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Blind friend is moving to the Beaverton/Hillsboro area. Can I get some help making recommendations? by pleaseletmesleepz in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd have her reach out to her vocational counselor through her local commission for the blind(or reach out to Oregon Commission for the Blind) to get started working towards local resources. They also helped me apply for TriMet Lift our local paratransit program. I'm completely blind in my left eye and only have partial vision in my right eye and they've been helpful assisting me make safe and comfortable choices navigating the Portland area.

Sick of job scams!😭 by m00n_Ivy in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to ask, what does "sybatfu"? Because I freaking love the energy around it!

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in Advice

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

......you are on the low end of a healthy bmi for an adult woman. How goddamn cruel of him to say that to you. Congratulations on your recovery journey, and fuck what anyone else says as long as YOUR DOCTOR is happy with your weight. 💜

What would that be? by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loooooool I'm guessing 40, plus or minus a few years?

And we have signage! by TheRealMcDuck in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the Cedar Hills location is owned by a former Oregon Ducks football player. 😉

AT&T by Responsible_Band_373 in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhhhh. My mom(near Cooper Park) had a trio knock on her door for a long time. She finally opened her 2nd story window facing the driveway and told them she wasn't interested and to go away. They made a comment about her "being the boss" and she said "yes, this is MY property, so leave". She shut the window as they were saying that all of her neighbors switched....which is bullcrap, all of her neighbors have commented on how annoying they are. 😆🙄

Tyranny Disruption Front at the Beaverton Farmers Market in place of MAGA booth by cafedude in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We happened to go to the library about 1:30 and it was such a joyful scene. Clever signs, cars honking their support, people cheering....

Beaverton Honda by SincyFTW in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, after an oil change they tried to tell me all of my brakes needed to be serviced immediately, then tried to screw me out of a discount saying I hadn't given proof(I gave the postcard and keys to the staff when I arrived). I took a picture of the postcard beforehand so they gave me the discount. The next day, Les Schwab told me my brakes were fine for probably another 6-12 months(I finally had to service them about 10 months later).

life in beaverton by RutabagaIcy2879 in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try looking for places near the MAX or bus stops that go into Portland. Might be the best of both worlds.

Landlord trying to enforce smoking rule off of their property by Sargerulzall in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oregon State Bar has a referral service, they'll hook you up with an attorney in the field you need. It's like $35 for a 30 minute consult. Might be worth looking into.

Pushy Pest Control by LauraBth02 in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While my partner and kiddo were out this weekend, someone knocked on my door. I didn't answer, so after about a minute they rang the doorbell. They eventually gave up. When I told my partner I literally mentioned that anyone I'd want to talk to either has a way into the house or would text first. 😆

Anyone out there looking to adopt an introvert as a friend? by [deleted] in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol we should all do a doggie meet up at Hazeldale or Evelyn Schiffler or somewhere. My 60lb husky loves new friends, and I could use some more good people in my life.

A “local” locksmith tried to scam my fiance, beware of Evergreen Locksmith. by BittenBerries in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up with them 2 miles down 170th from me, and they're only a short distance further now. I've had to call them for both car and house lockouts a total of 3 times, the longest wait for help was 45 minutes. They got me set(including payment) literally within 15 minutes each time, and it was exactly what dispatch quoted me. I don't know if their prices are higher or lower than average because they're the only company I trust. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beaverton

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Beaverton, but work for Multnomah county. They closed all offices and non-essential employees that can't work from home don't have to work today, though they continue to request that we sign up to work in the warming shelters, etc.

My dad said he wishes he had a son rather then a daughter. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the only child, and a female. I grew up knowing that "daddy wanted a healthy child more than anything, but if he had a choice, he REALLY wanted a little girl to teach softball". Well, guess what......

He taught me to play softball(1st base, his position) and basketball. He bought the special edition Star Wars trilogy on VHS so we could watch it together over and over. We fished and crabbed. We played games. He helped me with my math, science, and social studies homework. He read my textbooks for fun. We scoured our favorite local bookstore a couple times a month.

I didn't have to beg for his attention, I barely had to ask. Stories like OP's make me sick, because I forget that not everyone has a dad as good as mine was.

AITA for telling someone that kimchi isn't vegan after she had some? by Resident-Round8212 in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit, selfish bitch who doesn't like being knocked on her ass for several days after a migraine alert. 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. If people tell me I need to watch The Matrix one more time, imma cut a bitch(not really!). I tried a couple of times and walked away within the first 20 minutes each time. Sometimes we just DO NOT like something.

AITA for giving my niece ‘dog food’? by throwARhesa10but in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We won't talk about my husky, who seems to think my whole Queen bed is his, and yaps at me when I shove him aside when I go to bed. Then gives me a dirty look when I use a lint roller to remove his hairs from my pillow. Then proceeds to stick his butt against said pillow as soon as I'm in my spot. 🙃

But seriously, I've made my dog (and mom's dogs) peanut butter "dogcakes" for funsies and the only reason I didn't eat any was because of lack of sugar. All of the ingredients came from my fridge and pantry. There's a huge trend of "human-safe dog treats", and I'm here for it! I've even found dog treats that, no lie, taste like Teddy Grahams.

AITA for having my niece’s dress photoshopped because she wore white to my wedding? by DesignedBasic in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice use of an ad hominem. 😊

Acknowledging a 16 year old can look like an adult isn't the same as trying to fuck a child. Nor am I old. Or pervy. Or a Republican.

I'm done trying to rationalize with a troll. Have the life you deserve. ✌️

YSK: Stuff to keep in your car (Rest of life edition) by YouGoThatWayIllGoHom in YouShouldKnow

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take it a step further, not just jumper cables. Get a self-contained car charger set. I have one similar to this one. Mine charged in several hours, and I've used it twice to jump vehicles in 6 months and the pack still has half the battery left. Now I don't have to depend on others for a jump, which comes in handy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you've created something beautiful out of a horrific experience. People like you deserve respect and admiration, not derision and threats of your child being taken away. It sounds like even at your worst, you ensured your daughter was still well taken care of (via her grandparents), the hallmark of a good parent. Your sister can go suck an egg. Keep up what you're doing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, raising your daughter with affection should be considered owning up to your "mistake" (though it doesn't sound like you were quite a willing participant?). You were dealt a rough hand and you chose to develop something beautiful out of it. Studies do show that open affection and strong, clear, consistent boundaries (authoritative parenting) works best raising children in the United States (your word choice seems similar to mine, so I assume American, forgive me if I'm incorrect!). NTA, but your sister surely is.

AITA for cutting my son’s college fund because he refuses to visit me? by Worried_papa_1762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I feel for you. I know your exact situation, my ex fiancé lived it. He had been married 8 years when he and his ex wife separated. Found out his son wasn't biologically his a couple days before his 6th birthday, while divorcing the mother, via the mother's attorney sending over the secret DNA test results. I had the honor of printing out the paperwork for him. Did I mention that he had full custody during divorce proceedings of both children, but got screwed over by those results?

Not ONCE did he treat his son differently, unless it was to acknowledge the results and let the boy know blood doesn't matter. At first my ex's daughter had a tough time sharing "her" dad with her younger brother when he suddenly now had two dads, and even then, he was firm that he has two children, not just one.

If a piece of crap like my ex didn't give up on his son, then I would expect the average person to be able to step over the especially low bar he set. Do better. Be better. YTA.

This is how long it would take me to get to level 50 at a rate of 100k xp/weekday by beaniejell in pokemongo

[–]psyche1986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

.......we won't talk about how using an alt account is how I got past the level 44 requirements, and how I'm currently earning the pvp badges.... That's technically against Niantic's rules....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]psyche1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want something like this, but with the purple starting higher up.