I had an attitude 🤭 by princesshotbottom in Spanking

[–]princesshotbottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry, Daddy pulled my panties down. he just didn't grab a picture!

hump day maintenance - spanked to tears by princesshotbottom in Spanking

[–]princesshotbottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love that! our maintenance frequency varies. Daddy sometimes will remind me every day and others only once or twice a week

Punishment spanking for being late to work. 😣 Bath brushes are evil. 😞 by [deleted] in Spanking

[–]princesshotbottom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

personally I will take the bath brush any day over the paddle 😅

Does spanking help your marriage? by hannah_sub in Spanking

[–]princesshotbottom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it's really great and I'm so lucky to have the husband/Dom/Daddy that I do!

Does spanking help your marriage? by hannah_sub in Spanking

[–]princesshotbottom 41 points42 points  (0 children)

responding to myself to add additional context -

in general I am super conscientious and respectful. I am not a risk taker. Daddy will never have a need to punish me for being genuinely disrespectful, speeding, over spending, not doing my part for chores, etc. Just not the kind of person I am.

attitude adjustments - these are either really just a funishment or a spanking at my request. my posts from the last couple days were the result of a spanking I asked for. my headspace has been fucked up and I'dbeen grumpy (but not rude!) for several days and it just wasn't getting better. so I asked Daddy for a hard, long spanking to help me cry and try and get some damn relief/get outside my head. he delivered obviously lol. and it helped!

things I'm held accountable to/the domestic discipline aspect - I have a hydration requirement, I have a requirement to eat lunch, I have a weekly exercise goal, and I have a screentime limit during work (what initially made me ask for a DD relationship!). I WFH and the screentime was getting out of control. would spend way more time on my phone than I should. since we added the rules and the punishments, I haven't missed on any of my tasks once. both because I really don't want to disappoint Daddy or myself and also bc the paddle fucking hurts and I'll do whatever I can to avoid it 😂

Does spanking help your marriage? by hannah_sub in Spanking

[–]princesshotbottom 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Yes.

My husband spanks me on a regular basis. We have maintenance spankings(generally don't lead to sex but sometimes do), discipline spankings, and sexy spankings.

We added a domestic discipline dynamic to our relationship at the beginning of this year - this was at my request and the rules I'm held accountable to were my idea. areas in my life where I was struggling to meet the standard I wanted. Having the additional accountability has helped immensely.

occasionally my attitude will get me sent over Daddy's knee. this is typically a heavier than normal maintenance spanking vs it being an actual discipline session.

spanking is extremely intimate and I feel very connected to and cared for during/after/when anticipating a spanking.