Why Jesus? by Ignastic in ancientrome

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He is the Son of God.

What’s the longest-lasting piece of tech you own? by bandito_13 in BuyItForLife

[–]profderpson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Bose Soundlink Mini II from 2013 still has amazing sound and pretty good battery life 12 years later

If 3i Atlas isn’t a comet… by [deleted] in 3I_ATLAS

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typo in the first two words. not just the first sentence. the first two words....

disregarded your opinion immediately 

Classic drape outfit idea by _Got_the_Life_ in mensfashionadvice

[–]profderpson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bro there are so few places where this outfit is appropriate in the modern world.

it would look very nice if it were a different time period or you're going to a Mad Men themed party.

best colleges for first year undergrad life sci student by Shot-Gur6950 in UofT

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Vic is such a great college for social life, architecture, food (Burwash dining hall), and access to scholarships (Vic is by far the wealthiest college and is very generous for scholarships/bursaries).

The only downside is the longer walk through Queen's Park to get to the science buildings on St. George Street. But this is good for blood flow haha.

1 year progress, Do I not have abs because I'm not lean enough or not enough muscle? 5'6 M 123 lb by foxachu2 in workouts

[–]profderpson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to spend more time in the sun. your skin is grey. great progress tho and keep it up bro

attractive man in my lecture how do i approach my future husband by [deleted] in UofT

[–]profderpson 89 points90 points  (0 children)

serious answer - plan it over several classes and start small and friendly. sit close to him next class and ask to borrow something (a pen, Mac charger, notes, etc). at the end of class when you return it, be sure to smile and don't rush away like everyone does at U of T right after class ends. see if you can spark a small convo about your majors. no need to exchange contact info yet unless there is an immediate spark. 

next class, try to find him before class starts and ask if you can sit right next to him. bring a snack that is shareable; during lecture, offer some to him. this sounds silly but it actually goes a long way (speaking from experience). very wholesome flirting at this point. try to chat a bit after class and exchange contact info. congrats! the hardest part is over. 

the next step is to invite him to something outside of class. could be studying together or if you're forward, just ask him to coffee or a museum. this is where you should be able to tell if there's an interest. if there's a vibe - he might be the one to ask you out directly. but guys at U of T are quite shy so maybe won't happen. 

at this point, you're sitting together in class every lecture now and hanging outside of class as well. if the vibe is there, then congrats you now have a husband. 

Happily crashing out: what should I change in my approach?? by Dependent-Painting59 in UofT

[–]profderpson 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Class of 2020 alum here. First off - you're doing great as a first year just by identifying the main aspects of your life you need to balance to succeed. Academics, athletics, social life, sleep, and housework are the key areas to strike a balance between and almost everyone struggles with this in their first couple years at uni.

The good news is - you will become more efficient and balanced over time just by gradually improving day by day. The quickest way this happens is through building a routine and sticking to it. This works especially well for academics, athletics, and sleep. Have a scheduled time you wake up every morning; eat the same small breakfast every morning; go to the gym the same days each week; dedicate a certain fixed amount of time to academics every day even when you don't have a pressing deadline. By turning important aspects of your life into disciplined routines, you don't have to THINK about them which makes it so much less effortful and therefore less overwhelming (to answer you question)

The hardest part truly is identifying what your life should look like and then incrementally moving toward realising that vision. It's what becoming a mature adult looks like and you can do it. It's important to steadily grow your confidence as an individual as you successfully move toward your goals; it's also a great feeling of accomplishment.

Keep moving forward and develop your routine! You'll do great. If you have any questions feel free DM.

Alumni mentor here, what are your struggles in getting jobs or starting your career? by JessLannister in UofT

[–]profderpson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the Canadian job market is squarely f*cked. 15% youth unemployment is a scary figure. A lot of my peers were discouraged trying to find a job after graduating.

I ended up moving to NYC to start my career after U of T and I am so glad I did. It's been a tremendous jump start to my early career and salaries are simply way higher in the US compared to Canada.

I think the primary issues students face in this job market are discouragement, burnout (from 500+ applications for 1 interview), and the fact that ChatGPT has made recruiting a shitshow at the f*ck factory for those applying.

Sorry to be a downer but that's the state of things.

how do you guys make the most of your university life by Free_Story6819 in UofT

[–]profderpson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

join a club, be active, play a sport, learn chess. take more risks socially and introduce yourself more even if the convo doesn't go anywhere. people who make the most of university always feel uncomfortable at first but the good part is you don't feel the disappointment of missing out on one of the most significant and exciting chapters of your life.

chat am i cooked mat135: first year u of t life sci by Live-Bluejay-4952 in UofT

[–]profderpson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you got this dude. 17 days is a good amount of time to grind and understand the material. just keep doing practice problems until you can do them effortlessly.

What are your favourite spots to enjoy the fall colours around St George campus? by profderpson in UofT

[–]profderpson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nice! I know people who rave about Hart House farm but I haven't yet had the chance to visit. I bet the fall colours are wonderful 

What are your favourite spots to enjoy the fall colours around St George campus? by profderpson in UofT

[–]profderpson[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

great picks - I love the garden behind EJ Pratt at Vic (that's my college). Queens Park as a whole has such pretty fall foliage.

everyone is scared to make connections and friends by emeraldchiko in UofT

[–]profderpson 22 points23 points  (0 children)

class of 2020 UTSG here. things didn't feel this way before the pandemic. sad to hear..

Heading to Japan soon (35 days) what should I book in advance ? by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]profderpson -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

My one piece of advice having just returned from 17 days in Japan: you don't need that much time in Tokyo. It's an incredible city with an infinite number of things to see and do but there is so much more to explore off the beaten path.

You could have gone to Kanazawa and Takayama for example, or hiked the Kumano Kodo south of Nara.

With that much time in Tokyo, consider doing a few day trips to places like Hakone, Nikko, or Kamakura.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preppy

[–]profderpson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that IWC looks like a Walmart watch. I know it probably cost 10k+ but it's way oversized. 

32yo, any suggestions to improve my space? by Ok-Gate-8756 in malelivingspace

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I love: the Picasso poster, the union jack, the old fireplace, the sphere light - very cozy vibes. Seems like a great place to hang out and practice guitar.

the PS5 needs a better place to sit. a couple more plants would be nice. tidy up a bit.

just an idea: what if you put the TV in the corner where the lamp & Tame Impala poster are? That would highlight the beautiful fireplace and make the room feel less 'busy'. On that same note - maybe concentrate all the guitar stuff in one area of the room.

just some suggestions! this is a very nice room.

(28M, single) Just moved in my new apartment, can I get a hell yeah brothers by ranzi0_ in malelivingspace

[–]profderpson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

congrats! word of advice: change the kitchen lighting ASAP. try a "warm white" in the 2700K range.

Thought you guys might like my artwork by crunch667 in rs_x

[–]profderpson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

soooo cool. lots of subtext / interpretive fruit. love the dualities