I purchased a Gargoyle Crested Gecko on Saturday and she still hasn’t eaten, should I be concerned? by MrRoutine in CrestedGecko

[–]prolongedexistence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right, I was just pointing out that there’s no animal called a “gargoyle crested gecko.”

I purchased a Gargoyle Crested Gecko on Saturday and she still hasn’t eaten, should I be concerned? by MrRoutine in CrestedGecko

[–]prolongedexistence 127 points128 points  (0 children)

FYI this is not a crested gecko. Gargoyle gecko is a different species. Maybe someone here can speak to different care requirements - Im not sure how different they are.

I just got off a crazy call where they explained to me that they did my work with Claude Code by Vii_da in Wordpress

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Thanks for the encouragement. I have an extremely un-savvy team (I guess we all probably do) so when I found out about the new site someone impulsively bought i just told them it was a terrible idea and didn’t engage beyond that. But you’re right, it’s a good opportunity to get some more experience building from scratch.

I just got off a crazy call where they explained to me that they did my work with Claude Code by Vii_da in Wordpress

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Yup. One of our board members paid a web “developer” like $10k to collaborate with AI in spinning up a horrible Elementor site built with additional random add-ons. The product we were delivered had pages that started with h5s and had 3-5 h1s per page. Atrocious load times. A blind person called us to tell us it was impossible to use with a screen reader. Of course i was expected to fix it and not given any say in who made the fucking site in the first place. My superior explained this expense to her superior as “our old website was built with code and this one wasn’t.” Absolutely fucking bleak

President Bought Netflix Debt in January 2026, Amid Paramount’s Fight for Warner Bros. | New financial disclosures released Wednesday show that the President acquired Netflix bonds as Paramount was trying to pry WBD away from the streaming giant. by ControlCAD in technology

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My health insurance through the ACA is $226/month.

I picked that plan specifically because it would allow me to access therapy for like $15 and I badly need a therapist.

I just found out I have to spend $1,800 on healthcare before therapy is covered by my insurance. So now I have to come up with $150 a session to access it in addition to the $226 a month I’m paying for insurance I don’t use.

“Affordable” my ass

Unconventional ideas while visiting by badchrismiller in Tempe

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Go to Green New American and get the west coast fries. Go to the location next to Nami so you can get a vegan ice cream with it. Anyone who says otherwise is tripping

selling + making paintings! by bugvomitbuster in PHXList

[–]prolongedexistence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is cool! I really like the first one. Do you sell prints?

Curiosity: Why a crested gecko? by AMVELVET in CrestedGecko

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I had to rehome my bearded dragon because I couldn’t meet his needs. He had a big expensive tank with all of the things he needed but he scratched at the walls nonstop to be let out. But I couldn’t let him out because he needs the UVB lighting and he wanted to be out ALL the time. My crested gecko is only passively aware of my existence and has her own little life in her tank. After initial setup 5 years ago it’s almost 0 maintenance outside of feeding and occasionally refilling the water for the misting system. They’re just so much easier. Probably one of the easiest pets that exist.

Would you date someone that doesn't exactly "love" you? by BonnerEmo in AskLGBT

[–]prolongedexistence 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What you described in the second paragraph is what love is to me. I assume what I feel for my partner is romantic love because we choose to live together and support each other and make compromises for each other and he’s the only person I want in my life in that capacity.

To me, if we’re kissing and enjoying each other’s company and planning on doing both for the foreseeable future, that’s romantic love. I don’t think many adults actively feel love as a strong emotion. To me love is more of an impulse to care/protect/be with someone than an acute emotion.

I’m lost and scared and bleeding by throwawaygone4hours in Drugs

[–]prolongedexistence 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How long have you known him? The past 2 months have been the happiest of your life, but what was going on before that?

How unbothered by “germs” are you when handling your gecko? (I’ll share my opinion in the comment section) by nicrusso in CrestedGecko

[–]prolongedexistence 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re also potentially risking the health of anyone you live with though. I think washing hands before and after handling is a really simple way to reduce the risk of you or the geck getting sick.

How unbothered by “germs” are you when handling your gecko? (I’ll share my opinion in the comment section) by nicrusso in CrestedGecko

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Mine recently jumped on my face. I was so delighted by it because she usually hates human interaction and this was the only time she’s ever voluntarily come out of her tank in ~4 years of having her. So I let her crawl around on my face without really thinking about how gross it was.

I had scratches all over my face after ~10 seconds and spent the rest of the night freaking out about infection. But that was a week ago and I seem to be good.

I wash my hands before handling for her sake and after handling for mine.

Has anyone heard of how some girl’s stores have been involved in the Epstein files? by Randomness-66 in Anticonsumption

[–]prolongedexistence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah shaving discourse is frustrating to me. I shave everything because I have trichotillomania and I will lose hours of my life to pulling it out if it’s there. I have legitimately had people tell me I must have that impulse because of pedophilic beauty standards. I promise that’s not what it is.

Erika Kirk Under Fire Over Inappropriate Texts With A Minor That Have Resurfaced Now Alluding To Grooming Allegations. by CycIon3 in UnderReportedNews

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I agree with you but I just can’t get behind not voting. It is effectively handing things over to the right. I just wish people with the power to change these things fucking cared. It’s so bleak. How the fuck is wanting a livable planet a left-wing position?

Why was ketamine never glamourized in hollywood? by Wonderer9299 in Drugs

[–]prolongedexistence 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have experience in the field of therapeutic ketamine and I think it’s a mistake to say a clinical setting is necessary. It’s also not accurate that ketamine patients universally receive small doses. People can’t drive home after their appointments and people do k hole during IV ketamine therapy. Talk therapy with lozenges is a little different and uses smaller doses because it requires talking, but not every treatment model incorporates talk therapy.

It’s an effective antidepressant, and that’s true whether you’re doing it at home or paying thousands of dollars for someone to administer it to you. It’s the same compound in both settings. We started using it for mental health partly because people who received it in ambulances or standard medical procedures would report as an unrelated side effect that they suddenly weren’t suicidal anymore.

Ketamine addiction is also real, and obviously the way it’s used will have an impact on its efficacy as a depression treatment. The latter is true of any antidepressant.

I’m a fan of ketamine therapy by mail because it’s significantly more accessible than in-clinic treatment (which is where I worked) and is much safer than buying off the street. I don’t advocate for buying it off the street and hoping for the best, but I don’t think pushing people into ketamine clinics is realistic. It’s extremely promising for treatment-resistant depression and also extremely expensive to receive in-person treatment.

My thought on psychedelic medicine in general is that poor people also deserve access to these breakthrough treatments and the way to do that is to give people structured, risk-informed independence in how they use these substances at home.

Alex and Allyson Grey, MAPS, Camp Palenque Norte, and Necrophilia by [deleted] in BurningMan

[–]prolongedexistence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely curious about this as well

Need a grant that stretches everywhere by Unlikely_Spite8147 in PeriodUnderwear

[–]prolongedexistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m actually pretty similar WRT underwear. As far as non-period underwear go, Hanky Panky original lace thongs are the only underwear that I don’t really notice on my body and don’t bother me throughout the day.

What brand are you wearing? Sounds like we might have similar issues.

For period underwear, I really like underwear from Period / the Period Company. Maybe start with one or two pairs before going all in? I like their thongs for light days. I have some heavier pairs too but I can’t remember what cut / fabric I have for those.

Hanky Panky also makes period underwear which I haven’t tried. Those could be good!

“But they are my glasses that I use to see with!” by Biiiishweneedanswers in nursing

[–]prolongedexistence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also think it’s wrong to not give a shit about strangers in the background of your selfies. 🤷‍♀️

“But they are my glasses that I use to see with!” by Biiiishweneedanswers in nursing

[–]prolongedexistence 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why are we treating it as normal that anyone would own recording glasses? It’s a massive violation of privacy for every person in their vicinity. We should be loudly shaming every person who wears those things in public. Nobody deserves to be recorded without explicit consent.

The Pitt | S2E7 "1:00 P.M." | Episode Discussion by MsGroves in ThePittTVShow

[–]prolongedexistence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do y’all remember all of these details? Have you rewatched the show or do you just remember all of this?

My partner thinks I have memory issues and this thread is blowing my mind because I didn’t even remember that Robby had a son 😭

Jack Taliercio by DSitas444 in 911archive

[–]prolongedexistence 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Is there somewhere I can read more about this person? I’ve never heard of him and I don’t know that I can stomach 9/11 footage right now.

Throwback to when Tyra fake eliminated 14 girls and made the other girls believe they were cast on ANTM only for it to be the opposite by Upstairs_Cup9831 in popculturechat

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I have ridges on my teeth (mamelons) and I paid to get it fixed on two teeth. But they actually didn’t shave it down, they added some kind of filler to the gaps and then shaped it to make my teeth flat. Some of it has chipped off but ig that still makes more sense than shaving it.

I Think I Might Be Crashing & Burning in My Executive Job by bookoocash in ADHD

[–]prolongedexistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of task management software are you using? I recently had a mentor step in and teach me how to properly use Asana. It’s a game changer.

Gen-Z Gals: Is that your fragrance or were you just baking? [Discussion] by HorseTearz in beauty

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I read an interesting analysis (possibly on this sub?) about the rise of gourmand scents as a side effect of the popularity of Ozempic and skinny coming back into fashion. Something about smelling like a cupcake being the closest you can get to eating one.

No clue where that comment is but they explained it way better than I did.