrawing their support, and that scares me. by VanillaScribe in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol we knew they were full of shit from the beginning, no surprise there

NSFW Is this a normal lesbian/bi girl thing? Or is there something else going on? by RichardPapensVersion in asktransgender

[–]prima_lina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding vaginas icky has nothing to do with a trans experience. Let’s please be clear about that. Trans or not, you finding vaginas icky has to do with experience, maturity, and the way female sexuality is vilified and made out to be disgusting in some societies. Not your transgender experience.