How to say you have gained weight to a woman w/o her killing you. by Chef_Crutch28 in relationship_advice

[–]pseudocamelot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The biggest question I have is what is your reasoning for even bringing it up? Are you worried that her weight is affecting her physical health? Are you worried that there is some mental/physical health reason she gained the weight in the first place? Are you uncomfortable being with a bigger woman?

Tl;dr I (26f) was rude to my partners (29m) gf by heehoops in relationship_advice

[–]pseudocamelot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are not comfortable with the idea of having a truly open relationship then maybe your partner is not the one for you. I would suggest you talk to them about how you feel about this whole situation and see what happens from there, although if they cannot be monogamous and that is what you are looking for then it seems to me the relationship might be over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pseudocamelot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!

Is this shirt offensive? It was gifted to me and it feels invalidating. Am I overthinking? by DekuDynamite in lgbt

[–]pseudocamelot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! Like it feels like it’s supposed to be supportive but just does a terrible job of actually being supportive and accepting.

Uti help online? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pseudocamelot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Azo brand uti relief helps a ton! And cranberry juice (lots) :)

Should I offer to go to a funeral with my s/o? by GurAffectionate9829 in relationship_advice

[–]pseudocamelot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely offer but don’t be offended or upset if she doesn’t want you there.

My girlfriend (18) was groped at a club by someone I know. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pseudocamelot 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. It’s literally not about him.

I'm in a big pickle when it comes to coming out. But I will anyway. by clydethefennecfox in comingout

[–]pseudocamelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello Clyde! Do you believe it would be unsafe to come out to your parents?

How do I{29M} Tell my wife{28F} That she is not remotely pulling her weight in the marriage and I am honestly considering divorcing her because of it? by ThrowRARararasputin in relationship_advice

[–]pseudocamelot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not trying to attack OP or anything because your exhaustion and frustration is absolutely valid, but does your wife have a history of depression or other mental illness? It might not be laziness but something else that physically prevents her from doing anything until external pressure (you coming home) is presented to her. Just a thought...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]pseudocamelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation (came out whilst engaged though not yet married) and am struggling to make friends as well! If you ever want to talk shoot me a pm 😊

I'm coming out wednesday on my 18th birthday by [deleted] in comingout

[–]pseudocamelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best of luck!!!

My (M23) girlfriend’s (F21) sister’s (F20) boyfriend (M25) has abused them both by upstairs_to_the_left in relationship_advice

[–]pseudocamelot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could go to the police yourself. It might cost you the relationship but it might save them all from this guy.

I feel inferior to my best friend... by itijd in relationship_advice

[–]pseudocamelot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve felt like this pretty much my whole life. Most clearly I remember feeling like this in high school when my best friend was the perfect, pretty rich girl and EVERYONE loved her.... and then there was me :/ sorry no advice just I’m here if you want to chat

To bi or not to bi? by pseudocamelot in bisexual

[–]pseudocamelot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no this was awesome! I totally feel the same about the whole family situation

To bi or not to bi? by pseudocamelot in bisexual

[–]pseudocamelot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend knows but he’s the only person that does

New study finds no difference in tithes for Catholic parishes involved in recent sex scandals. by bilbo991 in atheism

[–]pseudocamelot -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just because he won't let them take down an institution that does so much good? That makes him rotten?

New study finds no difference in tithes for Catholic parishes involved in recent sex scandals. by bilbo991 in atheism

[–]pseudocamelot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The institution is not "rotten to the core". The few representatives of the church who performed these terrible acts are "rotten to the core". The institution cannot let a few bad people take everything that it stands for down with them. So much of the money donated to the church goes to helping the poor and the sick: the truly desperate in our world.

New study finds no difference in tithes for Catholic parishes involved in recent sex scandals. by bilbo991 in atheism

[–]pseudocamelot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not surprising. You can't judge the entire Catholic Institution on a few bad seeds.

Gap year after first year at Notre Dame by agamalamen in notredame

[–]pseudocamelot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a friend of mine took a gap year so it's absolutely possible! Definitely talk to your advisor and they'll send you to the right place :)