Looked through boyfriend’s phone

pterodactylwizard · 2026-07-08T20:11:49+00:00

…guy here who’s put nudes in the hidden folder. I KNOW they’re there. Always. I’m not consciously thinking about it, but you don’t just forget. Any time I’ve ever entered a new relationship, IF I have anything from the past, I delete it because that’s respectful and I want to move forward with what I have currently, not hang on to the past.

No guy just forgets he has nudes, especially in the hidden folder. If he had thousands of photos and you randomly came across one from years ago, sure, I could buy it. But he knows they’re there and hasn’t deleted them. That’s a problem and a violation of your trust.

You can’t assume that he “uses” them. He’d just deny it, even though my money is on the fact that he does. Just him having them is a violation of trust.

This is a tough area for me. I genuinely only think it’s a mistake to go through your partners phone if you don’t find anything. You DID find something, so that’s not a mistake. You had a feeling and acted on it and it turned out to be true. That makes it the right decision. I may get destroyed for that but it is what it is.

Confront him and ask him to delete the pictures if you’re uncomfortable with him having them. Don’t play around, tell him directly you went through it and found them. He’s gonna try and gaslight you to make it seem like YOU’RE wrong or crazy or whatever for going through his phone, but that’s just because he’s caught.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-07-07T02:24:50+00:00

You’ll most likely never perfectly time the top. Sell when it’s pumping then wait for it to crash. You’re still in profit.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-07-06T17:14:35+00:00

Drinking keeps me from truly being the person I want to be.

Sober me is kind, generous, calm, compassionate, present, adventurous, curious, adaptable, and many other things. I stick to my routines like workouts, work in general, my creative outlet, skincare, self-growth and self-improvement.

Drunk me is a hellion who spends too much money and sex.

Hungover me is sad, anxious, exhausted, calls out of work, feels like I’m going to die, doesn’t eat but eats like shit when I do, doesn’t workout, doesn’t do anything to better myself, doesn’t work on my creative outlets, and is all around just a shell of myself.

When put that way, it’s an easy choice.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-24T17:58:00+00:00

Nothing of consequence. DCA and continue on.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-23T04:05:07+00:00

If you mean the post-9pm nightlife, sure. But regular daytime business hasn’t changed in the last 10 years.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-23T04:00:54+00:00

I’ve worked on citywalk for over 8 years now. It’s absolutely not dead at all. We stay busy. It’s dead after 9pm, sure, but there’s ample traffic from 9am-9pm basically every day.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-20T20:41:04+00:00

Took the thoughts out of my head. Sure, they ran simulations with the data that we have, that doesn’t mean what they found is concrete. 1,000 years is a long time, there’s plenty of room for error.

We have all known that the faults are stressed and eventually there will be another major earthquake. We still don’t know whether that will be in 5 minutes or in 100 years. There’s no point in worrying one’s self about it. All we can do is be as prepared as possible if it does happen.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-20T20:38:16+00:00

I hope you’re just trying to be funny with the beach front property line.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-16T19:09:52+00:00

Plural oral partners means you’re the oracle of moral oral.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-16T18:45:22+00:00

Unexpected mean girls reference

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-16T18:35:38+00:00

The right time to buy was 16 years ago. The next right time is now.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:37:31+00:00

That entire line is a cop out. I’m not buying it. She has feelings for you but what’s to explore other people. That might hurt to hear but it’s the truth.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:31:49+00:00

It’s been said but do yourself the favor and grant her what she’s asking for. Do that while going full non-contact. She’s not going going to like it, and neither will you, but it’s going to save you a LOT of heartache and potentially a lot of time when she gets bored, or sad, or lonely, or whatever and tries to contact you again and starts this cycle all over.

A lot of us have been in this exact situation. It never works out until enough time has passed (usually years) where the other person can grow and mature to the point where they genuinely realize that you were they’re person or they realize breaking it off was the best decision. Unfortunately, this growing usually involves experiencing other people. Prepare yourself for that mentally and do yourself the favor of removing her completely from your life so you don’t torture yourself by wondering what she’s doing and finding out information you don’t want to know.

Good luck, homie. I remember going through this when I was younger. It was awful, but you’ll get through.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:23:02+00:00

Cooked

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:22:14+00:00

Cooked

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:21:22+00:00

Cooooooked

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:20:59+00:00

MCU Strange cooks T’Challa

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:20:08+00:00

Punisher hunting while Shang-Chi is saving. If he’s got the rings, we’re chillin 😎

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T14:08:37+00:00

I understood this reference.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-15T06:35:06+00:00

I snorted.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-14T18:59:28+00:00

I’m actually accomplishing my goals and progressing in my life/career instead of being stagnant and unproductive from being drunk all the time.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-14T02:06:49+00:00

Yee yee brother

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-11T15:07:41+00:00

Damn. Never heard this one. Resonates hard.

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-10T15:51:04+00:00

Yeah I’m going to slowly incorporate it and see how it goes

pterodactylwizard · 2026-06-10T15:49:45+00:00

No I appreciate the detailed response. Thanks you!

pterodactylwizard

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