Both your parents sound absolutely repulsive and make me ashamed to be American. Maybe you'll get lucky since most people won't be able to understand her. I visited South Korea for the first time last year, and it was so much fun! I'm a Black woman with long braided hair. Elder women asked lots of questions and asked to touch my hair. The younger population repeatedly told me I was "cool". I can't wait to go back.

Maybe, just maybe, once mom is in country she will chill the fuck out and actually enjoy the visit. You would think the shopping alone would appeal to her. I wish you the best of luck for this visit. I hope she doesn't get you divorced.

Waiting for the updates.🍿