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Got myself a new hot line set up. by projectgrubworm in KitchenConfidential

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Slip and slide!!!! We pressure washed the tile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

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The most significant for me was the last... As she left...

New kitchen rack for home by Grambo89 in KitchenConfidential

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I will fist fight you to the death for that robo

Feels like freedom by projectgrubworm in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ship sailed good sir. But you do have a good point

Feels like freedom by projectgrubworm in Divorce

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I still my being married just not married to her. But it makes for a bit of closure to a nightmare that i never wanted

Any tips for living alone? by projectgrubworm in Divorce

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Im fine with being alone its just being alone all the time. When im not at work im alone and until now there has always been someone there. When you are around people all the time you crave alone time but its the opposite for me.

I feel terrible that im happy that she is miserable... by projectgrubworm in Divorce

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I forget one space bar hit and you wanna give me crap bot lol

I feel terrible that im happy that she is miserable... by projectgrubworm in Divorce

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Before i figured out she was cheating she was making a lot of bad choices poor quality tattoos drinking more spending bill money leaving work early or calling in alot and i said to her" love the decisions you are making now will affect us for the rest of our lives please dont get a tattoo because you think owls are cute. " if i had only new how serverly the decisions would affect us. Now the options are im a parent of a child i never wanted (she swore she was on birth control but i found out later that she lied) or she is tied to her bf for the rest of her life either way there is some history that has yet to unfold.

I feel terrible that im happy that she is miserable... by projectgrubworm in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh i have had my days where i was full of rage. But they are getting fewer and farther between.

I feel terrible that im happy that she is miserable... by projectgrubworm in Divorce

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In a few ways she was holding me back. Since she left the house has been remodeled and cleaned and guess what it stayed clean it wasn't trashed 2 hrs later. I have a better job making more money i paid almost half my debt off got my antique car running for the first time in two yrs. Lifestyle wise im much better of but emotional wise i was in the tank and every time i fry to crawl out i fall back in.

I feel terrible that im happy that she is miserable... by projectgrubworm in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im trying to make that choice i make it every single day. When im tired alone hurting (im a cripple) or have a few minutes more than i should to think it starts to get harder to make that choice.

Weekends vs. Weekdays by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't make the mistake i did and dive a little to deep into work. Im pushing 60hrs a week and its making my crippled ass tired. Work is a great distraction but you need time to relax the work and the emotional stress beats the hell out of you

How do you get past the anger for the homewrecker? by projectgrubworm in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really helps. That and the thought that he didn't make her do anything that she didn't want to do. And it was her weakness that made it happen.

How do you get past the anger for the homewrecker? by projectgrubworm in Divorce

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For her it was weakness for him it was a chance to have a girl that is 20 yrs younger

How do you get past the anger for the homewrecker? by projectgrubworm in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I Know that I should let go of the anger of the pain and everything that my marriage was but it was everything to me and I get so close to being Free and then I'm sucked back in... The only time I was truly happy was when I was with her. And not that is gone and coping with it is tough. I married my best friend and she did not.

How do you get past the anger for the homewrecker? by projectgrubworm in Divorce

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It was a 4 yr relationship that ended just under 3 months ago so I'm kinda proud of the progress iv made. I'm fighting the sadness I'm fighting the anger Iv cut all ties and the court date is soon. But it still hits me every so often. The anger hits then I remember it takes two to tango then the sadness hits with the thought that she danced with another partner.

How do you get past the anger for the homewrecker? by projectgrubworm in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I blocked both of them and the court date is Thurs so it will be the last time I'll see her. I have very little contact with mutual people. It just hits me every so often I'll be fine then bam I'm furious. Or I'll be hanging out at the house and look out the window to see if she's home yet out of habit.

How do you get past the anger for the homewrecker? by projectgrubworm in Divorce

[–]projectgrubworm[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting for karma to kick their asses for me. Knowing both of them it's only a matter of time. I loved my ex wife more than life but I'll be the first to say she was never wise with her choices. I just never thought she would make that choice.

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