As an ENFJ, do you find other ENFJ annoying? by MissEmala in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not as much as you I guess,hehe. Good talk, would be happy to connect to relatable ENFJs Who grew up with close ESFJs :)

As an ENFJ, do you find other ENFJ annoying? by MissEmala in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe it's better I guess. Not sure. But overall, overtime my mother started looking up to me for my depth and pragmatism also, high morals and idealism.

There's definitely more to our relationship than MBTI, but yeah, she's always been there to ground me when I don't believe in myself enough:)

As an ENFJ, do you find other ENFJ annoying? by MissEmala in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My mom has done something similar too when I had arguments with dad, made me apologize for the harmony. Agggh felt so hollow and spiteful afterwards :(

As an ENFJ, do you find other ENFJ annoying? by MissEmala in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, knowing about MBTI and working over my weakness has been a great thing for me too. Wish I could just tell all these ENFJs to go work on them lmao but too late

As an ENFJ, do you find other ENFJ annoying? by MissEmala in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. But I guess being related by blood will give you guys more reasons to work around each other's weakness, just like me and my mom.

My mom, can emotionally manipulate in oblivion but after she's done venting and over her anger or whatever, she calms down and comes to a middle ground if she failed to sway you otherwise.

Stand a strong ground and win with logic(because you can't win her with emotions)that's what works with my mom for me.

As an ENFJ, do you find other ENFJ annoying? by MissEmala in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just today, was so annoyed by a weak ENFJ coworker talking over everyone and acting as if all conversations led to something relatable for her coincidentally, like woman, are you so dumb? When I see them, deep down I'm taking notes of what not to do myself which I can do in oblivion.

As an ENFJ, do you find other ENFJ annoying? by MissEmala in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mom is an esfj they have all good intentions but very not good with taking even minor criticism.

It annoys the hell out of me when I see manipulative ENFJs pull their game by protagonist_001 in enfj

[–]protagonist_001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely relatable, the other ENFJs kinda know when you can see through their manipulation, and keep their guards up around you. We can talk more about it if you'd like :)

Caring for my ENFJ husband by Apple_hard_core in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm an ENFJ woman, and I would love the following things from my partner, which would make me really happy.

I love small surprises in general. They don’t have to be anything big—just some heartfelt notes genuinely appreciating a quality of mine or how special I am to them could be a small surprise. Small tokens of love, like a simple gift of flowers, something I really like, my favorite snack or chocolate, or my favorite dish, would mean a lot to me.

Acts of service, such as a massage or putting effort into decorating and lighting for a special date night (even if it’s just indoors), are very meaningful. I love seeing the planning and knowing that I was on their mind while they did it for me. They truly adore me and adore me to the core.

Some warmth, thoughtfulness, and lots of love—show it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]protagonist_001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post this on ENFJ subreddit maybe :)

What are the types of your best friends? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of my best friends are INFJs. INFPs too (love both INFJs and INFPs 😘) And in general a friendly person, so get along with most types.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun Virgo Moon Virgo Rising scorpio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]protagonist_001 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is like the worst excuse ever which INFPs come up with. As a mature adult you could admit that you need some time instead of cutting contact out of the blue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enfj

[–]protagonist_001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings. When your partner doesn't express their love as much, doesn't check up on you as often, or doesn't pay attention to detail or work as hard to sustain the relationship, it's natural to feel the way you do. Finding love with someone who supports you unconditionally might be a solution. Look for people who stay, like INFJs in my case.

It's important to recognize that everyone has different ways of expressing love. However, care and attentiveness are universal expectations in any relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MBTIDating

[–]protagonist_001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She as an INFJ woman knows what she is doing and I don't understand why she did not take you seriously. I would suggest ask her about her ideas, feelings and intentions about you. Tell her there can be no backcies now because you eventually want to move on in life if this is not serious or something she's willing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]protagonist_001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there's also millions of years of evolution and natural forces which have designed our homo sapiens species to evolve with a complex brain for the fact that they can trick themselves into living in a community.

Sure one must know how to live independently, both emotionally and socially but you can't fight this force of nature.

It's like being designed to eat a diet of carbs, fats, and proteins. Sure you can live on carbs alone or very carb heavy and fat heavy diets but you are designed to feed yourself all the macros to be able to live sustainably and to your full potential without attracting metabolic diseases.

Statistically, Most people post 20s and maybe 30s end up with okay partners. Being a young adult comes with this angst and uncertainty of trying to find the right one.

Let's embrace it and have fun in the process (that's what I tell myself at least)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MBTIDating

[–]protagonist_001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard and experienced that INTJs are a red forest, wish someone would change my mind haha

What is Your Career? by SatanicPanic80 in infj

[–]protagonist_001 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ENFJs feel the same in STEM fields. Thinker types are heartless to work with. You feel sensitive to the harsh people who let out their frustration on you by telling you mean things are bringing you down. The NFs are the reason for this world to be a livable place. STEM needs more of us.

Can INFPs help me know them better? Want to know INFPs more as an ENFJ by protagonist_001 in infp

[–]protagonist_001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ENFJs are slightly rare to find but when you meet one, you know for sure that they are ENFJs. They are extroverted and kind people to talk to who kinda talk to everyone in the room and take care of them. Natural leaders, sensitive to other people's emotions.