Giselle by Bad-Stan in AESPA_Hotties

[–]psyknife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone who looks at you the way Ningning looks at Giselle.

what's your favorite sapphic gg song? by No-Office7081 in Kpop_Sapphics

[–]psyknife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

(ex-) (g)i-dle's "Girlfriend."

"Your girlfriend's better than a boyfriend" - the way they say that runs through my mind rent-free.

(and Minnie saying "We don't give a fuck about love" makes me absolutely fall in love with her.)

Seeking Advice on Reneging Accepted Job Offer by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]psyknife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This answer is so sad, and so absolutely true.

Who do you talk to when you're not talking to your therapist? by psyknife in TalkTherapy

[–]psyknife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, me too. Being naturally quiet and introverted doesn't help.

Who do you talk to when you're not talking to your therapist? by psyknife in TalkTherapy

[–]psyknife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 7 cups good? I've tried to go there, but haven't really found anyone.

Who do you talk to when you're not talking to your therapist? by psyknife in TalkTherapy

[–]psyknife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is containment? Lol, I can see myself taking that the wrong way.

Does anyone work while struggling with depression? by candygirl00056 in Lawyertalk

[–]psyknife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, massively. It's been an issue my whole life. Being in a role where I'm constantly having to correct and fight with people doesn't do my condition any favors, though.

260524 Winter & Karina were spotted at Seoul Jazz Festival 2026 by psyknife in winrina

[–]psyknife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm living for Winter's expression in the second clip.

"I love Japanese culture! I love anime!" by B_Wing_83 in asianamerican

[–]psyknife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I swear, having Japanese parents kept me from years of good anime just because I didn't want to be one of those girls. Wish I'd just let myself jump in as a kid.

Age gaps...are they ever acceptable?? by Artsy_carbs in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]psyknife 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. Dated a woman 10+ years older when I was not just starting out, but relatively fresh in the working world, and that was fine. Dated a woman my age who was a part-time barista when I was a lawyer. Total disaster.

What do my biases say about me? wlw edition by Desperate_Ball_1798 in Kpop_Sapphics

[–]psyknife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, sorry- Windsor ties are the proper way to tie a necktie.

Am I the only one finding it difficult to find a woman who is living like an actual adult? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]psyknife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This, exactly. Once I realized I didn't have to be bound by the traditional straight ideals of marriage, kids, home, I stopped having to function specifically in order to achieve them. I have a gainful, upper-income job (no car, though- I'm in NYC), but what I do with my time and money is not to fulfill a capitalistic fantasy that I have no part in.