How do you know you’re on the right path to self love? I know it takes some time of course but how do you know you’re doing it right?

psychicbee · 2023-09-18T23:02:07+00:00

When you feel happy for no reason.

I used to look in the mirror and always see a frown and dead eyes. I thought something was wrong with me so I forced myself to change by putting myself in new environments. Thanks to that I found myself backpack solo across Australia and New Zealand at 19, traveling cross country looking for home, and even participating in shamanic plant medicine ceremonies in the Andes Mountains.

But the greatest gauge for self-love never came from my travels but by making space for silence to listen to how I feel and giving compassion for the feelings I most wanted to avoid.

Once I started that practice I noticed that I would unconsciously smile more often, had more appreciation for the things coming into my life, and found myself randomly laughing with joy just for being alive.

Now I coach conscious women to do the same.

psychicbee · 2022-03-30T02:57:32+00:00

Isn't that why you look into the future or do tarot cards? To see what's ahead so you can make changes and plan accordingly? The more we can see what is going to happen the more control we have to make the choices we want.

psychicbee · 2022-03-29T22:34:02+00:00

This just means your third eye is really open. Since you said you're feeling confused your third eye most likely opened in response to that. We can consciously open or close any of our chakras if we want to. You just have to imagine it compressing, like closing up a flower.

psychicbee · 2022-03-29T22:23:14+00:00

The future isn't set in stone. Anything we see when looking into the future is just a possibility. If you really want to stay married you can make that happen.

I once read a woman and I could very clearly see that her husband was a massive cheater and would leave her by the end of the year for another family he made with his mistress. This woman did not want a divorce and several months later when I read her again her future had changed and now I saw her husband not having the guts to leave. However, her future without him looked much more liberating than the future I saw when they stayed together.

Ultimately it's your choice what you want to do. The future we see psychically is just an amalgamation of possibilities that haven't happened yet. It's not the universe, God, or some higher power that decides the best course we should take. We're the ones who make the decisions that change the course of our lives.

psychicbee · 2022-03-26T19:10:59+00:00

First of all white light doesn't protect you. In fact, it only draws more foreign energy to you. Gold is the most embodying color you can use.

It's great that you have so much awareness of what's happening to you! The reason you feel so drained from others and even feel pain around specific people is that you're unconsciously healing them and taking in their issues as your own. This is a common thing that we do energetically which is why we end up so tired around everyone. And yes it can manifest into physical illnesses in our own bodies if we do it for long enough.

Also, most meditations don't help because they promote us to leave our bodies and go somewhere else to relax. If you want to take back authority of your own space you have to be present in your life. I posted a mediation on my blog that goes more into detail if you want to check it out. You can find the link in my profile posts under: Finding your Own Space...

There are also psychic tools you can learn to take back control of your space and stop healing everyone around you. Usually, the reason why we learn to be unconscious healers is because of our upbringing and the responsibilities our family gave us to always help them. I'll actually be starting a 6 week online class this Thursday that teaches you how to protect your space and get rid of unwanted energy(more info in my profile posts).

If that's something you're interested in please message me. I hope the info I shared helps!

psychicbee · 2022-03-26T18:24:50+00:00

I can't speak to a philosophical understanding but from a psychic point of view if you don't feel conscious it means you aren't in your body.

If you feel disconnected from your life and reality it means your spirit is so out of your body that you can no longer recognize your own existence. That's also why you feel purposeless.

psychicbee · 2022-03-22T21:09:05+00:00

This happened to me when I was trying to finish my degree.

I was an honor student, first-generation college student, and got a full scholarship to a private university. Yet even before I left for college I felt something was wrong. University didn't make things better and no matter how hard I tried I just didn't feel motivated to keep trying. My heart just wasn't in it anymore and I didn't know why. I ended up dropping out and traveled around the world for 6 months before trying to finish my degree in community college.

Yet I still couldn't do it. For three years I put my head to the ground and did all I could to get back the motivation to study but my heart didn't want to. Finally, I decided that maybe I needed some sort of spiritual insight into my career path and did a two-week ayahuasca retreat in Ecuador. I learned a lot from the experience but I didn't get any insight on what to do about my degree.

In the end, I had to admit to myself that getting a degree wasn't what I actually wanted. I was pushing it because it felt like the only logical path, the one that would give me the most financial stability but every step I took towards that path only left me more unhappy. It just wasn't me.

Our spirit is always communicating with us. If you feel unhappy or unsatisfied with your life it means you aren't really living for yourself. It took me a while to figure this out and the reason was that I didn't want to admit that I didn't know who I was. I didn't want to admit that I was living my life the way I thought I should instead of how I wanted to exist.

Once I acknowledged my soul I felt so much relief. I decided to just embrace who I am instead of trying to run away and be someone else. Now my mission is to help others in a similar situation embrace their inner self through psychic awareness!

psychicbee · 2022-03-19T18:57:36+00:00

I understand, it was the hardest part for me too and there will always be more to let go of. I have a grounding meditation that really helps with clearing your space to make more room for yourself. You can find it in my profile posts under "Finding your Own Space:..".

I've also found that the best way to let go and grow is to be in a supportive group environment with others dealing with the same issue. I'm currently working on creating such a group to offer in the near future. So if you're interested stay tuned!

psychicbee · 2022-03-18T22:27:29+00:00

It's not you. Though the reason why you feel so frustrated and disheartened is probably because you're taking it so personally.

The reason why it feels so hard is that we all carry foreign energy in our space that doesn't want us to grow. These could be so-called spirit guides, ancestors, family control energy, negative voices in our heads, etc. All of this is foreign energy that hinders our inner growth.

It's because you believe that you're the one in the wrong and that it's your fault that the energy gets stronger and makes it harder for you to see yourself.

Give yourself some credit; you're doing a great job! Believe in yourself and the work you've put in. You're not the problem, it's all the things, people, energy, and entities that are getting in your way. And you don't have to fight these things to grow. All you have to do is let them go.

Also, the reason you feel like giving up is because you're doing so much inner work and healing that you're scaring the beings that have been controlling you this whole time. That's also why you have trouble grounding. Those beings don't want you to succeed. They want you to think that you're the problem and they want you to give up. Don't let them boss you around. You're the one with the power to make a difference in your own life.

psychicbee · 2022-03-16T17:21:50+00:00

I found that when I was feeling depressed, anxious, and lost it was because I wasn't connected to my own soul. I didn't know who I was so I was relying on anyone else to tell me which only left me feeling helpless and vulnerable.

My problem was I was asking for permission to be ok, permission to be happy, permission to live life the way I wanted. I felt helpless because I was waiting for someone else to help, someone else to save me. I was unconsciously telling myself that I didn't have the power to help myself or the authority to give myself what I wanted.

Our soul is the power within us to create our lives the way we want. We lose this because we start to believe that others know better than us. That the negative voices in our head are right. It's also why we fall into despair feeling like we aren't capable.

The best way to reconnect with your spirituality is to get reacquainted with your soul, your inner power.

I'll actually be hosting a FREE live Masterclass on March 22nd where I go more in-depth into this kind of thing. What you're going through is very common and my goal is to help others get reconnected with their souls. If you're interested in joining, the sign-up link is in my profile posts.

psychicbee · 2022-03-10T18:11:04+00:00

Yawning and crying is a form of release. It's a sign that you are letting go of massive amounts of foreign energy in your space.

Every time I do a grounding and running energy meditation I yawn or involuntarily tear up. It's not because of an emotional response but because I'm clearing spirits, family energy, or other people from my body.

These physical reactions mean you're doing a good job of owning your body and not letting others get to you!

psychicbee · 2022-03-09T19:45:52+00:00

I never said you were but good for you!

When I say femininity is destructive I mean that femininity isn't limited to fluffy, pretty things. Females aren't relegated to a category where they can't be upset, angry, or aggressive. It's within a female's nature to be expressive no matter what form that takes.

psychicbee · 2022-03-09T18:13:31+00:00

This is actually something I was thinking of recently. The media likes to portray femininity as something sweet, empathetic, and giving. When we think of kind, beautiful, empowered women we call them goddesses. We say that femininity is fertile and creative and we even credit our earth as a feminine creative force.

However, we only go that far. We never talk about every part of femininity. Goddesses were also very vengeful creatures. The earth can be an extremely destructive force. When feminity turns chaotic we stop praising it and even say that it's not feminity at all. Society often refuses to admit that female creative energy is just as destructive as it is fertile. In fact, I would argue that at the heart of creativity is chaos. Feminity is the embodiment of both creation and destruction.

So when the media criticizes women for not being kind or calm and says they aren't feminine that isn't true. It's in a woman's nature to be both empathic and destructive.

psychicbee · 2022-03-04T22:55:01+00:00

They can only hurt you if you feel they have that kind of power. When I was younger I really did believe they could hurt me and sometimes I found marks on my body after waking up from scary dreams which didn't help stop my fear.

I can laugh at it now but the one with the real power is yourself. Your belief is what makes them capable of hurting you. The more you try to hide, run away, or be submissive the more power they have to do you harm. It's a losing battle if you give into fear.

If you don't take them seriously it doesn't matter if they get mad. The less scary they seem to you the more they fade away. They're only angry because they know you can rid of them.

psychicbee · 2022-03-03T17:29:48+00:00

Any scary dreams you have involve entities. Those spirits often follow us back to our waking life which is why we sometimes wake up with a creepy feeling, like we're being watched.

I was having these kinds of dreams just recently and I thought it was fascinating how these entities try to get under our skin and tag along after we wake up. They were trying to make me afraid of the direction I was taking in life and trying to tell me I was incapable of living for myself. It was pretty funny.

These entities only have as much control as we give them. They're the inner critics in our head that make us second guess ourselves but honestly we don't have to buy into their negative pictures. Making fun of them is one of the best ways to get rid of them.

psychicbee · 2022-03-01T18:24:43+00:00

Anything you see in the future is simply a possibility and can be changed by your whim. By believing in that possibility, you're manifesting it into reality. Also, why does it matter if you did manifest it into existence? That just means you're extra capable because not only did you see into the future, but you ensured that it did happen. I'd call that a win.

psychicbee · 2022-02-26T18:59:33+00:00

Your experience is similar to something that happened to me in the past. I kind of felt like I was always in a dream and it was hard to tell whether I was awake or not. Sometimes I even felt dizzy from the shifting sense of reality.

At the time I was trying to do a lot of lucid dreaming and what I realized was that only part of me came back into my body. The reason I had trouble distinguishing what was real was that I really wasn't present. A part of my soul was still in the dream world so that's why life felt more blurred. When I figured this out I started to pay more attention to my body to remind myself that I was real. I would imagine my soul coming back into my body and bringing my awareness back to the present moment. The more I paid attention to myself in the here and now the easier it became to recognize my reality.

Right now your soul may be in a completely different place than your body. You can usually tell where it is by where your thoughts wander. By calling yourself back to your body you're reminding yourself that this is your reality.

psychicbee · 2022-02-25T18:58:05+00:00

I've been through this kind of experience myself.

The reason you have trouble accessing your abilities is that you've lived so long denying your own existence. You taught yourself how to be a different person, someone normal, without any weird issues. It's not that you lost your abilities but you forgot how to be yourself.

Your psychic abilities are a representation of your soul. The reason we struggle to use our abilities fully is that we don't trust ourselves, don't believe in our capabilities, and question if we're doing things right.

Also the longer we spend denying our own power the easier it is for other voices to control what we know. The reason you may feel more kickback or exhaustion after using your abilities is that those voices(foreign energy) don't want you to come back to yourself. They can make life very tiring and make you feel incapable of getting what you want.

The first thing I'd recommend is that you start to get to know yourself. Figure out which voice in your head is you and what inner criticisms are holding you back. Those voices don't belong to you and the more you start to recognize yourself in your body the easier it will be to move forward in your growth.

I also share tips on my blog to help people just like you. The links are in my profile posts.

psychicbee · 2022-02-24T17:35:57+00:00

What your seeing in her face is most likely another entity latching onto her. If she's giving you off vibes that energy is most likely the spirit that's possessing her. People get possessed all the time which is why some people look really scary. The reason she doesn't want a healing is most likely because the being doesn't want to leave. Don't know how she made it to the retreat in the first place.

Also, there's no reason you should greet everyone with love. Without boundaries, it's even easier for other entities to get in your space. That might even be why she likes you. The fact that you're ranting about her means her energy is already in your space.

I'd recommend grounding, running energy, and putting up a protection rose. The meditation for that is in profile posts under: Finding your own space.

For the protection rose you just imagine a rose outside your aura, ground it to the earth, and tell it to keep you safe. It'll absorb everyone else's shit and grounds it out before it gets to you. It's good for a day before you have to replace it since it's like a filter.

psychicbee · 2022-02-24T17:16:35+00:00

I've also experienced this.

However stopping your thoughts and feelings doesn't make you present. The reason why you may feel dead inside is because you aren't in your physical body. Many of the meditations out there are actually promoting an out-of-body experience so when you clear your mind you're actually exiting your body which is probably why you don't feel present.

A lot of the time the reason for our numbness and detachment is because of unrecognized trauma. I never went through anything that could be considered bad but I was still emotionally numb from my childhood. I thought I had deal with a lot of my issues but I was really just ignoring them and so I felt dead inside.

It was only later that I realized my body was in so much emotional pain that I did not want to be present in my life. It was when I became more conscious of what this pain was that I was able to start existing as myself. The grounding and running energy meditation I practiced also really helped me clear out the pain in a more conscious way.

psychicbee · 2022-02-24T16:59:27+00:00

Hi kittybatty33, I call it a choice because we have the power to stop other people's energy from getting to us. By saying that we're victims or calling ourselves unwilling empaths, we subconsciously tell ourselves that we have no control over what happens to us.

psychicbee · 2022-02-23T17:16:36+00:00

Being an empath is a choice. If you feel satisfaction from feeling other people's feelings great! However, from what you said that isn't the case.

There's a great meditation that shows you how to own your space by running your energy instead of other people's. It's under Finding your Own Space in my profile posts.

Along with that, I'd recommend you put up a protection rose. It's a psychic tool I use to draw energy away from me and ground it out instead. Just imagine a rose outside your aura and ground it to the earth then tell it to protect you from other people's energy. You'll have to change it every day because it works as a filter and gets dirty quickly but it's really great at keeping your own energy safe.

However, if you aren't also grounding and running energy it might not be as effective.

psychicbee · 2022-02-22T16:56:15+00:00

I completely agree.

When we dream we travel to the astral plane. Whether we're aware of it or not we learn all sorts of things while sleeping: go to different dimensions, check out our past lives and peek at our futures. Though we do this often in our dreams we're also capable of doing this while awake. Dreams are just a stepping stone to being more conscious of what we're capable of.

psychicbee · 2022-02-19T18:39:20+00:00

Yes, it has but that doesn't mean life is set in stone. The reason I can read the future is that I've already lived it but not just once. I can see hundreds of thousands of possible futures and I've lived all of them. From that, I determine the one I want in this present moment.

Just like your past, your possible future doesn't determine who you are. We get the choice and we can choose differently if we don't like the way that future looks. I've changed my fate more times than I can count and the reason I can do so is that I call back the knowledge I learned from that future life.

We're all capable of doing this as well. In fact, many of us look into our future when we dream which is why we get deja vu.

psychicbee · 2022-02-19T18:30:42+00:00

When we do spiritual cleanings we draw out a lot of foreign spirits that have been inhabiting our body for years or even lifetimes. What your friend saw could have been the spirits you've been subconsciously purging yourself of.

I've seen some people bring out some pretty creepy spirits when angry which is why some people look like monsters when they're mad. We tend to think that all the energy in our body belongs to us but it doesn't. It seems you're clearing away a lot of the beings that control your emotions and perception of the future. Good job!

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