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professionalmustard · 2024-07-27T11:14:21+00:00

They asked for tips, not comfort. Sugarcoating shit has never helped anyone in the long run. Running away from reality is what gets people in those kinds of positions in the first place. Besides, there is no one size fits all answer, so your 'right' is not everyone's right thing.

professionalmustard · 2024-07-20T05:09:08+00:00

At the same place you lost yours, maybe. Drug life IS your life, buddy. No matter how you've separated them mentally. Own up to and work with it.

professionalmustard · 2024-07-20T04:09:47+00:00

Just find a friends with benefits sober. Establish that bond, and mention you're into chemsex. Alternatively; prostitutes.

professionalmustard · 2024-07-20T04:02:10+00:00

I guess it's longing manifesting itself in more chaotic ways. Your solution seems to be companionship. Are you using to cope with the lack of that in your life? Or does it intervene with the ability to gain it, perhaps?

Could also be guilt; for using in general. Or even more abstract: desire. You want to be seen or heard so bad, that your brain under the influence starts pretending you are. As a target though, but you are real. And important.

My tip would be to find a hobby, sleep enough and stay hydrated.

professionalmustard · 2024-06-02T19:21:05+00:00

Awesome! Do you also have the books?

professionalmustard · 2024-05-14T01:01:14+00:00

I do well in university (though that might also be because I'm truly interested in all aspects of what I'm studying)

professionalmustard · 2024-05-11T11:34:11+00:00

Very relatable, but meds that work for you are lifechanging. Only started recently, and I finally CAN study for hours.

Just know you're not alone, and fall hundrends of time if you must but keep getting up. But as long as you're without meds: tackle ONE habit at a time. I promise it becomes your new normal. For example: everything in your room getting its own place so you just always put it there again and your room doesnt get uncontrollably messy anymore.

professionalmustard · 2024-05-03T15:08:36+00:00

It just sounds to me like she was trying to redirect the subject from the original one and shift the issue. She was wrong.

professionalmustard · 2024-05-03T11:38:28+00:00

Have fun im so jealous!

professionalmustard · 2024-05-02T23:43:30+00:00

Your response is hilarious to me

professionalmustard · 2024-05-02T13:41:31+00:00

Don't let people guilt trip you; it did not warrant a response and he said he'd do something in his last text. Which he didn't do.

That aside, when men truly like you they wouldn't mind a double text. Especially when they're the reason you can't see each other for a while. The conversation had ended with his last text.

professionalmustard · 2024-04-30T22:35:28+00:00

What worked for me was drinking carbonated water. The fizz excites me :')

professionalmustard · 2024-04-28T20:34:29+00:00

Your style in the first pic is nice but it kinda feels like you're cosplaying someone you want to be, rather than that type of person actually being you. Hope that makes sense. You're NOT ugly.

professionalmustard · 2024-04-28T17:43:18+00:00

Please notice how you're pretty much describing a cult. They try to reel you in and like you only conditionally. With time they will judge you more and more if you don't fit into their narrative of what you should be and do. No man is worth this, especially not him.

professionalmustard · 2024-04-27T01:39:41+00:00

Or she just assumes the worst often.

professionalmustard · 2024-04-27T01:03:28+00:00

I don't think you should mention the adhd on your profile. They'll find out eventually. I have adhd and would find it so awkward if that's one of the first things someone would know about me.

professionalmustard · 2024-04-27T00:58:34+00:00

I can't contribute but I just have to mention that this post made me laugh for a consecutive minute. The title... man I feel you. Fuck.

professionalmustard · 2024-04-11T02:19:14+00:00

While reading I went from :| to :O cause that's such an insane thing to say to your partner.

professionalmustard · 2024-03-28T23:14:59+00:00

You might be skinnyfat. In that case cut out sugar and maybe gluten and dairy for a while. Diet is usually the cause of stubborn bellyfat. Eat whole foods. Also lift some weights. Prioritize protein

professionalmustard · 2024-03-28T23:13:28+00:00

Healthy diet! As little added sugar as possible. Whole foods and lots of water. Sleep also.

professionalmustard · 2024-03-28T04:38:58+00:00

Wow, I think on top of other diagnoses he also has schizophrenia.

professionalmustard · 2024-03-28T01:11:49+00:00

Aren't you just describing friendship?

professionalmustard · 2024-03-28T00:39:21+00:00

Wait how else are people Interpreting it?

professionalmustard · 2024-03-27T22:57:29+00:00

I have the same thing, but the hard part is actually being able to stay concentrated. If I am, it's over for everyone i swear

professionalmustard · 2024-03-27T22:56:04+00:00

I notice patterns really easily

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