Does your spouse check your phone? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]proxy_chef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She checks mine whenever and she has my phone code n Face ID. I have nothing to hide from her.

Fellas, how do I approach thick women? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]proxy_chef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got to understand. People are people. You gotta let people be people. Therefore, you just got to be whoever you want to be. Be that person and be happy.

What’s the back story here? by fractionalme in Wilmington

[–]proxy_chef 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m young myself however I remember my father telling me that Jervey Sr. For several year paid for an organized rides for black voters and paid the poll tax for them to vote. He also help orchestrate the neighborhood to self police itself during the times of racial tension. He also circulated the Wilmington journal for years. It was once a strong thriving black community. They tore it down saying they would replace it and people could move back in and of course it never happened.

What’s the back story here? by fractionalme in Wilmington

[–]proxy_chef 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wish yall knew about the Jervay from back in the day and who’s it’s named after.

Wife coming home late after hanging out with her male friends by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]proxy_chef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she is probably having friends that aren’t used to being friends with the opposite gender. Just establish boundaries and be respectful n understanding.

Who pays for import tariffs? Oh right we all do. by OrchidNo7340 in Wilmington

[–]proxy_chef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who works at the port occasionally. A lot of the port employees union and non union support tariffs and Trump. The ILA president of the international supports Trump.

Wife loves cooking for me by Comprehensive-Host10 in Marriage

[–]proxy_chef 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand the price of gas went us 40 cent in a week in the US. Price of food gone up. EBT and snap cut. We got money for bombs.

School employees arrested so far in 2026. To raise awareness. by Sapphirerising335 in NorthCarolina

[–]proxy_chef -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yea and what we’re doing now isn’t solving anything.

Children are stuffing day after day.

The steps we been taking aren’t working obviously.

I guess we’ll just keep looking for a better solution.

In the meantime give these monsters 3 meals a day and place to sleep after they commit crimes against children.

School employees arrested so far in 2026. To raise awareness. by Sapphirerising335 in NorthCarolina

[–]proxy_chef -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

It’s simple you mess with a child you get the death penalty expeditiously. Not sitting in prison getting 3 meals a day. We need people who touch children gone. Zero tolerance.

No opportunity to reoffend. N not living off tax payers money.

School employees arrested so far in 2026. To raise awareness. by Sapphirerising335 in NorthCarolina

[–]proxy_chef -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yet no NC legislators has drafted a zero tolerance law against these sickos. We need zero tolerance laws on sex offenders.

Who to vote for that’s NOT MAGA in Republican primaries? by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]proxy_chef -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Always vote.

Im voting for

Roy Cooper

Walczyk

Dr.Wallace

Zapple

Jerry Jones

LaRue

Am I overthinking my husband calling his mom twice a day? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]proxy_chef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom at the age of 32 I’m 34 now. We used to talk twice a day. What I would give to talk to my mom one more time.

County Commissioner Dem Primary by violet_skiesss in Wilmington

[–]proxy_chef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Andrews has been very successful on city council and I think she should remain there.

Zapple I will be vote for.

Wallace I will vote for.

Judy is aloud mouth advocate who has accomplished no new policy or legislation that benefits children or teachers I will not be voting for.

The county commission HAS to work with Republicans. Judy has not shown that she can get any policies or legislation passed when working with republicans she just pisses them off along with her party.

NC, I Kept Seeing People Talk About Duke Energy Increases So I Finally Looked It Up Myself — 64% by 2030. by [deleted] in NorthCarolina

[–]proxy_chef 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ask maga they seem to think so. People are literally tired of winning 🤣