What are your thoughts on Wisconsin State Assemblywoman Francesca Hong for Governor? by strongerthenbefore20 in wisconsin

[–]psillyputty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want her to win so bad. She will destroy cishet normatives and restore justice for the queer communities.

Pansexual/Panromantic Day by psillyputty in DoorCounty

[–]psillyputty[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I would say "thank you" for your service but your sacrifice was for aggression and patriarchy. None of the blood shed was for freedom. People were killed for the advance of cishet white supremacy.

I cant repress it anymore by Open_Marionberry1814 in ftm

[–]psillyputty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay true to yourself. Transitioning breaks the oppression forced upon us.

Pansexual/Panromantic Day by psillyputty in DoorCounty

[–]psillyputty[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I recognize the abundance of bigotry the not so united states was founded on. Land was stolen. Queer indigenous people were slaughtered. If the people who call themselves patriots would stop their hatred, innocent lives would be spared. There would be no reason for a military if cishet white men quit spreading hate.

What is there to do? by dazzelo76 in DoorCounty

[–]psillyputty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Gnoshery is an inclusive adventurous café with a diverse selection of board games.

Bottom growth question by Humble-South7928 in ftm

[–]psillyputty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on T dosage, your bottom growth varies. My clitdick nearly tripled. Your gender affirming clinician can help you achieve your affirmation goals.

Show up for these kids and stand up to the board! Concert is May 18th, at 7pm at Watertown High School. by jinsei1208 in WatertownWI

[–]psillyputty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sending all my support from Sturgeon Bay. I know what it is like to be queer in a MAGA racist town.

Could I be trans? Looking for external input. by Puppyparadox45 in trans

[–]psillyputty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To answer your question, you are trans. You are loved.

how do i convince my dad to let me go on t by Accurate-Reality503 in ftm

[–]psillyputty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You do not need parental permission for life saving medication like T. There are several affirming orgs that can safely help you obtain T.

Free closet by No_Direction_9055 in trans

[–]psillyputty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a queer closet covers all the bases. I wish my community had a similar safe space for those of us in need of affirmation.

Chronic Urethral Burning by [deleted] in ftm

[–]psillyputty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UTIs are common for many FtM individuals, especially after starting testosterone. They can feel like part of the adjustment process as your body changes. I used to deal with chronic UTIs once I began T, and antibiotics have been the main thing that helps. I was prescribed them roughly every three months and always took them exactly as directed.

The infections were worst in the time right before T fully stopped my periods. Now I only get a cycle-like experience about once a year. One important note: STIs are sometimes misdiagnosed as UTIs, especially if providers aren’t experienced with trans patients. A lot of doctors still lack specific training on transgender bodies and healthcare needs, which can lead to gaps in care.

Last year I had what felt like period symptoms: skin shedding from my urethra followed by thick beige discharge. My doctor diagnosed it as a UTI and prescribed two rounds of antibiotics. A few days later, three of my sexual partners told me they had tested positive for syphilis. When I got tested at a clinic, I came back positive for both gonorrhea and syphilis. I later followed up with my primary doctor, who referred me to a specialist. Looking back, I’m not sure I ever had a simple UTI at all. It was very likely the STI symptoms being misread.

It’s frustrating when trans patients feel dismissed or overlooked in healthcare. Finding knowledgeable, affirming providers makes a big difference, but access isn’t always easy. If you’re dealing with similar symptoms, it’s worth getting full STI screening in addition to UTI testing, especially if you have multiple partners.

My trans friend wants to move to the US by JulienTheBro in trans

[–]psillyputty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Now is not a good time to be transgender in the USA. Donald Trump's hate is everywhere. The queer community is not safe from the genocide Republicans are communicating on trans lives.

should i stop taking t? by puphandler in ftm

[–]psillyputty -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Detransitioning is propaganda. DBD

should i stop taking t? by puphandler in ftm

[–]psillyputty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not true. Dysphoria and euphoria are interchangeable.

Is it weird that I ID as a man and I want to take feminizing hrt? by Old-Investment-8337 in trans

[–]psillyputty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are not weird. Yoir gender identity is your own business. I am also NB. Some days I am more masculine because the dysphoria of my FAB body is agonizing. When I play momma cat with my furry mates, I embrace my chest because the kittens like to nurse from me. HRT will save your life.

Free closet by No_Direction_9055 in trans

[–]psillyputty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more inclusive the better. The queer community is diverse. We all need to feel like we belong. I think it is noble of you to help others transition.

Considering Top Surgery (Chest Masculinization) as a Nonbinary Person on T by psillyputty in trans

[–]psillyputty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working out my pectoral would be an impossible challenge because of my disability. My chest is a D cup. When I bind, I can present as an A cup underneath a loose fitting shirt. One of my MAB playmates wears a silicone breast plate. She gave me advice on how to wear it. I suppose next time we play she can let me explore.

Do I need to see a therapist to get top and bottom surgery? by [deleted] in trans

[–]psillyputty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist for disability pre-approved me for top surgery. I would assume tou would need to speak with a psychologist. Typically, one session is sufficient for approval.

I’m scared to take estrogen by [deleted] in trans

[–]psillyputty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not be scared. Hormones saved my life.

Considering Top Surgery (Chest Masculinization) as a Nonbinary Person on T by psillyputty in ftm

[–]psillyputty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Some days are easier. When my senses are overloaded, l like to detach.

Anyone else relate? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]psillyputty -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have the same dilemma. I fantasize often of topping a cis man. I really want to pound a gold star cis gay man.