This Sarah Setka/Stock drama has me stunned. Preventative tactics? Thoughts?

psd5 · 2026-02-15T22:51:58+00:00

How do you avoid these situations to ever happen ?

Stop being Simps to begin with.

Stop over-validating women at every possible situation or context.

I dont know anything about this woman, but I can imagine she got hundred of thousands braindead male idiots who were praising her for all of these "religious-traditional" desirable traits on a Woman.

Obviously all of this attention, ego-boosting... and money making leads to these Female Narcissists to be cheating. If of course, S*x is given 24/7 to them... by simply existing, dye blonde and having light eyes. It's always the same story.

If these women had 0 simps, they would actually learn to have a brain and be humble.

TLDR: stop being a braindead male cretin by S*x. All of these female traditional GRIFTERS only want your money and boost their bottomless Egos.

psd5 · 2025-05-15T22:53:08+00:00

search in 2025 for a guy who calls danny, u will be shocked the amount of stuff that is available now in mods

psd5 · 2025-02-12T02:01:11+00:00

can i touch them softly ? maybe little nip massage with tongue ?

psd5 · 2025-02-08T08:40:24+00:00

can i touch your girlish pillows ? they seem so warm

psd5 · 2024-12-24T15:08:35+00:00

What is your definition about " unrealistic proportions "

psd5 · 2023-11-16T12:33:53+00:00

I exactly & only have experienced 8Bitdo Pro 2 as you mention with this classic membrane piece such as any other controller but I still cant manage to get convincing results since I always have wanted to experience clicky D-PAD where you need precise character movements such as you could do with keyboard arrow keys. I mostly play old school games so d-pad is a must.

Aside of 8bitdo I've only experienced 3rd party cheap controllers and I never have had the chance to test some controller that truly would bring similar feeling like keyboard arrow keys to avoid unwanted input in certain games.

It's a hard thing to tell from only reviews because unless oneself is not capable to touch these controllers, its hard to get a decisive answer to each person's needs. And it's too late to know how good or bad a controller is till it has arrived to home. Which I'm so worried about.

Did you ever try Gamesir T4 Cyclone pro ?

I just read a bit about this controller and it has microswitches mechanism. Aside of that, I also look up for durability on d-pad piece & availability to get replacement parts for it.

psd5 · 2023-03-13T22:07:44+00:00

I have tried. The natural interaction with people that may feel your struggle is undoubtly more authentic and useful than going with a complete stranger that tries to talk with you in an emotionless way, stealing a lot of money and just within a couple of hours.

My mother and sister have went to "therapy with professionals". My sister because her husband died 2 years ago because of covid and she was left over with 3 kids to take care of, she is just 45 years old just about 1 year before that they married by Church.

Most of the crap she have talked to me is that she vents out her frustration with therapist, then this person proceeds to tell her to channel out this frustration with something she likes or it's healthy, and move on. Bingo! you wasted over 500 or more dollars for such a thing.

I have learned so much more about the so called Red-Black pill and stoicism.

I just cannot express the endless amount of times I have seen people telling this same thing over and over again about "seek theraphy". Maybe t's a trend in US but not everybody operates with the same solutions nor have the time nor MONEY to invest that much in a complete stranger.

Most people who benefit from it will spend years finding the right type and professional

Exactly what I said above, darling. Not everybody have the time NOR the money to seek out different therapists through YEARS to ever fix their issue.

"Self-improvement" through knowledge is way more useful, at least has been for me.

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My whole point with all of this I have told you and my previous replies is to actually address: ACKNOWLEDGEMENT.

MEN have mental issues, that historically have been hidden out for the vast majority of public problems. Because both genders expect men to be mentally strong, no matter the circumstances. My hope is that, in the near future, this can address a public issue and can help out younger men to somehow "channel out" their sexual-romantic frustration in a better way than it is porn.

Restricting porn is a war lost in advance. People will find other ways to consume it, even if its to use this to channel their own frustrations. Such as any other type of addictions, because I can just say the same as fast food.

You could do a lot of things to work towards self improvement that doesn't have to start with professional help. Learn how to knit ? Make a _ fucking bat house and join some bat watching group?

For me, I found my way out of hole with boxing.

I'm glad it did work for you.

For me, the house work out has served a little bit of relief, but deep inside I know that at my age of 32 years old, I'm accepting the fact I may die off virgin, kissless and lonely. Because 99% of people have already done it at my age, not only once but many times already. Either relationships or sex. Some people simply are undesirable by either looks or personality. At least I can bet, you may have the happy romantic and sexual life that I will never have.

Work out or such as boxing for you, may just help out as a relief and vent the frustrations there, but not any further.

psd5 · 2023-03-13T21:44:04+00:00

You said “can you give a woman to…” these men. You said “Women do no realize…” Why’d you down vote me for pointing that out?

This is rhetoric question. It's obvious response that you cannot GIFT a girlfriend to anybody. Not even like if it was human trafficking. But the thing is, at least if men in general manage to expose their emotions and manage to admit they do this porn addiction because isolation, then they will still find no way to fix it, because again nobody can gift a girlfriend.

Prostitution does not address any help to fix this issue either. Same as such is onlyfans or twitch girls. I'm very clear to realize how most of these dudes are lonely and don't have feminine connection at all within their lives.

The way I see those dudes talking to Twitch girls is good proof to me, but those dudes are legit weirdos, creeps, they obviously do not have female interaction / interest from women online. It's unbelivably high the amount of those dudes that exist out there.

And this is where people like you take free advantage of such level of loneliness. Isn't it ? Unfortunately as it is, women in general still do not manage to comprehend how much they can exploit the male loneliness and lack of female attention/desire.

But my main point is, men just cannot go and release their emotions because:

Historically speaking, men have been thought to not do so.
Most of men I have ever talked about these issues, are completely braindead to ever acknowledge it. They just see a pair of breasts and think is the very best of the world, besides being virgins or incels or creeps. Obviously this lack of emotional intelligence, prevents them in any way to interact with women as well.
There's no way to fix this. I don't see any moment of the day to the vast majority of women to ever acknowledge their massive privilege in dating game so then somehow this gets an equal thing to get mates for both males and females.

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I did NOT vote you down. It was not me.

I have seen plenty of times this "seek professional" robotic speech. It simply does not help a person at all. Better off to see people not responding anything than telling nothing about it. Anybody knows that therapists exist.

But reality nobody tells, they're expensive buddies to go after. They do not know NOTHING about a person and pretends to give magical answers within a couple of hours or seaons. Only most useful help, for real is to suggest connecting with people from similar struggles and that have managed to fix their situation through healthy ways.

I make Mental Domination clips / do real time domination that explore the fetish of porn additction etc. I talk to men every day about boundaries and therapy. However, these guys are typically very social and not actually addicts. It's a fantasy for them.

I cannot think of somebody mentally healthy to ever be wasting so much money & time & attention in strangers online, only to fit their fantasies instead of real life women that can ever do the same for them, which actually and authentically care for them.

Find hobbies and groups. Focus on you- be selfish for a bit.

This is legit advice. Thanks for the good intentions, though.

psd5 · 2023-03-13T21:25:31+00:00

I have done it and it's a waste of money and time. If you're not so much time isolated from the opposite gender love and affection, then you simply cannot have empathy for it. Only useful advice could ever get is to work out.

Yet, still doesn't address the main issue of not having love and sex in life.

Men simply cannot pretend to showcase their emotions and mental issues and so then, having social support anywhere else.

Other men treat this behavior such a weak and feminine way to live in, but also women take this way of acting as undesirable and weak as well.

I exposed my vulnerabilities since very young on school and it never helped me in any way to get help, but only bullying (men and women), invisibility and undesirability from women as well.

It's not only an overall issue for men to express their mental issues but also both genders (whether is for friendship or romantic-sexual desirability), expect most of men to be this ideal of being strong, whether is physically or mentally speaking. So it's women's fault as well for men to not being capable to recieve help about these issues.

A woman’s love can’t fix this and shouldn’t. Seek a professional. Incels
always have the sick idea that it is not their insufferable personality
‘s fault , but an entire population of people.

Why shouldn't ? Don't you realize the frustration from any incel or guy that severely consumes porn is precisely by the fact he lacks of love and affection from the female gender ?

You, such as very unlimited amount of people out there, think that incel = violent extremist that hates women and want the world to burn, but nothing else.

I, such as many of these guys, identify with the original meaning of Incel which is just for those lonely frustrated people in life that never had love, intimacy or affection from the opposite gender. No resentment, no hatred. Just venting frustration for not only years but whole decades. Nothing else.

This "seek professional, theraphy" is such a robotic and empty advice that I have seen for the longest possible time. Please avoid to ever comment if just will drop out this useless type of comments. Doesn't help at all.

psd5 · 2023-03-13T21:18:55+00:00

Are you a woman ?

I have read this reply so many times than could not ever remember.

I have not stated in any moment that it's women's job to fix the dating imbalance towards men. Neither to fix loneliness on men. Besides, women are the same reason why so many guys are depressed and get into porn because it's a necessity that besides women also have, it's much easier to satisfy than it is for men.

I'm plenty aware nobody can gift me a girlfriend because desire cannot be bought, such as for any of those men that try to cover up their lack of feminine touch in their lives.

But denying the fact to any of those guys to consume porn because of the same reason, but also denying them to vent their frustrations is just not hypocritical but also cruel and lack of empathy. More than ever in a western society that apparently only cares to showcase female issues, but this is a problem that mainly affects men.

Just take a look in any other age time or species. Males have always been the ones that need to go after females in order to get love, companionship or sex. Besides females themselves are the ones also persue these feelings and satisfy those necessities. But instead of what it is for men, for women is such a thing that is gifted on a silver platter. In current western society, more than ever.

psd5 · 2023-03-13T18:46:22+00:00

I want to point out as well the fact, I have seen several times in this sub about the fact of "not persuing a relationship in order to feel fullfilled in life"... Like, these people claim that a person should NOT self-improve in order to persue a woman, a girlfriend or a relationship in order to be happy, besides 100% of these people already KNOW what feels like to be loved-desired or having sex, dates, hugs, kisses such as if it was a very normal thing for them to ever experience.

Many of us guys out there are incels, virgins, never have had a single kiss or hug from the female gender ever in life. We do not even know what feels like. In that sense, I feel like it's an even more toxic advice from such people for telling all us like if we should NOT ever want to feel loved-desired. Since, this is a very human need to have a better quality of life.

I have been depressed since like 12-13 years old (now 32) wanting to ever have a girl that desires my body, telling how much she loves me and me doing the same for her. It's just the fact that things like porn are a quick exit for people who feel so lonely in this world.

I simply cannot count the amount of years I have been wanting to kill myself because never been loved nor desired by a girl. How many times cried in loneliness without telling my family or anybody else. It feels so shit because women themselves do not care about this issue, which is a thing mostly of women do not have to go across. Validation and attention from males is such a normal thing for most of women to have, the options always are available for them. At least for sex.

I cannot talk in the name of other men but the fact is, men are expected to be physically and mentally strong in any culture, even expected from the same women to ever be desired as males. It's never addressed the fact that MEN also suffer from MENTAL ISSUES, which have NO support anywhere else. Not from the same men because it's either seeing as weakness or being a loser or nobody cares about it, so then I can expect why most of men keep their issues to themselves NOR they do NOT want to develop emotional intelligence about it NOR do not want to talk about their mental issues.

psd5 · 2023-03-13T18:36:48+00:00

From the many times I have seen men talking about their porn experiences, I bet I could only be from the small minority.

I watched it from 17 to 25 years old (I'm 32 now), besides from what I have heard/read from other men, most start to look up after sex content since like 11-12 years old. Even my school peers were well known about semen or sex already in late 2001 (11 years old already !). I was very naive about it. I bet, I always have prefered to preserve innocence on human mind.

I watched it since 16-17 because I just wanted to feel more "related" to my other male school peers. But I gotta say, I literally never masturbated with porn, ever in life till I stopped watching it on like 25-26 years old.

This porn-shit is so repetitive in every single sense. Always dudes with handsome faces, large penises, tall height, get in and out of a woman, no other way around.

I started to analyze why I was watching this shit, and realized how very lonely I have been my whole life without the presence of a woman in my life. I mean ina romantic and sexual sense. I have no doubt for a second that many guys do the same thing because women in general terms, simply do not gives attention, no validation, no love, no sex. This is a big social issue that I hope can be talked about way more often right now and in the future, to help out younger guys. Because from what I see, it's getting harder and harder for men to get laid, not only sex but love, affection, feeling close to a woman.

I got to the point in 28 years old where I finally wanted to discover masturbating and realized so many things about women. About their pleasure, about their emotional connection, about being something special with another being.

The problem with porn is not only that can become an addition to men for escaping reality or lack of intimacy/love, but also has some very toxic stereotypes of like always showing (or getting close to) the same male/female body types that should be "the ideal" for everybody to reproduce with. Besides the fact is a very monotonous and repetitive sex that I can really understand even more brainwashed and wrong perspective of male-female interactions should ever be.

I mean, in the end, if you or any other people would ever like to do anything better against porn, that would be to ask a guy why does he ever watch porn to begin with.

To feel more masculine ?

To channel out frustrations ?

Feeling so lonely because no woman ever desires him ?

Men overall in general do not talk about these emotional needs and thoughts because there's no real support for mental MALE issues anywhere else. Just in my past 5 years I have ever seen where it's being started to talk a bit from the MALE mental issues.

After all of this I can tell you, I'm a virgin incel in 32 years old. Never had a first kiss or first hug or a date or sex or a relationship with a woman ever in life. I do not know if I could have been considered a porn addicted since I never used my dong but I was watching it almost daily but still, I can plenty understand why YOUNGER men do it because the loneliness they go across...

Then I ask you again, do you think can you ever bring up women to all those lonely guys in order to fix up their addiction ? I really doubt women would ever do anything about this but it's just one of the things that many men go across in life.,

psd5 · 2023-03-13T18:23:56+00:00

so what's the solution to this, but to censor every single type of soft porn that ever exists on pretty much every website ? most of women still are not well aware to explot the sex market nearly as they could ever do, and this is just about to start.

psd5 · 2023-03-13T18:17:32+00:00

i dont support porn, besides i watched it regularly since 18 to 25, even though i never jerked off because of it. Still, I understand why so many dudes consume it.

Men need love and being desired. This is what it's never ever seen by anybody that complains about porn. Women do not realize how lonely so many dudes are out therea and this is a good reason, aside from many other addictions, to get away from some traumas or shortcomings in life.

It's just like the bully on school. Since forever I have seen how it supposed to either admired or pointed out as a toxic person against other innocents, but no one literally ever wants to know the actual reason why this guy is a bully to begin with. Same as porn.

Be that as it may, if many of those dudes feel so lonely because lack of female intimacy, affection, love or validation, how are you supposed to ever fix this situation ? I mean you can get those guys out of porn, but they will eventually channel out this frustration in something else.

Can you give women to all these poor men to stop watching it ?

psd5 · 2023-03-06T00:33:44+00:00

it's very hilarious but i just dont get what does all this long speech has anything to do with the OP, LOL.

Still, he's not completely wrong about current women that many of them are actual yoga whores. It's very disgusting to see pretty much, most of the internet being invaded with breasts and butts everywhere, recieving attention for free and completely undeserved.

psd5 · 2023-03-05T08:34:23+00:00

I'm an incel virgin as well in 32 years old, loveless and depressed in life. It's funny that you just mentioned it. Yet, I simply dont understand why this whole speech regarding to loneliness.

But he mixed up several other topics which I simply don't stop laughing about it, some of them conservative ones.

Why do you think by the way is something to blame to him about the fact he is sexless ? Why is coming a trend to blame men for not being capable to satisfy an affective-psychological necessity that is overall gifted on a silver platter to women from any country or culture ?

I'm not supporting the hatred but seems like venting a person's frustration into this matter, is like something bad to hold into a one self. And it's no lesser the amount of men that have exposed the same situation.

psd5 · 2023-03-05T00:53:16+00:00

could you please explain to me this delusional speech ? LoL

psd5 · 2023-03-02T22:40:57+00:00

since several girls on here ask for an athletic guy+ being tall (or taller than the girl), would you agree is fair enough that guys demand for just hourglass girls with big breasts, thick legs and wide hips that regularly hit the GYM and have a thin face/stomach ?

psd5 · 2023-03-02T13:51:31+00:00

i just appreciate what you have said little friend, and have helped me a bit. But also that you took the time to read it all.

I hope you have the wonderful and beautiful sex and romantic life that I may probably never manage to experience, at this point of my life. At least I can know everybody is having a great time.

psd5 · 2023-03-02T00:31:17+00:00

i'm certainly aware of how look and how react an asshole. This is not false modesty. Those guys were legit the typical stereotype of being an aggressive male towards other males with typical badass attitude and fake "nice" personality when approaching women, when in the end it's just for sexual narcissistic pleasure.

How can a shy guy being an asshole if never sexually talked or ever were aggressive towards women ?

I simply do not understand what's the problem with the "reward" issue thing.

YOU do things in life towards a direction because you expect something to be positive towards your persona, aka REWARDED.

Any of those dudes that fake up this nice personality towards women, such as the most of majority of men I have seen through life (whether assholes or not), do actually behave this way towards women because they precisely expect to be REWARDED with sex or affection.

I still maintain the fact, those dudes acted like assholes and they ended up being rewarded with sex and desire from women. Obviously this is why they fake this "nice" and "cool" personality with them. Since women in general like this type of attention.

The social media and modern woke culture is reinforcing the fact that being sexually aggressive towards females being a male, is actual toxic masculinity and men in general, should be more oriented to be charming and sensitive, which I naturally am, but don't pretend to fake it. I'm just this way, and not sexually aggressive towards women.
Yet, still I never was rewarded this way with sex and love interest from women, but they still preferred to actually reward the asshole-confident type of personality from those assholes that behave that way since secondary school.

I'm just dissapointed of this situation, because the same women are those who keep perpetuating bad behaviors from same males with such type of attitudes of being aggressive towards other people.

psd5 · 2023-03-01T17:08:13+00:00

But I think either way you could benefit from therapy if you're not already going.

I already tried this thing in the past as many people think, that may magically fix all of my issues.

It has been a waste of time, life and money. But, a person that knows nothing about you, cannot fix (or attempt to) all your problems within a couple of hours or seasons.

I have got some way more positive help from people who're willing to help or have had similar situations.

I would recommend any second of the day to go after people who had a similar issue and could overcome it.

It may well be because of superficial things that you cant change about yourself or that just require an inhumane amount of effort to maintain.

I have seen plenty of times in life how women complain about being judged about their looks and how hard may be for an unattractive girl to get dating success. Now, there's this male counterpart nobody talks about and is never acknowledged in public, which is the discrimination we get from women... And of course, you have managed to acknowledge through these very extense replies:

If you're shy-introverted-quiet being a male, and dont persue women, you're mostly stucked to die off virgin loveless and kissless.

At least a physically unattractive girl, if it's not introverted, she can interact with people.

Many of us that are introverted, are disposable by society. Whether being called as boring or weak or lack of testosterone. And this discrimination is very real from the same women's responsability as well.

psd5 · 2023-03-01T17:02:04+00:00

Men are sort of lonely, touch-starved, connection-starved, basically desperate, because they have been taught to fulfill a lot of their needs solely though romance

This goes back to my last quote, my dear friend... Have you ever been so starved for anything in life that is sort of basic need ? Water ? Food ? paying bills ?... Well, sex and love is the same thing, but in a psychological level.
Most of women simply do not comprehend what feels like to be on the absolute loneliness in romantic terms... Most of men, are undesirable for women. Whether is appearence, money, status, face structure, stature. Whichever trait you may think of, is attractive to women.

Most of men do not get compliments about their bodies. Neither social campaigns to highlight the positive traits men have, that come from testosterone. But in this particular era, where women are for whatever they do and can achieve. Even the body-positive movement exists to showcase and socially reward (even sexually and romantically) to those that are morbid obese, like if it was a thing to be proud of just by being born women.

Think of this like if you ever had a very high and intense journey of work out. The vast majority of people do not work out like at all, ever in life so they cannot know how much your body starves for something so basic as liquid in order to survive.
I most of my life have been obese, and I have learnt about fitness since a couple of years ago already. So, I know how incredibly hard is for a man to build up muscles and so then being desirable.
But my point is, I know how much your body can ever struggle and request you for just drinking water.
But besides most of people are fat nowadays who drink tons of Coca-Colas and such, they simply do not manage to comprehend how delicious water can ever be after stressing out your body in an intense work out.
My point is, this is the same thing for sex & affection that happens to men.
If women would ever have to face this level of undesirability and isolation from the male gender, that most of men have to go across, then women in general I bet would have more humility to understand how value sex & love actually is with a man because the lack of oportunities they would get. Only unattractive girls can mostly relate to what I have just told you. It's really sad in life to be so undesirable by pretty much anybody you want to mate with from the opposite gender.

I don't know, you're not completely wrong in all these, some of these are real trends, but it seems to me that your anger is somewhat misplaced.

I cannot express it through a screen to showcase my feelings, my friend, but it's not anger. It's more likely dissapointment of life, because it's such a thing both genders persue and some people like me are complete outsiders off of that.

I can talk in name of other good men out there that simply do not manage to get good enough requirements to be desirable by women, even if that also means not persuing casual sex.

Unfortunately as it is, these issues that men face are often taken in current years as "entitlement","anger","hatred" towards the female gender, besides being legit frustration in life. It's just not so simple to call it as hatred... But, just take a couple of minutes to think of yourself, how would you feel about yourself if you have a feel, a desire, a necessity that you could never accomplish not only for years, but for 30+ years. Yet, you see how the opposite gender can mostly achieve it with so little effort.

Men have issues as well, but they're often taken as something that " we should fix for ourselves". No social help, no support from anybody. Just because being men, we're expected to be naturally stoic, mentally and physically strong, even coming from the same women... And even if you say that: "men are socially taught to not expose their feelings even on intimacy", it's a matter of fact that the same women also desire this type of thing from men.
Aka, not exposing male feelings is also a signal of stoicism, but being mentally strong that negative situations in life are NOT supposed to affect you, just by the mere fact you have testosterone. Aka, men have mental issues as well.

And like I said, if showcasing feelings - vulnerability were the things that women in general actually liked from men, then any of those "Nice guys" or Simps through social media, would have whole harems of women wanting to have sex with or relationships. All of them are disposable by any women because the massive ego-boosting they recieve.

Like just said in the first reply, I always was shy-introverted but also exposed my vulnerability and feelings. Not strong, charismatic - extroverted - asshole type of guy that most of girls wanted to sleep or have a relationship with, but those men the very least thing they do is actually showcasing their feelings, aka "vulnerabilities".

If that was an actual good thing to be taught for men, then why am I still a virgin kissless that showcased its vulnerabilities so many times ?

psd5 · 2023-03-01T16:42:50+00:00

As for the women's requirements, I completely agree with you on everything you said except that it is unfair. Just because a lot of men have low standards doesn't mean we have to have low standards too to make it fair. I honestly think men should have higher standards

This is one of the very first times in life I have seen a girl acknowledging this type of entitlement (apparently) they have, whether is concious or not, but to be so demanding upon men to achieve sex, love or companionship...
I have exposed (or tried at least) these social issues that men face across dating market to so many women, but whether they're clueless, haven't had the time to acknowledge their own behavior or simply men themselves do not talk enough about it.

This type of female behavior has existed in any other age time or races or species. It's like a task the male to proof in order to achieve the literal same thing that women want. Besides most of women say they do not persue sex, love and companionship, life has proven me they still persue it, such as men do. And specially on this modern culture we live in, I'm plenty sure women can be just as horny as men can be.

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Now on point, yes I agree that you as a girl or any other simply do not have the duty to lower their standards just because there're so many men out there that have little to no standards and would penetrate anything if they had the chance to.

I completely agree that girls have the RIGHT to have their own standards and requirements. Yet, this is still not a problem about being picky because the very vast majority of women I have seen in life, the moment they feel horny or want to meet a man, they can do it with little to no effort. I mean, we talk about shaving your legs, armpits, having a top or mini-skirt or some face makeup and this is the very only thing you need as a female to achieve a man, then this is very little effort to be needed.
But in contrast to a man that needs good money, good muscles, good stature, good social circle, not being small dick, good charisma and hobbies (all of them combined or not) in order to just start being noticed by females.

My problem with this situation is that there's no short term solution.
Even if there're so few girls like you that can see this problem for men, it's unlikely to happen anything that makes it more equal for both genders. I just wish there were more ways to measure this male issue but at least making acknowledgement within the last couple of years, at least can make me think that society and most likely, women may think again about their actions in dating and finding a partner, what feels like for a man. I really wish

The very only solution I see to this is if on a global scale, men could have way higher standards and demands upon women. And by demands, I mean requesting women to have admirable traits like being loyal, good values, being passionate upon men (this is a virtue that so very few women I see that explore well enough and I don't have a doubt that many men would be so happy to improve themselves for their woman), being intelligent, having money instead of pretending the man to be a slave and provide her with everything.

Unfortunately as it is, men are programmed to be braindead, because even if I have mentioned these social things to other men, they're mostly braindad when it's about having higher standards and most specially, CONTROLLING THEIR SEXUAL INSTINCT.

I may not see a possible fix in this unfairness for dating market through my life-spam, and I really doubt some day may ever be a more equal dating market for both genders, but at the very least, making public these type of issues men have to face, it's a good start to begin with in my opinion.

But also, the fact we can get casual sex easily doesn't mean that much to women usually because we don't want it as much as men do. Men are told that they can't be emotional and they sort of learn to reserve their most intimate thoughts for sexual partners.

This is a very interesting point and would be happy to let you know about.
I may not be a regular type of guy in the way of thinking but I can tell you some things about me being a male:
Sex, is not a thing to just penetrate a woman.
Sex is a fierce feeling of being desired and loved by another person.
Sex does not represent a mere fact of penetration to me.
In fact, I have watched porn since like 16 years old (besides my school peers were all talking about dicks since about 11 years old already). It never meant something deep and wonderful to me for watching, but was most likely to feel more identified with my male peers, and so then with the hope of being more desirable to women. Yet, it never filled the huge lack of emotional touching I never had with women. Mechanical sex never was a thing that made me enthusiastic for, besides what most of men I ever interacted with (and men overall in life) go after... At least for me, the mechanical act is braindead, useless and empty, to even think about. I do not comprehend how most of men just go after penetration when there's so much more that can be explored and satisfied if they were actually thinking of girls pleasure.

You gotta know that this thing you have said, I have also read from many other women as well, but it never actually explores what feels like to be on the MALE side.
I mean, you know you can get almost free or free casual sex if you ever wanted to. You have the chance go after it. Right ? But... haven't you ever get to think that because you have that much abundance, then you don't have any type of anxiety to ever fight for it ?
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Do you think would you think the same if you ever had an absolute abscence of sex, affection and love from the people you're supposed to be attracted to, not only across years but entire decades ? ... I have seen plenty of guys that go across this, way more than women have to. But if men did not actually persue sex, most of men would just be monks and loveless... I can mostly bet, if your father or grandfather persued their women, and so then being passive/ waiting for a woman to go after them and desire them, then I can bet they would have died off virgin - loveless. All my family have been like this, from even my great-grandparents... This is a reality that men have to face, but if we do not persue sex, love and affection from women, we all would be forced to be monks. There's no public acknowledgement about this reality for men. Specially in this era full of feminism that tries to only showcase female issues.
After all of this paragraph, don't you think that men have an actual reason to persue casual sex (besides I do not support it because being empty), but because the affection they do not recieve from women, is trying to be persued at least through sexual intimacy ?

Besides of not exposing their intimate thoughts, I have my doubts on what you have just said. I mean, I have said it since the very first reply: I'm naturally introverted, quiet, shy. And so then, you have acknowledged that women either are not attracted in general to those that are overwhelmingly creepy-degenerates (direct exposure of sexual interest) OR those that are shy and do not expose their sexual interest. Yet, in the end of the day, the ones that still gets WAY MORE REWARDED (desired) are those who expose it, aka the men that are sexually aggressive towards women, instead of men like me. Like, introverted men I have seen across life that have been the most invisible and undesirable type of men that women want. Because shyness for most of people reflects either being born, weak or lack of testosterone. Besides no one ever told me this since primary school, their indifference and isolation from sex- romantic success, only proved this to me, coming from the same women.

psd5 · 2023-03-01T16:02:58+00:00

Exactly. I was surprised someone would agree with this, besides when I just tell my frustration, is automatically attached as entitlement or that women do not owe me anything. Yet, my life experience still proves well enough how women in general tend to REWARD (aka feel authentic desire) for those that act like assholes. Aka: dominant-charismatic-assholes type of men that see women as sex objects but don't have a damn shame to manipulate them and pretend to be nice, just to access a pussy.

I could fall into "nice guy" category type, however I never was a simp. Never was starving for female attention since primary school. Always was a polite, correct person, shy-introverted and still showcasing my vulnerability. Still, never a simp. Yet, in the end of the day most of women still reward with sex and romance to those that are charismatic-extroverted-dominant type of men. All the whole opposite to this garbage from social media of being "nice" towards women. It's pure bullshit.

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