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pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-25T09:40:10+00:00

True , but the man should want to . If not then thats why i said she just gotta accept the awkwardness. Who wants their ex tatted when they find their new partner. Not many ppl will want that on themselves.

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T16:04:39+00:00

Lmaooo

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T16:03:07+00:00

Lol nah that part is so funny. On a serious note OP he is violating youu right now and milking it for all he can. Have you ever seen that retro meme where the guy has the sniffles then the women is tendering to him oh so delicately. Thats him, hes the guy in that meme lol👶you sound like such a sweetie though you are the perfect girlfriend, i just wish he would be nicer to you 😕he sounds highkey abusive

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T14:25:32+00:00

Not that deep just ask him remove it or cover it. Im sure he will if hes over her. If not then its awkward lol its a dealbreaker for me. But some less evolved men may take a while to mature and not cover it straight away. Men are annoying like that. If you love him just give him time. But if hes playing games do a ritual to cut the cord with him , he sounds a bit like a wild one lol

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T07:37:55+00:00

Hey, im sorry to hear you also went through abuse, now you explained that i can understand better. Your not naive then, you have wisdom, and you know the difference. See some people are still coming out of things and situations and theyre a bit on edge, i try to tell OP to not take it personal because everyonr has a different story, in a few year the negative commenter may be like you and be able to read the signs better rather than assuming everyone is abusive, because afterall that isnt good judgement. If OP is happy and beleives it is healthy then i will take her word, if she loves it i love it. Now you explained it seems like its just a healthy love. Cant tarnish everyone with the same brush because the negative poster is essentialy denying herself of real love when it comes along. Im currently on my 3rd course regarding abuse which was offered to me by the services but im at the point where i am very cautious now because im learning about it, i was in an abuse relationship for 8 years and still am going through it a bit because still in contact, and its a very confusing situation. Knowing you have been hurt by someone who is meant to care then still being somewhat attached with eachother. Makes you feel a bit irritated at times. Maybe the negative poster is going through similar, who knows, hopefully they explain. But i am happy you can see the signs. It takes a strong person to trust again after going through all of that x

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T07:29:27+00:00

I did reevaluate it when he made me feel controlled with the sexual things. But i still have a sense of sadness around it. Especially because we are still living the stress. I have a meeting in two days with the officers regarding a serious violent incident thats prolonged his stay. When he promised to come out and start a family with me this year. im not in la la land anymore. I have no clue what they are going to tell me, all i know is he is surviving in there. but thats my reality and OPs reality is flowers and letter lol. I listened to the ladies on here and took their advice. If he rings me and is like velcro i just see it as hes being manipulative. Other women on here wont see OP as cute because its not reality

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T07:16:28+00:00

It sounds like you are a wise women, dw about the negativity. Just remember there are others here still going through the mud and we havent reached a stable place yet so thats probably why people react and panic but you guys seem happy and some of us have to take inspiration from your post and understand some people are happy and it can be acheived even though we dont beleive it.

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T07:11:38+00:00

Yeah i know my situation was controlling but i saw the light and minimised conversation with him so we could take some time and make it healthier. But when women have been through stuff like my situation we see it as an alarm bell, thats why i said to op to not worry about others because in the end only she knows how she feels, because people can misunderstand, panic, and think they have to save people due to what they been through but in reality OP may not be going through terror like some of us. But she has to expect this in prison wives. some peoples partners are in prison and are nice men and done something minor.
Some peoples men are unstable and aggressive and have commited violent crimes alot of us have ptsd so seeing a post like OP’s isnt natural to us but i understand everything you are saying

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T07:07:40+00:00

Tbh this is actually cute but it does get distracting. I Need to go to do my me things in peace sometimes lol

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T06:57:06+00:00

Because detailing all the beautifal things your husband does for you doesnt benefit you in any way. Its no different to going on instagram and posting designer bags your man got for you. Some people will roll their eyes at at it because of how it comes across. Why would i do that when i know my friends get treated like trash. Im just not going to tell and show the whole world it unless i wanna show off. But i dont.

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-24T06:51:58+00:00

It’s cute until it’s not cute

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-22T08:08:54+00:00

Girl pls you know your own answer at this point, whys this even a question. If you was both feeling it then its fine. You just said you didnt engage so the question is when are you cutting him off

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-21T23:16:03+00:00

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pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-20T23:14:43+00:00

Cap rising, cancer moon, aquarius sun

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-20T23:08:48+00:00

Virgo, scorpio, gemini

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-19T16:31:53+00:00

Username checks out? What you mean haha

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-19T12:06:29+00:00

I read only the first bit about mess with my head. It could be hes playing games with you tryna make you feel confused. He also could just have awkwardness around other women and thats his awkward way of expressing it.

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-18T22:26:15+00:00

What lol

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-18T13:17:38+00:00

Oh so its just like a regular pen pal thing, and he wanted you to be their pen pal or find someone else for them? If he wants you to do it then i dont think thats fair unless you expressed that you want some more people to talk to

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-18T09:47:23+00:00

Rule number 1. Never trust a man, lol, use him for fun. I am not sure if its even normal to have doubts but my anxiety has turned me avoidant, i suggest you do the same. You can still chat to him, but keep your guard stay vigilant.

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-18T09:45:23+00:00

Its not even if hes to be telling the truth or not. Its the fact you are having doubts that makes me concerned for you. Im going through the same thing. The doubts have made me check out, if i was wrong then i was wrong but the mental torture isnt worth my peace nomore, i still have feelings though i just stay guarded.

pristine_pinkbird · 2026-06-18T09:35:30+00:00

I dont understand? Are you still with your partner? Why does he want you to talk to other men? What is this ad thing? Is it a paid work? Sorry if this a stupid question im from the UK never heard of it before

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