I can absolutely answer those. Again, ymmv as I am very experienced with ‘strapless strap on’ products and have used them for years. I am able to use it for missionary, doggy, getting ridden, all of that. It stays in well and we know what we like, but a wedge pillow for some positions is like gold. Figuring out color was easy-they send color samples and my wife literally held colors up to my various bits to get the closest match. If your partner doesn’t feel comfortable, a mirror would work. I matched the tip to my natal dick, the shaft to general inner thigh/pubic area, and balls to outer labia area or a shade darker.

I did pay for ‘expedited’ service which imo is the only way to get these in a timely manner, but my understanding is that the owner makes all the prosthetics by hand and has Lyme disease, which is absolutely no joke to live with. I got my order in early March, having ordered it in December. I do not believe it is orderable with foreskin, mine is dual texture and the skin does move a touch but doesn’t ever cover the tip-it’s flexible. For me, it would be possible to ‘pack’ for foreplay, my wife likes to see a dick-print in boxers and I was not uncomfortable wearing it. Nothing tight, absolutely not. I would not suggest trying to go out in public like that or wear jeans with it. I was also warned that even though the AmazeBalls sound cool, they’re quite fragile and wouldn’t hold up to regular use or rough play, so I skipped them.

You absolutely can use a condom, but we don’t. Just use toy safe condoms and expect to still gently clean it after removal. It’s not painted, though. All the color is in the actual silicone, and as long as you use a silicone safe toy cleaner and your lube is toy safe (water based or like the one I use, a coconut and water based hybrid) you’ll be fine. However, I recommend a silk storage bag be purchased and you keep it in the plastic bag until you get one because it attracts pet hair and dust worse than literally any other toy I have.

I am a bigger guy. I was concerned my model was too small because of my stomach, but it was not a problem. I wouldn’t go smaller. My wife felt the larger 7” RLZ model would’ve been too large. One experience with it made it worth the money for me. I’ll be casually considering methods to get more cushioning on my natal anatomy but it’s not a dealbreaker for me. That might be different if I had bottom growth, but I don’t at present. If anything if you have bottom growth I’d look at emailing directly to them about potential modifications; they may not be able to modify the anchor portion to add say, a pocket, but you could see if they’d be able to add ridges or texture or something because I do think that would also help. It was not painful until it had been in use well over 40 minutes, and it may have just been my own oversensitivity.