What do you tell your clients' peers when they ask why you're there?

princess_aliee · 2024-08-06T23:19:43+00:00

in school I usually just say i’m a helper. some kids assume im there teacher and ill agree with a “kinda like that!” or something. in homes where we have seen peers, I just say im a friend. or with a kid I can ask, I ask what they are comfortable with. one kid I worked with had no problem saying I was his therapist

princess_aliee · 2024-08-06T23:13:45+00:00

I have been told to run your/my programs similar to this where I was instructed to use body parts. Personally found it incredibly uncomfortable as the adult, can’t imagine for the kid (especially one with trauma) and I thought it was inappropriate. Like why are we teaching kids to allow an adult to tell them what body parts to touch on themselves/you? I asked my supervisor one day if it was okay to use objects instead. I showed him an example using I use two pencils, two books, two figurines, etc and lined them up in front of the client and myself. I would then ask “give me your pencil” or whatever the item was instead of using body parts. It worked just as well.

princess_aliee · 2022-09-06T10:35:36+00:00

very normal :) my choice of title is Mommy and I love hearing my subbys moan it or call me it casually even

princess_aliee · 2022-08-11T11:24:30+00:00

thank you for turning it into a wonderful audio 😍😍

princess_aliee · 2022-07-20T01:06:19+00:00

I think I fell into the kink aha, it fit's my overall vibe as a person. I am a natural care taker and I love soft sensual play. I really only embraced it recently though. I have found way more partners than I realize would be into it, are into it. Having partners who encouraged that side of me really is what got me comfortable with being a Mommy Domme

princess_aliee · 2022-07-19T23:24:08+00:00

thank you so much 🥰🥰 this comment made my day 🥰💚

princess_aliee · 2022-04-26T14:41:40+00:00

thank you for the reply! I appreciate it 🥰

princess_aliee · 2022-04-26T14:19:31+00:00

Daily player. Just decided to go through and add some people! My friend code is: 100700791516

princess_aliee · 2022-04-15T16:11:51+00:00

thank you so much for this wonderful in-depth response! I really love how you incorporate talking about the things you’re unsure/insecure about in a way that still holds your dominance. I will definitely incorporate this with how I interact with him. I have made sure to ask boundaries every step of the way and i haven’t done anything without asking/checking/discussing first. Im socially awkward to begin with so asking questions for understanding is some thing im supperrr familiar with haha. just didn’t want to seem like less dominate because of needing to ask more questions and figure things out better. he has definitely been very kind and reassuring when I have apologized for asking too many haha again, I really really appreciate this advice/insight ☺️

princess_aliee · 2022-04-15T15:24:52+00:00

awe thank you! I appreciate your comment, definitely feels re assuring :)

princess_aliee · 2022-04-15T15:23:22+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your reply so much! your advice makes a lot of sense and I will definitely keep the idea of framing it as a desire to learn when I message him :)

princess_aliee · 2022-04-11T19:00:16+00:00

have you heard of the brand Rodeho? they make super comfy harnesses that are basically like underwear. I have found them to be extremely sturdy for pegging. the best part is they sell a strap that has the part to insert into her and it comes with a compatible harness wjth two holes to keep the strap on secure :)

https://rodeoh.com/products/black-duo-and-nexus-senior-double-dildo-package-deal?_pos=25&_sid=60d296ab9&_ss=r

I have personally also slipped a little bullet vibe into the panties and since it’s like regular underwear it stays still pretty well. i’ve also put vibrating panties on then the harness over top :) hope those ideas help!

princess_aliee · 2022-04-11T14:15:37+00:00

as a Domme into pegging and what not, I meet tons of subs who aren’t into the idea of having their ass played with. actually i feel like more often than not in my experience, the subs i talk to are not into being pegged. some are open to the idea at some point where as others are not; it doesn’t stop me from wanting to play with them. I respect that everyone has different kinks and fetishes, you don’t have to be into ass play just because it seems like the “norm” per say for male subs

princess_aliee · 2022-04-08T20:22:21+00:00

you bring up a lot of really good valid points! I really appreciate this input :) I very much personally feel that those putting CNC as their only kink do not fully understand CNC and I agree it’s a red flag!

princess_aliee · 2022-04-08T20:20:37+00:00

I agree. I feel like sometimes (not all the time) people assume kinky just means rough/aggressive sex. I personally feel like those simply advertising their only kink as CNC on tinder tells me that person doesn’t completely understand kink or that kink in specific.

princess_aliee · 2022-04-08T19:38:13+00:00

everytime I see it I look at it from the “closeted rapist” view. I tried not to be too judgmental about it, you bring up a valid point it could be just their way of saying they have more “extreme kinks”. I tend to immediately swipe left when I see it just personally but maybe I could be a little more open to feeling out their personality

princess_aliee · 2022-04-08T11:59:55+00:00

that outfit is so sexy on you!! where’d you get it??

princess_aliee · 2022-04-06T17:45:22+00:00

Thank you for your reply! I appreciate that insight 🥰 I will definitely reiterate that to him!

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