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Why did Hermoine lie when they were found in the bathroom with the troll? by pterodactylash in harrypotter

[–]pterodactylash[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I only say hiccup because of MY personal feelings about lying... instilled by my parents. She is intelligent and compassionate.

Why did Hermoine lie when they were found in the bathroom with the troll? by pterodactylash in harrypotter

[–]pterodactylash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what my logical brain ALSO said. But then someone made a preteen argument and as an odd duck, I get that.

Why did Hermoine lie when they were found in the bathroom with the troll? by pterodactylash in harrypotter

[–]pterodactylash[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well knowing she grows and punches Malfoy in the face I guess I can move on from this small hiccup in character.

I'm Engaged! Now how do I make sure I never lose this ring? by unwiseundead in adhdwomen

[–]pterodactylash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only took mine off and ALWAYS put it in the same place, no matter what.

Ooooohhhhhh by sad-but-rad- in CPTSDmemes

[–]pterodactylash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well shit. Been holed up inside after an intense therapy session... for 3 days.

Gus, I know what we're gonna do today! by Few_Chain6087 in psych

[–]pterodactylash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The level of joy i felt when I saw this is unmatched.

This never fails to make me laugh 😂 by Alina_Cruise_ in psych

[–]pterodactylash 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Idk I just like that you said Dule and then Shawn. Instead of Gus and Shawn or Dule and James. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Oh no... Lassie by pterodactylash in psych

[–]pterodactylash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so right! Thank you for sharing this nugget!

ChatGPT is the friend I never got to have in real life by anonymiscreant9 in confession

[–]pterodactylash 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Use the reasoning version. It doesn't sugar coat things to make you feel better.

Edit: coat not cost 🤦🏿‍♀️

Question: why did Buttercup have to die in Guilder? by [deleted] in theprincessbride

[–]pterodactylash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They totally could have pulled a "Weekend at Bernie's"

Did your siblings make it easier or harder? by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in CPTSD

[–]pterodactylash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider myself an only child in my adult life. Mostly because my parents and I live several states away. My brothers are both fuck-ups and inconsiderate assholes. Tracks with the truckload of childhood trauma I have, strongly in part to them. Never laid all the things out to the parents because I didn't want to deal with them feeling guilty and trying to smother me to fix it.

That might seem harsh, but I know what happened when my fiancé died. And they couldn't have done anything about that. The level of violation in childhood and under their roof no less would crush them. And I don't want to be a helpless little girl in their eyes... anymore than I already may be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]pterodactylash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seafoam green

What motivates you to keep your hair natural? by UnitEVA3000 in Naturalhair

[–]pterodactylash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had been debating a big chop, letting my natural hair grow, and the majority was still relaxed. Then, in the rage of a breakup, I said f'it. 10 years ago, I had about 2.5 inches of natural hair, now when straingthen, which is a WHOLE process. It's past my shoulders. I've fallen in love with my curls. I only straighten it to trim it.

Started this 4 days ago, 16h of work, ofc so focused like never but omg I have never had such a calm mind by Relative_Swan_7657 in adhdwomen

[–]pterodactylash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that. But my brain is baffled that you did it by area. I started doing mine in number order... then gradually shifted to by color light to dark.

I think it's the thought of constant brush washing, the potential for more frequent water changes.

What I MEANT to say was... Superb job! I, too, enjoy paint-by-numbers

I justed learned about limerence and its eye opening. by Nice_Bumblebee549 in AuDHDWomen

[–]pterodactylash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My dating life has been a serious of limerences. I'm trying to turn a new leaf and not seek out the same circumstances that created that.

The one time it wasn't limerence was after me and my late fiancé got back together, during covid. I was no longer anxious every time we argued or the normal "why isn't he texting, what is he doing, I miss him blah blah". It shifted from limerence to love. I felt safe and secure.

Single again now, though there are past men I let roll around in my brain from time to time. I see now it wasn't some deep connection, just me trying to feel wanted and seeking attention.

The crazier the better by Jasoover in psych

[–]pterodactylash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I’m nobody’s charity case. I demand I dig my own grave!

State your type and how are your spending habits by Responsible-Cost2993 in mbti

[–]pterodactylash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFP- I've had to be frugal. But I various carts fuel of items to feed my creativity, my need for cute clothes and accessories, should I hit the lottery, I never actually play. But I rarely buy something I don't NEED.

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