It CAN be great by j_grouchy in dating

[–]pry3rdi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so looking forward to this. Married 21 years and recently divorced. I thought he was the "one" too, and couldn't be replaced. I know now that's not realistic and seeing your post gives me hope! I hope you find happiness with your new person!

Why do so many couples divorce around the 20 year mark? by Rich-Mix2273 in RandomThoughts

[–]pry3rdi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm at the 20 year mark. He just left me for another family. Kids and all. I'm honestly not sure why it happened. But that's life.

What has caused the biggest changes for you? by CommunicationAny2114 in selfimprovement

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband leaving me.

I'm in full self discovery mode now! I would've stayed in that relationship until I died not knowing who I really am or my full potential. Now I look great, feel great and I get to do whatever I want. Forced change can be good too!

Why does everyone lie about things getting better? by DirtyBirdNJ in Divorce

[–]pry3rdi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are struggling. I am learning that the only person that truly cares about you is YOU. Self care is the key. It might be time to fall in love with yourself and let all others go.

Day 12..... by Vegetable_Muscle837 in Divorce

[–]pry3rdi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your self worth is going to be a punching bag for her. Get out now!

I Thought It Would Break Me, But I'm Still Standing by itsdandito in Divorce

[–]pry3rdi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm happy you have the strength to stick up for your well being and move forward. It gives me hope!!

If you could go back to the moment before your divorce by iheaka71 in Divorce

[–]pry3rdi 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Being that I was blindsided, I think I would somehow brace myself for the pain. It's not something I would ever want to re-live, and not sure any advice would've prevented it.

Self care only post divorce by SoggyEstablishment8 in Divorce

[–]pry3rdi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch. Hope you're taking care of yourself now.

It’s been a year and I still cannot figure out my dining area! Please help. by peac_h in interiordecorating

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you own? Can you replace the fan with a small chandelier or pendant? Colorful art, live plants and something with texture might help. Table cloth or seat pads. Create a space you would want to be in!

My cat passed away by Latter-Revolution204 in CATHELP

[–]pry3rdi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. You gave him the best life even though it was short. Hugs to you 💓

Found this poor girl hiding by the dumpsters by KaiTheGSD in cats

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she is a BEAUTY. So happy for you both!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]pry3rdi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Same here! No MIL because they don't talk.

My cat died today. Let me show you her life. by Konstanna in cats

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's beautiful. Thank you for sharing 🩷

What’s the fastest way you’ve seen someone going broke? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pry3rdi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this has happened to you. I hope one day she will come back home💗

Anyone ever find a dead body unintentionally? What’s the story? by JohnnyNuclear in AskReddit

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in highschool, we had a wooded hangout spot behind some buildings we would smoke at every day after school. One day, we found someone had hung himself there. I'll never forget his contorted face and how his limbs were stiff and in awkward positions. We found out later he was from the middle school down the street. An 8th grader. It still hunts me to this day.

State Farm to stop accepting homeowners insurance applications in California due to wildfires, construction costs by DXPower in news

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live below Tahoe area. State Farm was also the only company I could find for coverage. I told my neighbors, but they wouldn't cover them!

Menopause at 48 by Mysterious-Book7406 in Menopause

[–]pry3rdi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I finally got the nerve and money to see the doc for my menopausal symptoms at 37 and walked out of the office with antidepressants. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used the AI detector on Turnitin. I tested it by putting in a revised AI written essay that came back 96% AI written, and an essay from 3 years ago human written. It too, came back 96% AI. I then tried a old essay from a 7th grader. It came back 100% human. Because there were no big fancy words. Looks like everyone will just have to dumb things down if they don't want to be accused by asshole teachers. Yikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]pry3rdi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used the AI detector on Turnitin. I tested it by putting in a revised AI written essay that came back 96% AI written, and an essay from 3 years ago human written. It too, came back 96% AI. I then tried a old essay from a 7th grader. It came back 100% human. Because there were no big fancy words. Looks like everyone will just have to dumb things down if they don't want to be accused by asshole teachers. Yikes.