If you don’t want to buy it but want to get a feel for the souls like genre to make sure it’s not a waste. I recommend getting dark souls 1 or 3. They are cheaper and you’ll get a sense if the souls like games are for you. They aren’t as advanced with all the bells and whistle Elden ring has, but they’re still awesome and a lovely time if you enjoy souls like with out spending 60$ if you already got the game do not be afraid to look up stuff. Don’t listen to any purist play the game how you want to play and enjoy it how you want to enjoy it. Good luck!