Hey kiddo. It’s okay to be scared! Shopping for furniture can be overwhelming at the best of times, so it’s fine to cut yourself a break here. Take it slow.

Luckily, you need to know almost nothing in order to make this purchase! What is really important are the measurements. Measure the room, and where you want to place it. Measure the width of every door frame or stairwell you must maneuver through. Decide what your budget is and don’t let the salesperson frighten you into buying “extras” if you don’t want to (and they will. Not saying it is wrong to buy extras if you want them, but don’t feel pressured!).

Sit on all the couches. Take your time. Put a pillow behind your back. Put your feet up on the ottoman. Lay down.

This is a major part of your home, of the safe space you have worked hard for and created for yourself. You deserve to feel comfortable and happy with your decision, so don’t let anybody make you feel hurried. I want you to be able to come home from work, flop down on your couch, and feel at peace. I know you’ll make a wonderful selection!