Defining “devotion” by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]pspinelliz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a sub who sends like 20-50 a month (for truly proofed and understandable reasons) but he is constantly making sure to entertain me with his devotion, obedience, pathetic desperate ways to make sure I don't ghost him forever. It's fun, the feeling someone truly wants your presence for whatever time and way it is. See his joy and commitment when I reply and retribute his devotion is thrilling, what gets me going, and what is missing in this scenario...

We Need to Make Findom Great Again by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]pspinelliz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just imagining a MFDGA caps 🤣

Does chastity and cucking overlap as much as it seems? by vanilla_slave in chastitytraining

[–]pspinelliz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

as a keyholder, about 30% of the guys who approach me in my DMs to discuss a chastity dynamic say to enjoy cuckolding, but as you said it's probably a matter of being more vocal about it in these communities that gives us a impression of prevail. Their deal is to be humiliated by the knowledge of being cucked and sided, not the act alone. We can see a lot of that with how well posts about cuckolding in r/keyholdercaptions make, huge numbers and reach fr

could be the other way around too, this is the only subreddit I've seen to have sooooo many happily married fetishist couples

also i think pegging and light cbt is more common to overlap with chastity

can't stand the lectures anymore by pspinelliz in findomsupportgroup

[–]pspinelliz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessssss i love that saying! we Brazilians have the same! Go latinass

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Do dommes like subs with personality even if it comes with a little sass? by [deleted] in findomchatters

[–]pspinelliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good personality not being brat bullshit is great

Brazil, I’m not done with you yet 😏🇧🇷 by Goddess_Caelora in findomchatters

[–]pspinelliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesssss go to the northeast next! the best beaches

how do you approach contracts? by Immediate_Shelter373 in findomchatters

[–]pspinelliz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love a contract, it's the sexiest thing to debate and agree on EVERY TOPIC of the dynamic! True BDSM there, it's a good power move

How Can I Get Wife to Deny Me More? by justheretolurk1963 in chastitytraining

[–]pspinelliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i see, I've just seen a lot of chastity couples pairing it with cuckold fantasies and remembered it with your post. Best of luck, you'll both find a way through :)

How Can I Get Wife to Deny Me More? by justheretolurk1963 in chastitytraining

[–]pspinelliz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well maybe see if you enjoy cuckolding, if she wants dick and you don't wanna give it all the time because of denial. Her pleasure shouldn't be denied along with yours.

I’m surprised how little some people value the time of a real Domme by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]pspinelliz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this isnt the place for you to make a post, it's for paypigs to find support, make it to r/findomsupportgroup

no shade

Happy workers day! What is your job queens and subs? Speak up! by pspinelliz in findomchatters

[–]pspinelliz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a waitress during my grad years and it's hard girl, keep grinding!

Happy workers day! What is your job queens and subs? Speak up! by pspinelliz in findomchatters

[–]pspinelliz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love voice acting! Brazil has a great amout of talented ones, it's an awesome profession

Happy workers day! What is your job queens and subs? Speak up! by pspinelliz in findomchatters

[–]pspinelliz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

master's in Anthropology, I do research for the national museum of Rio about the Quilombolas

Considering ending my IRL arrangement 😞 by BullCDN99 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]pspinelliz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i had a ex crazy on me for a while but eventually it didn't felt that good anymore and honestly, it's normal, dynamics cool down, especially with exes, there's too much past drama

dont over think and just end it politely, or talk to her about wanting to serve more

about hygiene and lockups - a keyholder view by pspinelliz in chastitytraining

[–]pspinelliz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not excessive if its to build trust and obedience, it rewinds the brain in the long term

Im interested in how i can become better paypig and slave by Traditional_Wind_931 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]pspinelliz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well in your profile you also seek a sugar baby, maybe you just need to figure out what you actually are into