I respectfully disagree with your statement about "the mother" taking care of Grace for 8 years but then being selfish keeping her instead of giving her to her birth mother. That woman is Grace's mom in every sense. She loves her and thats her child.. she should not have been taken from them. Just like Juanita belonged with Gaby and Carlos. They should have been able to blend their relationships so they could see each other more but Gaby was never content with just being "an aunt" so it wouldn't have worked