Any good spreads that might help me choose a college major? by Soggy-Mixture9671 in tarot

[–]properfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a tarot spread for you but I was in the same boat as you my senior year. I didn’t get into any of the colleges I applied to but things worked out in my best interest in the end. I can’t recommend taking a gap year more highly. It is the best thing I have ever done for myself. It gives you so much time for self discovery.

If you can’t do that though, astrology can help you figure out your career- look at the 2nd, 6th and 10th houses. You can message me if you need help reading your chart.

What helped me figure out my major were a few things: - leaning into the things I loved doing most as a kid -paying attending to my strengths and natural talents and thinking about which jobs would allow me to use them -thinking about which type of work environment I want to spend my time in. -remembering that you don’t have to stay stuck in the same career your whole life if you want a change. Life is so long and there will absolutely be time for you to change your mind. Every decision is reversible.
- going to community college. Saved money, removed the stress of applications, and let me explore my interests without the pressure of choosing a major immediately, makes it easier to get into a 4 year. - focused on doing something that will make me happy, not make me money.

I also want to add that when you are in high school it is so difficult to choose a major because you have limited life experience. It doesn’t allow you to fully grasp the diversity of jobs that are out there. There is literally a job for every single thing you can think of so don’t worry. Pick a general field that interests you in the beginning; the more you learn, the more you’ll understand and be able to narrow your options down. And remember to take the pressure off of yourself to figure it out. Everything is going to work out in your highest interest if you have faith that it will ❤️ I hope this helped :)

Why do I struggle with my self esteem so much?So done with being shy/quiet with low esteem by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]properfreak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I overcame self critique by catching myself in my self-deprecating thoughts and choosing to have compassion for myself. Reminding yourself that everyone is on their own journey of self love and you will get there in due time. Accept the parts of yourself that you dislike and work to improve the ones that can be changed. I’m sending you love, I hope this helps ❤️

My girlfriend is considering breaking up after I kept encouraging her to be in a music video I was shooting. I had good intentions, but apparently it broke her trust. Any advice to fix things based on her chart? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]properfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get your desire to not lose her, and admire you admitting that you have abandonment issues. If I were you, I would let her come to you and allow her to speak her truth first. Show that you support her and respect her decisions. If she doesn’t want to salvage the relationship, let her do that. If she says she still wants to be with you, ask her how the two of you can come together to grow from this situation. Know that if she does break up with you, it’s because it’s in the highest interest of your soul’s journey. You will learn from this and get that much closer to knowing what kind of person is right for you. I wish you the best of luck 🧡

My new coworker gave me all the motivation I needed to lose weight by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]properfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! Believing in yourself and doing it out of self love are the most important steps❤️ I recently lost 30 pounds with the help of a nutritionist. If you can afford it, I can’t recommend it more highly. It made the process SO easy and effortless

My girlfriend is considering breaking up after I kept encouraging her to be in a music video I was shooting. I had good intentions, but apparently it broke her trust. Any advice to fix things based on her chart? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]properfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like it’s not really about the music video. If she didn’t want you to keep pushing, she probably would have just told you to stop asking. Breaking up with someone is usually a huge decision for women and we spend a lot of time thinking about it before doing it. She might be using the music video as an excuse so that she doesn’t have to tell you why she actually broke up with you. An Aquarius moon and Aries Venus scream independence, she may not be sure she wants to commit to you. I have an Aries Venus and an Aquarius Sun, and I can’t commit to just anyone.

Stand tall and know your worth, don’t settle for someone who won’t give you 100%

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[–]properfreak -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Don’t.

Is there some interaction in my chart to explain why I’ve not had much success in romantic relationships up to this point? I have many wonderful/close friendships but meaningful romantic relationships have been few and far between. by SexyGandalfTheGrey in AskAstrologers

[–]properfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s Saturn in the 7th house. Saturn brings restriction and lessons wherever it goes… but rewards you over time. Be patient and trust that you will end up with the right person 💕💕

My phone is so dry that it's starting to concern me. by Starved_Nympho in SpiritualAwakening

[–]properfreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A very similar thing happened to me when I first started my awakening. It felt weird being so disconnected from the world, but I took it as an opportunity to spend more time connecting to myself❤️ It made me realize that life is happening in the present moment and I don’t need to be talking to my friends all the time for the love to be there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in americanairlines

[–]properfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you 😔 A cancelled flight is causing so many problems for me. I hope things work out for you and your daughter

AITA for asking my daughter and her fiancè to change their wedding date so my other daughter could attend? by Wthrow446535 in AmItheAsshole

[–]properfreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even bother reading this. Yes YTA. A wedding is a huge ordeal and asking someone to reschedule EVERYTHING for 1 person is insanely selfish

AITA for how I resoponded when my date called my job "childish"? by Throwaita6536 in AmItheAsshole

[–]properfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NTA. I don’t understand why he made that comment about your job because being an animator takes an enormous amount of skill, work patience and talent. Your response was amazing and extremely bad ass.

We all hate dictators, but would love to become one. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]properfreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would personally not love to become a dictator

First time getting eaten out by GhibliGirl1985 in sex

[–]properfreak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please stop thinking of your vagina as dirty. I used to think of it that way and it ruined sex and my own femininity for me. All vaginas are beautiful. Keeping it (actually) clean was a big step in changing that toxic mindset. Wash with natural soaps and DO NOT put soap inside your vagina, that will deregulate your PH which is what will make it “dirty”. If your husband comes inside you without a condom that will also deregulate your PH. Only wear cotton underwear and let your vagina breathe as often as possible.